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  • #109138
    leidy1000
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    Wow you ex sounds like a free loader and needs a job ASAP. Do yourself a favor and block him for a while. If he wants you back is because he will use you for money. Let him grow up.

    #109140
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Kind of processing the sad side of it.

    He treats me worse than dirt
    He says he cares but doesn’t
    I’m nothing to him except a meal ticket
    We won’t get back together unless he changes and after today I’m not even sure I want to
    I don’t miss him I miss the person he pretended to be.

    #109141
    leidy1000
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    You are right. After a while you will get him off the pedestal and realize he wasn’t as kind as you thought.

    My ex didn’t do what your ex did. I was always blaming others for his doings. Then I realized hes the piece of **** who decided to do it. He is not even near to the man I thought he was.

    #109151
    mariahbalenciaga
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    I’ve been invited on a date on Friday by an old old friend. Idk if going is wise.

    #109153
    mr_the_ex
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    Why not go out? I think you summed up the situation pretty well up above. Is it bad to say I laughed out loud when you said he texted you to pay his phone credit? like.. “hey, I’m one a date with this other girl and can you pay my phone bill next week?”

    #109158
    a.z
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    whats wrong with going on a date? Take tjinhs slow and think of it like you’re just gonna have some fun. It will help with your self confidence but don’t think about having a relationship or don’t compare anyone to your ex it only makes you miss him more.

    #109159
    a.z
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    Things*

    #109160
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Yeah you’re right. I’m gonna go on my date

    #109163
    a.z
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    Hey how are you feeling?

    #109167
    mariahbalenciaga
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    I’m feeling okay today thank you. Just resonating that I do deserve better. And if he does want another try it’ll take a helllll of a lot to prove it. And I don’t honestly thing he has the clout to do it. I’m just trying not to think about him. Lol!

    How are you? Xx

    #109168
    a.z
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    You’re doing the right thing I’m glad you’re feeling better Xx

    I’m going through an emotional roller coaster but I’m ok, I know it will get easier in about a week or so.

    #109172
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Feeling really down today. I do miss him. Wish he’d change.

    #109173
    leidy1000
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    Im sorry you are in one of those down days. Keep up the good work by not contacting him. You can do it!

    #109174
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Thank you for the support. I have no urge to contact him. I just want him to change his mind.

    #109175
    leidy1000
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    Changing his mind doesn’t mean changing behavior. If by a chance he does want to change it will take time.

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