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August 29, 2018 at 7:56 pm #109513
From May to the end of August. They should give us more days off.
Im from NYC and there is a heat wave here. Im dying, even my AC doesn’t keep cool.
How old are you? Im guessing you are in your 20s.
August 29, 2018 at 8:15 pm #109514It’s gone sooo cold here so I’m jealoussss. I’m 22
August 29, 2018 at 9:25 pm #109515Nooo I’m jelous. Today It went above 90°F. Oh 22 so close. Damn it I’m 3 years older. I can say that nothing special will come in the 20-25. Maybe if we are lucky we meet our soulmate before 30. I doubt it though.
In college I find everyboy immature, unattractive, or ugly. I just can’t like another boy. I think it will be hard to find another man who knows me as well as my ex. Does it happens to you? That you can’t see other than your ex.
August 30, 2018 at 5:05 am #109516Yeah to me he is perfect. But I do find people attractive nonetheless!
Idk what it is with him, I know I keep saying it but I highly doubt I’ll hear from him againAugust 30, 2018 at 6:54 am #109517If you keep your expectations low, you will be surprised later on. I do think it will happen every girl I know rarely gets rid of the ex for good. Why would you be the exception.
August 30, 2018 at 6:59 am #109518Hahaha very true! Can only hope I suppose
August 30, 2018 at 7:45 am #109519Well don’t hope. That wont let you move on. Instead keep going solo. Be happy and enjoy every moment of your life. They say the worst revenge is to be happy. Forgive your ex and try to let the feelings go. That’s the best thing to do right now.
August 30, 2018 at 8:00 am #109520That’s so true! I do forgive him and just bag will be will be
August 31, 2018 at 6:43 pm #109543I miss him a little less today. How’s school going? And your exes contact?
August 31, 2018 at 7:24 pm #109544I only have class on Monday and Wednesday. And my ex didn’t contact for two days. Yesterday he sent a chain msg waiting for me to initiate contact but I ignored. He knows I hate receiving those msg. He contacted today. I don’ know what to think, but I know he loved me alot. Although he might never come back.
They will still be days that you will miss him but just keep strong. How have you been?
September 1, 2018 at 9:08 pm #109550I just feel riddled with guilt, the last time he needed money it was for his daughter. And I point blank said he isn’t my problem and all this stuff, and I feel really bad
September 2, 2018 at 5:53 am #109554It’s ok don’t feel guilty. His new gf probably gave him the money he needed. You don’t have to continue acting like his gf and doing him favors. You are the ex now. You must think like the ex and stop putting him as a victim. He didn’t care to break you heart: Why would you care for him now?
September 2, 2018 at 9:36 pm #109555That’s so true. I guess I’ll always care for him.
I had another date last night, someone different, I ended up in bed with them and they asked me to leave theirs at 1:45am so they could go out hahaSeptember 3, 2018 at 4:06 am #109556hey,
If you sleep with your dates just for the heck of it and if it doesn’t make you feel bad after its all over, well then its ok but if you find yourself feeling any negative emotions, stop it. The main reason to start dating others is for us to know that there are other people out there that are into us and our ex isn’t the only option.
The most important part of it all is for us to work on our self-esteem and become a happy confident person again. If anything’s getting in the way of that, you should avoid it.
September 3, 2018 at 5:12 am #109557Very true! I’m okay with casual sex.
I am however feeling strange about my ex still. I feel like I did things wrong as well, whereas at first I blamed him solely.
I miss him. It’s 2 weeks NC. I want to apologise. -
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