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Its ok.now you know you did everything you could and you can be at peace. From now on, don’t blame anything on yourself.just let everything go and live your life. It may get tough at times but you’re gonna love how strong you are.
If you guys are meant to be, you’re gonna end up together sooner or later.
If it makes you get rid of feeling guilty,go ahead and text him.
I kinda fill He may start asking you for favours soon again but Just let him know that you have accepted that the relationship’s ended, appologize ,wish him the best and restart NC.Please don’t send the text. Its understandable that your getting some prospective of what you might have done wrong during the relationship so you can improve yourself dor your future relationships ( with or without him ) .You’re mind is out of the panic mode and you can see your mistakes but you should remember his mistakes as well.
I think any msg you send him,makes him think that your life is miserable without him.You don’t need to appologize remember you reacted that way cuz you were fed up.
Continue NC and love yourself first.
hey,
If you sleep with your dates just for the heck of it and if it doesn’t make you feel bad after its all over, well then its ok but if you find yourself feeling any negative emotions, stop it. The main reason to start dating others is for us to know that there are other people out there that are into us and our ex isn’t the only option.
The most important part of it all is for us to work on our self-esteem and become a happy confident person again. If anything’s getting in the way of that, you should avoid it.
You’re right.Thank you so much for your words xoxo Yeah I do believe that everything is gonna be fine.
You’re right but I don’t look for a relationship or anything. I told them about my situation so nobody’s gonna get hurt. I actually liked one guy.we had so much fun and we had really nice conversations,we went out twice but to me, it was like I was out with a friend.thinking about anything physical makes me wanna die. He seems to understand me but I just don’t know if I should continue this. I try to look at all this as just fun but I guess it only makes me remember how much I loved my ex and if this continues, I’m gonna have to stop for a while.
I keep telling myself that I deserve to be happy but my heart is still broken and I think I’ve done everthing I should have so only time can heal it now.
No not really. Haven’t heard anything from him but its ok I’m nit waiting for him to come back anymore. I went on a few dates, I hang out with friends and family, I keep myself busy but I’m still hurt. I guess I need some time.
Hey,
Its your decision to make and nobody else can make it for you but I think 5 months of break out of 8 years of relationship is ok. You guys went through ups and downs but overall, your relationship was a good one.I think what happened with you guys was really heart breaking but could happen to anyone and now that you both are healed and if YOU still do have feelings for him,I think its worth it to give it another try.
If you decide to give him another chance, take everything slow,show him the new you and let him say that he wants you back.
About his family, let him know that you’re still hurt. You guys can talk and find a way to deal with it.
Its all normal and I’m so sorry about what you’re going through I know exactly how much it hurts its actually one of my biggest fears. Eventhough I don’t want him back, thinking of him with someone else mdrives me crazy but you know what? Right now, they are not with us so they have every right to date anyone they want. Just focus on yourself and don’t let her cause you any more pain. No human in the world’s worth it.
I know right? Thats what I kept telling myself 2,3 weeks ago but it got so much better. Time really does heal.
yeah I’m sure everything will be fine in the end.
Don’t think about negative things. Of course other women are gonna wanna talk to you. If you can’t find yourself a date immediately, just go out and have fun with your friends. Do anything that makes you feel better.
