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hey,
He may be lying and he may not be.you can focus on the negative voices in your head so you will stop NC from doing the main purpose of it of making you a happy confident person,or you can focus on your life and let yourself to decide at the right time.
I don’t think if judging would be a good idea.you met him 2 weeks ago and its not that long since he said those good things to you.itsI know exactly how you feel cuz i have been there before.i used to overanalyze his words and actions and i kept thinking that he was just trying to keep me in his life and every time it really freaked me out and i did what i shouldn’t have.so don’t overanalyze anything about him.
Its really up to you whether to believe him or not.kevin says most of the times when it comes to break ups,moving on is the best decision but there are still some people who want to give it a try and endure the pain.
I was one of those people and i don’t feel bad about it.there is nothing left for me to regret about and there is no i should have..,could have.. or anything.Its been only 2 months and if i were you,i wouldn’t let it go just now.
Be strong and concentrate on yourself and i really wish you all the best.Thank you very much guys.
He texted me and said he hates my future boyfriend,fiance and my husband out of nowhere :O
I didn’t say anything and again
He said: i feel really bad and the breakup affected me so bad and if i start a new relationship ever again,i won’t do anything to hurt her like i did to you.get on with your life and never think about a future with me.everything is torturing me.i’m sorry i love you:********************
I have no idea what the hell he is thinking.
I feel Goddamn rejected.hey,
start NC for 2-3 months.follow the plan and make positive changes in your life.you need to impress him and he should see the positive changes in your life so you can attract him again.
I think you do have a chance.
Sign up to kevin’s email series it’ll really help you.Don’t think about what she might be thinking and Don’t overanalyze her words.
Don’t try to read her mind cuz you can’t.doesn’t matter what she says,even if she told you to move on,its normal and hopefully you can change it later.
Even if she is ok with NC right now,don’t worry.that doesn’t mean that she will absolutely feel this way forever.
You should follow the plan.Its ok,its already done so don’t think about it.
Start NC and she will forget the bad memories and also the needy picture of you so hopefully she will begin to miss you.
Don’t break NC,and make positive changes in your life,work on your life,improve it and try to be happy,confident and positive.
You need to impress her with the changes later then you can attract her again.
Don’t show obsession over your ex or anything about her and don’t stalk her.
Avoid any negative thought and focus on your life.
NC is an important part of the plan.and the most important part of NC is about YOU.you should help yourself and improve your life and feel really happy.
Follow the plan and it will definitely increase your chances.
Best of luckI really wish you the best.
I know i kinda pushed him away,but i was sure he didn’t want to get back.otherwise he wouldn’t have said those things about not getting back together.
I know he missed me or misses me or whatever but he is not thinking about getting back with me.
I’m gonna meet him soon.lets see what happens.Hey,
You are already doing great.i personally couldn’t think the way you do during the first days of my post break up.Continue NC for 30 days.work on yourself and make positive changes in your life.if you are friends on FB or any social media,use it to show her that you are doing great in your life.be happy and confident,go out and try to have a good time,do what you always wanted to do,go on dates,focus on your life and improve it……
If she keeps contacting you during NC,tell her that both of you need some space.
Don’t worry about anything,she will forget the bad memories and she will begin to miss you during this time.Follow the plan and you will feel better and it absolutely will increase your chances.
Good luck
Joe,
He never asked me to get back.like i said,he told me that he loves me but he can’t be with me cuz he can’t handle any more argument.
I believe i have changed alot.but i don’t think if thats the real reason for him not to get back with me.And also its been more than 5 months and i really don’t know what will happen if we ever get back together and i feel kinda scared when i think about it.i really love him and i believe there will be times that i’m gonna miss him like crazy but i really tried.even though i know he has so many issues like family issues ,financial issues …. but i wanted this to work so i have been waiting and trying the whole 5 months.I think thats enough.if he doesn’t want to be with me,i need to let him go.
If she doesn’t have one,she may not find out about it.but you can add mutual friends.but if you are doing that,be positive and follow what kevin said about it.
Don’t overanalyze her words.just be cool and act like friends.i don’t think if she’ll ask your idea about that guy.but even if she does,just be cool.never say anything bad about him and be positive.
You should definitely focuz on your positive changes and act like friends.
Don’t rush things and also don’t continue the falsefriendship for a long time.
You should do your best during 3 months.and its ok to meet her once a month.
