Boards Reconciliation Is it too late for NC?

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  • #109116
    mariahbalenciaga
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    I just miss him. Do you think there’s any chance at all for a second chance? He hugged me when I picked my stuff up my stuff, said see you later maybe, that he loved me. So confused.

    Do I hang on to hope or just forget him?

    #109117
    leidy1000
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    You don’t have to forget him. Just like he said maybe we will see later. Chances are 50/50. You are on the right track. NC is the only way to let time speak.

    #109121
    mariahbalenciaga
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    NC day 3 now. Idk how I feel. When does it get easier?

    #109122
    leidy1000
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    You broke NC?? Is not getting easier for you because you are too sad about the break up. You must think that you guys were meant to be. You feel sad he is losing a good woman for confusion. Oh and your ex is stringing you along. Hes acting all confused with you but in reality he is sure he doesn’t want to be with you. Please bring him off that pedestal. He doesn’t want you and end of the story.

    Im sure you have had many boyfriends. You can move on to the next one. Theres life after him. I hope you stay strong and don’t break this NC. Show us the strong woman you are. 🙂

    #109123
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Yeah I will. I’ll update if he ever messages me again

    #109124
    leidy1000
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    Trust me he will. Sooner or later he will.

    #109127
    mariahbalenciaga
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    If he texts me, and it’s not asking for stuff, do I still ignore it?

    #109128
    a.z
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    Hey,

    You shouldn’t answer him unless compeletely necessary. Don’t break NC for atlest 1 month. Things will get better.

    #109130
    mariahbalenciaga
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    I hope he does want me back.

    #109131
    a.z
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    I understand you and I wish u all the best luck in the world. Everything is possible.

    #109133
    mariahbalenciaga
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    He’s text me just now asking if I can pay his phone credit. So fed up.

    #109134
    a.z
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    Just ignore him. He already knows what he’s doing is wrong you don’t need to tell him so.

    #109135
    mariahbalenciaga
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    The last time I went NC he threatened to block my number. He wanted my PayPal. I said no. He said he was worried something had happened to me.

    #109136
    a.z
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    I didn’t quite get it. Why would anything happen to you if you said no to him?
    Amyways, don’t worry. If he wants to block you because you don’t give him money, let him.If he really loves you he’ll come get you. I mean come on, asking for money again and again is not ok even during a relationship. Don’t let him think he can break your heart and still use the advantages of having a relationship with you.

    Please be strong and ignore him. He may realise his mistakes and try to make it up to you in the future but right now you should just be strong and focus on yourself.

    Don’t worry about his reaction to this.

    #109137
    mariahbalenciaga
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    I’m gonna move on. If he ever wants me back it’ll take so much to prove it. And even then might not be enough. Thank you for the advice. Will update when necessary (or when I feel like messaging him lol)

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