Boards Reconciliation Is it too late for NC?

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  • #109288
    mariahbalenciaga
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    You are so so so strong.

    Do you guys think NC will make him miss me?

    #109297
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Had to break NC this morning as he used my bank card online. Cancelled card. He said he was sorry he did it because he was stranded. And what am I up to.

    #109298
    a.z
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    If he has access to any of your other accounts, cancel them all. Don’t let him abuse. He’s making it harder for you to move on. Just restart NC and don’t let him cause you any more pain.

    #109299
    a.z
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    Abuse you*

    #109300
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Everything was cancelled this morning x

    #109301
    a.z
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    Great! just focus on yourself and continue NC.

    #109302
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Will he ever come back. Or anything it’s torture

    #109303
    a.z
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    I know its torture but you’re situation and his intentions are crystal clear and I’m sorry but I believe you need to be more reasonable.

    You need to let it go atleast for now. If he’s ever to change and come back, he will.

    Can I ask how old you guys are?

    #109305
    leidy1000
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    Im so sorry Maria. That its terrible. Sorry to say but I think he doesn’t miss you. He is hurting you too much. Im sure you don’t love him like that but he is doing you wrong and is making you feel less. When humans feel not wanted they tend to beg to be wanted again. You are getting too needy. You need him just to satisfy your ego. You guys need to grow up. He needs a job and you need to learn not let men walk over you like that. He clearly doesn’t love you anymore. He knows that if he says maybe we will get back together, he can still use you.

    He loved you before but maybe his love went away little by little way before the break up. Who knows what happened but we don’t have the answers. We just suppose by his actions, and right now he’s very mean to you.

    Again Im sorry for the harsh words, but this is reality. I don’t want him to keep hurting you.

    #109311
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Love you all xxx

    #109312
    mariahbalenciaga
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    I don’t care anymore if he misses me. Only time will tell.

    He stole from me and that just shows that regardless of his feelings for me, he doesn’t respect me

    #109315
    leidy1000
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    Im so glad you are opening your eyes now. I think you are safer living the fantasy in your mind than in reality. So please keep up NC and better yourself. Get back some of the self esteem you loss with the break up.

    When its your first day back in college? How did transferring go?…Im already registered for class this semester. Im super excited and hoping for an A lol.

    #109319
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Yeah I’m taking the “if it’s meant to be it will be approach”

    I’m back in September can’t wait! What are you studying?

    #109323
    leidy1000
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    Yeah time will tell what happens.

    Im applying for nursing soon. I hope I get accepted but I know ill have to spend some time on the waiting list. Im doing math this semester. Quantitative Reasoning, I finished Statistics with an A.

    #109325
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Omgggg your grades are awesome! You’re gonna smash it! Nursing is so rewarding as well x

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