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    leidy1000
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    So my first day was great. I learned what I had to. Even though I was 30 mins late looking for parking. Can you believe I got stuck to pay $25 parking for 2 hours? Next time Im riding the subway haha. I have soo much homework to hand in on Wednesday.

    My ex hasn’t contact me today because I think hes playing the missing game. Anyways yesterday I straight him up by telling him I block people who take forever to text back. He said no don’t do it. He started answering me in seconds. He reminded me how we were always together and inlove. I said well it still didn’t work. He said only God knows why because I don’t. That liar I know his mother was the one brainwashing him against me. He will never say it was her because he loves his mother too much. Anyways we flirted alittle yesterday. He even said I haven’t cooked for him in a long time. 😉 Im surprised his sharing his thoughts.

    How are you doing? Did you contact your date yet?

    #109497
    mariahbalenciaga
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    $25 for parking?! Wowwwww that’s steep, at least the homework will give you something to focus on though! I wonder why your ex is playing games with you, like you’ve been through so much together you’d think he’d realise that mind games don’t work!

    No I didn’t, I only wanted sex from him tbh. I started talking to someone yesterday, and theyre seeming sweet so hopefully!

    #109498
    leidy1000
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    Oh I forgot to tell you. I told my ex that I was invited and im going to a date with a boy I met. I don’t know if that had anything to do but he just contacted me.

    Omg that was so me a month after my break up. On my situation my ex actually satisfied that. It’s crazy but I haven’t been with another man. I can’t imagine what It will feel like. Although one day I have to do it with another. I wish you luck with those dates haha. When is your first day of class?

    #109500
    mariahbalenciaga
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    It’s weird with another guy cos I still have feelings for my ex.

    Was talking a little freaky with someone today and they’re just a sweetheart anyway, complimenting me all the time saying they like everything about me. My ex never did that.

    I do still miss him but maybe one day we will speak again. How’re you?

    I have an urge to text him and idk why

    #109501
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Should i ever be the one to initiate contact with him?

    #109503
    leidy1000
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    Don’t text him. He has another girl. Don’t disturb her relationship. If he feels like speaking to you he will. Otherwise do not initiate any type of contact.

    I swear those sad feelings will be numb one day. You will be happy with anything the future throws at you.

    Maybe you just did it too soon with another guy. Im definitely taking everything slow. I don’t want to make any mistakes on another relationship.

    I’m doing fine thank you. I have finally finished my homework. 🙂 Have to hand it in tomorrow…about my ex story last night after my post he contacted me. I was falling asleep and he wanted to start a conversation he said ” let me see.” I sent a sleepy emoji and he sent me many goodnights and one msg saying ill let u sleep. I woke up and found it so sweet. So I ended up initiating conversation today. I told him hes so sweet and he sent a smiled a goodmorning. After that I started ignoring him. How did I do that? I feel abit stupid. Why I’m I making him smile? I’m a flirt I can’t help but do it.

    #109504
    mariahbalenciaga
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    I think you and your ex should definitely talk it out, he seems to have really strong feelings for you.

    Idk, do you think we’ll ever speak again?

    #109505
    leidy1000
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    He does seem interested but Im afraid he will reject me again. Im just going to leave things like it is. Lets see where this goes.

    Yes I do believe your ex will talk to you. I don’t believe he can move on fast.

    #109506
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Last time we spoke he “did care but just met someone else”

    #109507
    leidy1000
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    That’s a weird excuse. He will make you blame the other girl. He won’t forget you. Where do you see yourself in 6months?

    #109508
    mariahbalenciaga
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    He is weird. Hopefully I’ll be happy. How’re you?

    #109509
    leidy1000
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    Exhausted haha. Had class, work, and an appointment with my mother. I saw myself moving on by 6 months. It’s almost 6 months and I haven’t moved on. I have the mindset but idk. Don’t see myself with anyone else.

    You start class next week right?

    #109510
    mariahbalenciaga
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    I start on September 24th 🙁 I’m on vacation next week so hopefully will be a well deserved break. I miss him terribly.

    I can’t wait for the exhaustion of college work and assignments lol! I just don’t feel like I did with him, he made me happy. And I can’t see how he won’t forget me

    #109511
    leidy1000
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    You can’t see that because right now you feel little. Your self esteem is lower. You have to try to recover it. Im sure he loved you as much as we think. I know you miss him so much because you really loved him, but things happen. Every beginning has an ending. This was the end of that chapter in your life. Now you decide what will your next chapter be. Sooner or later you will hear from your ex. I hope you let me know if he contacts you.

    You had a long summer break. Where you from?

    #109512
    mariahbalenciaga
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    I am from the United Kingdom! We are off on vacations from May-September! I will definitely let you know, how long are you guys off?

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