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hey,
i don’t think if you should restart NC.
you should act like friends.talk to her like you do to your friends,meet her and again act like friends.you don’t have to say anything about getting back together and you don’t have to show her any signs that you still want her back.
make positive changes in your life,be cool and confident and avoid any negative memories.she should feel the change.remind her of the good memories you had,try to have a good time and always be positive.
meet her again after sometime and let her think that she might be losing you forever cuz you are not attracted to her like you were before and maybe you are attracted in someone else and your presence might be over forever.
after you created the scarcity meet her again and get a little more physical,have a really good time like a really perfect date and it should end up in a place that you two can be intimate.have a heart to heart talk and see her reaction if she responds well,get more physical and there will be really good chance that she wants you back.
if she tries to ignore you,then tell her how you feel and if she still thinks its not gonna work,then you need some more space in your life.
I hope it’ll help a little.
Good Luckwell,i think its he won’t believe that you are moved on during 2,3 weeks.so i guess 4-6 weeks will be better.and you don’t have to worry about what he is doing or what may happen during NC.you should concentrate on your life and try to be happy and confident.you need to help yourself to reattract him.and positive changes are really important.don’t contact him unless you feel really good about your life without him.
hey,
i agree that B is a better choice.and i’m sure she still has feelings for you and the other guy is a rebound.keep your cool and be positive all the times.and she can’t forget you so easily,its almost impossible.don’t worry about anything be cool and confident,never show obsession over anything about her and never say anything bad about that guy.you did the right thing.its been a few weeks so its normal that you can’t get her completely off your mind.
try not to be alone,go out with your friends,have fun,do whatever you always wanted to do.keep yourself busy.and whenever you feel depressed,tell yourself that you are doing the best thing and you need to be happy and confident again to get her back.
i know it may sound crazy,but go on dates.don’t care if you have no feelings for anyone else but do it.that will help you gain your confidence back and stop seeing your ex on everyone’s face.
wish you all the besti suggest you to wait for him to contact you.then tell him you need some space to move on and that you can be friends after some time.start NC for 1 month-6 weeks.
i’m saying this because i think its easier for him to hang out with others and somehow have you in his life he thinks you’ll always be there for him so he doesn’t have to be worried about losing you and he can continue dating with a relaxed mind.
follow the plan after NC.and work on yourself as much as possible so your changes can impress him.act like you have moved on and i’m sure it will increase your chances.
tbh it will be too long if i write the whole book here and thats why i suggested you to read it but don’t worry about acting like you have moved on,there will be a time that you can show your feelings in a right way.
in short,you’ll open the lines of communication.the meet up,you should totally act like friends and have a good time, avoid any negative talks,breakup reasons,don’t say anything about getting back together….
the second face to face,you should create scarcity,and he will feel like your presence is going to be over and he is losing you forever cuz you may be interested in someone else.you should act like friends, be nice,again no negative words or anything about getting back together.
the third face to face,which should be a perfect date.and end up in a place that you two can be intimate and talk about getting back together.
each of the steps has specific details and its really important to use it the right way in a right timing.
hey,
yes,there is a hope and you have been great until now.he is confused but he absolutely has feelings for you.if you have never been on NC,start it for 1 month.tell him you need some space to heal from the break up and you can be friends after some space.if you did NC,its ok.show him that you are busy and you care about your life like your job,or your goals in life.don’t chase him and don’t always contact him first.let him chase you sometimes.act like friends and show that you are doing great in your life even without him. don’t worry about the word friends,its the false friendship so you can get close to him and reattract him without looking needy.don’t say anything about getting back together or negative memories… . let it be his idea to get back.make positive changes in your life and be confident.once you meet him,he should feel the positive changes in you.as kevin suggested,read ryan rivers relationship rewind it explains what exactly you should do during different stages.also signup to kevin’s email series.
Good luck
hey,
yes its kinda too soon,but you need to follow the plan.text her and say that you have accepted the breakup,say you are sorry if you ever acted wrong and that you need to move on,wish her the best and tell her you hope you could still be friends after some time and space. then start NC and do not break it if she contacts you.after the NC,text her with one of the text versions mentioned in the article or use the magic letter.don’t say anything about getting back together and act like friends.its actually called the falsefriendship so you can get closer to her and meet her without looking needy.then try to have a good time and create good memories.don’t say anything about negative memories or the breakup reasons.she doesn’t have to feel any pressure.don’t say anything about the guy she may be talking to.don’t stalk her and don’t show obsession over anything about her.
i recommend you to read ryan rivers relationship rewind so you can understand about the stage you are in and what exactly you should do.hey,
its ok,don’t worry.text him and say that you have been thinking and you have accepted the breakup and you are also sorry if you ever acted wrong and wish him the best.then apply NC for 30 days.
don’t ever stalk him during NC.you should feel totally happy and confident again to reattract him.the most important thing is to make yourself feel good and no one can do that except you.make positive changes in your life.follow the plan and when you meet him again,you should let him see the change. the only thing you should do for now,is to focus on your own life and feel happy. after the 30 days,there are lots of things you can do to reattract him and all of us will be here to help you.
sign up to kevin’s email series,it will help you alot during NC and forever.hey,
follow the plan,you should give him some time and space,and also you need some time to heal from the breakup,the most important part of NC is about you.you should make positive changes in your life and be happy and confident again.this way,you can impress him more.don’t worry if you acted kinda needy,he will forget about that during NC.and yes you do have a chance.
Good luck
