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If you already said that, I think you should just continue NC and please please don’t stalk her on social media. Don’t even look at her pics or don’t listen to the songs that reminds you of her. Don’t even get the smallest dosage of her. The most important part of NC is for you to become the best version of yourself and to prove that you’ll be fine without her in your life.
just tell her that you’ve been thinking and you’ve accepted the breakup. Apologize if you did anything crazy and wish her all the best. Whenever you start NC and continue it, it’ll undo any damage that you may have caused.
Hey stop checking her on social media. It only makes things more difficult for you. There’s no guarantee that their relationship will be over soon but whatever she’s doing is pretty much common in rebound relationships.
Don’t obsess over her life. Focus on yours and no matter how hard it all is right now, everything will get better soon.
Send the elephant in the room text and start NC. Stay strong and confident trust me you’ll be fine.
Hey,
Sorry for tha pain you must be going through but start NC and only talk to her when its necessary ( about your kid) keep the convo short and to the point. Don’t say anything about getting back together, the breakup or her new relationships. Continue NC for 2-3 months and see how things go.
Hey,
Continue the therapy everything will get better.
I know that gut wrenching pain when you know she’s with someone else but stay strong it’ll pass.
If she didn’t move on from you during the relationship and if your relationship was serious, its most likely a rebound relationship. Things tend to go so fast in rebounds but usually all that emotions will end real soon.
Continue NC, don’t stalk her on facebook( even unfriend her ), make positive changes in your life and try to become a happy confident person without her in your life. Just wait and remember the most important part of NC is about you not your ex.
You can contact her again after NC but please don’t talk to her for atleast 30 days.
Good luck
I said ” when he was madly in love with me ” but to be honest I don’t really think he’s ever truely loved me. You can’t love someone and torture them on porous. There’s only one love for a drug addict and thats the drug they use.
Hey @ariiiii ,
Thank you so much for your kind words x
I read your post and I really felt the pain and confusion cuz I’ve been through it for a very very long time.He texted me yesterday and broke my heart again I didn’t reply so he called like 10 times and then again started saying the meanest things. The thing is,Eventhough he broke my heart again, it was like a wake up call. He’s using and he won’t change.he doesn’t even wanna change and he’s not that strong to quit or else he would have when he was madly in Love with me. To me, yesterday was like a final wake up call. I still feel the pain but I don’t miss him. I’m not even mad at him.I feel like he’s a starnger now.I don’t know what exactly happened to me but he pushed me far far away that all of our memories seem so blurred. I think a part of my pain is because I’v lost a fantasy I built in my imagination .it still hurts but I’m really done with him and all the pain he’s caused me. I’m done with being verbally abused I’m fed up. This guy doen’t have a place in my heart and my life anymore. I’m sure someday soon I’ll wirte here that The pain is over.
About you’re situation, I’m not sure what happened to him but I’m kinda sure that he will be back. Just stay strong and confident. Don’t take anything personally cuz its definitely not you. I’m sure he will regret what he’s done Cuz that happened to me literally more than 100 times and I know these kind of behaviors perfectly.
You’re prolonging the process. Just resrat NC and don’t ask anyone anything about her.
I know its torture but you’re situation and his intentions are crystal clear and I’m sorry but I believe you need to be more reasonable.
You need to let it go atleast for now. If he’s ever to change and come back, he will.
Can I ask how old you guys are?
If he has access to any of your other accounts, cancel them all. Don’t let him abuse. He’s making it harder for you to move on. Just restart NC and don’t let him cause you any more pain.
Hey,
I totally understand you and it really sucks but please don’t look for the answers why your relationship ended cuz it only makes you more confused.it really hurts struggling to find out why and you probably will never know the real reason. Most of the times there isn’t even a logical reason when it comes to relationships and breakups.
I suggest you to start NC ASAP. you can still do no contact even if you live together. There’s an article about it in this website.
About the pain you’re going through, we’re all going through the same thing and its a nightmare but like you said, time heals.
He’s confused and he obviously still has strong feelings for you so you do have a chance. Just let him go and see the life without you. Start NC, continue it for atleast 30 days, make positive changes in your life and be sure that you’re gonna be fine no matter what.
Good luck
She won’t stay mad forever.Just give her some space and then after you finished NC,follow the 5step plan.
About missing her, unfortunately that’s the way it is for now but everything will get better soon.
Hey,
How old are you guys?
Start NC and continue it for atleast 30 days. She is confused and still hurt. She needs some time to forget the negative memories,remember the good ones and to start missing you and you need some time to heal and become the best version of yourself.
Continue NC and make positive changes in your life. Don’t worry about worry about messing up cuz its ok. NC will undo the damages.
Just stay positive and focus on yourself. Don’t talk to your mutual friends about her or the breakup,don’t stalk her on social media and even don’t look ar her pictures.remember the most important part of NC is about you not her.
Good luck
