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I told my ex after she broke up with me and informed me soon after she liked someone and he liked her. It broke my heart loads. I knew i had to change and had already started I lost LOADS of weight in just a few months and I was learning her native language as a surprise for when we met up. We were together 5 years and I was going through depression. I finally got out of it but it was too late and I think she got tired of waiting for me to change. I wanted to change to I wanted to do all those things and I was happy I finally found the energy and strength to!
Anyway After this and some message, I of course sent her loads of messaging not so much begging but explaining my actions and where I know I went wrong and for the first time in years actually explaining properly what was on my mind. After I suggested that instead of dating she take some time for her self (This was before I read the 5 steps) I knew it was likely a rebound and I knew her mind wasn’t in the right place so I was just looking out for her but after reading the 5 steps I can’t help but feel this advice might blow up in my face.
Its ok,its already done so don’t think about it.
Start NC and she will forget the bad memories and also the needy picture of you so hopefully she will begin to miss you.
Don’t break NC,and make positive changes in your life,work on your life,improve it and try to be happy,confident and positive.
You need to impress her with the changes later then you can attract her again.
Don’t show obsession over your ex or anything about her and don’t stalk her.
Avoid any negative thought and focus on your life.
NC is an important part of the plan.and the most important part of NC is about YOU.you should help yourself and improve your life and feel really happy.
Follow the plan and it will definitely increase your chances.
Best of luck
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