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Apologize for what? That will not fix anything. He is the one who needs to regret and apologize to make a change.
Anyways are they your dates or one night stand? It’s ok to do it but I hope you are protecting yourself. No oral and condom lol. You know catching an std just because you are desperate is not cute. I’m surprised you are sleeping with every boy who buys you a meal. Having sex on the first date makes you look easy and less valued. Please love yourself. Like AZ said you are doing NC to gain your self esteem and value. Not to be the talk of the town. I hope you stop that for now and do it later on. Don’t make it look like you are needy and devastated after the break up. And don’t take this behavior as a copping method. + your ex might find out and never get back to you.
Yeah I’m not meeting guys for a while! Lol. I have typed a message out to him. Without sending it obviously
I’m sorry for the way I was last time we spoke. I feel really bad for speaking to you the way I did, it wasn’t fair. I’m sorry if you felt crap or whatever cos of me and I know I gave you shit, which again I really shouldn’t have. Been thinkin about the stuff I’ve said to you a lot and I’m really really sorry. I hope you forgive me.
That’s it.
Wow thats nice. Maybe you should send it if it will make you feel better. Do you expect something out of this text?
Please don’t send the text. Its understandable that your getting some prospective of what you might have done wrong during the relationship so you can improve yourself dor your future relationships ( with or without him ) .You’re mind is out of the panic mode and you can see your mistakes but you should remember his mistakes as well.
I think any msg you send him,makes him think that your life is miserable without him.You don’t need to appologize remember you reacted that way cuz you were fed up.
Continue NC and love yourself first.
I wasn’t innocent. And he tried to tell me that and I had none of it. I hate how bad things ended
If it makes you get rid of feeling guilty,go ahead and text him.
I kinda fill He may start asking you for favours soon again but Just let him know that you have accepted that the relationship’s ended, appologize ,wish him the best and restart NC.I completely understand az post. Shes right, but I went through something like that. It’s hard not to apologize and move on. When my breakup was fresh I felt super guilty with my ex’s mother. I said so many mean true things about her and his brother. I told everything to his brother’s baby mother. She betrayed me and sent screenshots of everything I said. The guiltness wasn’t letting me forget them. I felt so bad that i hurt her. I did sent apologetic texts to her. And I have never contacted her again. Matter of fact, I still see her as a witch. I know it’s different because it’s your ex not his family, but every relationship is different. I can’t say what worked for my mind will work for you. And you are welcome to make mistakes like everyone here. We are not saints and stick to our words. We are all humans with feelings.
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