AndyK

hang in there buby! i know how you feel. i’m in the same boat as you. i officially broke up with about 5 weeks ago and she hasn’t contacted at all for 1 month. some days, i just wished she’d show some concern at least. i have absolutely no idea what’s on her mind, and sometimes my mind drifts into thinking she’s having such a great time with her new guy. it sucks the life out of me.

hang in there – we can step out of this dark valley!

hey everyone.. just need to talk to someone today. this week has been bad. i’ve missed my ex so much these few days. it’s been a month since we last messaged each other and since then she has not contacted me.. really makes me feel like she doesn’t care about me anymore and is moving on.. her last known thought about me was when she asked a mutual friend if i was ok.. but that was a month ago. i’m still on NC, but it’s killing me </3

hey everyone, hope you are all hanging in there and surviving/doing well in NC! i’m pretty swamped with school so i’ll probably only check in once in a while. but i’m still going to complete my NC, together with you all!

a.z – i hope you are recovering well/recovered!

sunshinegirl – i know how you feel. we’re in the same boat. it’s really tough for LDRs, but that’s why it’s crucial that both parties work on it together. one party working alone will not see the relationship through. let’s hope we can reattract our exes and make it work!

Khine – i’m sorry to hear what has happened to you.. but don’t contact him anymore. at least during this NC period. in my opinion, you don’t owe him an explanation. and i agree with Rihanna and a.z as well. like what Kevin/Edward said before, the breakup happened for a reason. take this NC to think about whether getting back together would really be good for you. if he really loves you and wants you back, he will work to improve himself for you. you are worth way more than what your emotions currently tell you!

Morvarid – i’m not familiar with what happened for you, and i don’t have that much life experience yet, so i hope i’m not being insensitive here. i think you might need more time to get over him and move on. for me, even 3 years of memories is extremely tough to get over, let alone 10 years. but with time, you can do it. you know where you can find support if you need it! we will definitely be here for you. personally, for the ring, i would return it. but when to is entirely up to you. if it’s hindering you from moving on during NC, return it now so you can focus on yourself more. if not, you can also return it “after NC”, when you are ok with the fact that you both may never get back together again (in the checklist). what he does with the ring will be entirely his decision, and i hope that you’d be strong enough to continue on (if you’re not, we will drag you on if need be). i’m sorry this had to happen to you.. 🙁

just a quote i saw that i think might be useful for us all:
“Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth”
– Unknown

take care, all!

thanks everyone, i’ll try my best to focus on myself and not on her during NC!

Khine, if guys usually go according to their emotions, how about girls? do y’all tend to be more logical? and like how?

hey sunshinegirl and a.z,

that’s really encouraging to know! how did they do it? did they like send the letter/text or just built it up from ground zero as friends again?

hey Khine,

OUCH x2 now. reading this, even i feel like slapping him for you. but please, i hope you don’t slap him. he’s not worth the trouble. and i agree with julia. go NC. it’s hard, but at least we’re all doing it together..

i doubt she’d tell, especially since she didnt even bother asking my ex about the details of our break-up. she says it’s not in her character to do that. but i agree. i shouldn’t have. but i gave in to temptation. i don’t think my ex cares that i’m in NC. but nevertheless i still want to work on myself and hopefully surprise her and her parents.