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  • #3649
    Daniel
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    Sunshine girl,
    Congrats! Goodluck on your next exam!

    Az,
    Get well soon az! Just make sure to get a lot of rest. We’re doing fine nothing new. I just remember that im single for 5mos now. Lol.

    #3657
    Steve
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    • Total Posts: 142

    Hi guys

    Another busy day but thought I better write something a little better rather then the quick fire blurb I did last night.

    Rihanna – Kevin sent me your email address, (well I hope it was your email address :)) and I have flicked you a quick message just checking it was the right one. let me know and I can answer all your questions in there πŸ™‚

    Sunshinegirl – Grats on the exam, glad you were able to focus on it and not on your Ex. YAY!!!!!

    A.Z of course we won’t forget you or that other person…what’s his name….Dora, that’s right Dora the explorer. We won’t forget about you and Dara πŸ˜›

    #3663
    Rihanna
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    Hi everyone,

    I had such as long day today and I’m exhausted, the best part of my day was Lunch as usual hahahaha… I had Yum Cha with my girlfriend YUM!

    I hope everyone is doing well, and a.z and Dora oops, I mean Dara… I wish you all the best and happiness πŸ™‚

    Steve, I just sent you an email I hope you understand it hahaha… I’m so tired and hungry I think I mentioned lunch a few times in it hahahaha… There’s something I’ve never ever ever ever done before, give my email out to a guy… Oh well, at least I’ve gained a good friend in my life πŸ™‚

    #3664
    Robot 3
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    Hello everyone,

    It is sometimes hard for me to digest that I spent so much time here on this site. I believe such forums have their cons and pros. It helped me a lot most of the time. Today I realized that reading some posts, especially of this guy Joe remind me of my last relationship. Its like checking the pictures we had together. On the other hand, checking Mike’s posts reminds me that there are much nicer guys out there in pain. It makes me forget the whole story. Anyway, this was the point I concluded yesterday.

    Steve,

    I liked the explorer phrase. About a month ago, I explored the idea that can I date a girl while I had asked for her roommate’s number previously. Since the answer was most probably not but I still did it. The funny thing is that the girl I had her number previously had accepted to come to my apartment so that we have some lunch together but I did not contact her later for this.

    a.z.,

    You see, I am so crazy.

    By the way, lets talk on this board sometimes. Friends here might think that we’ve gone for some vacations. I like public displays! LOL

    Sineade,

    I also have this problem of love. Though I believe that I fall in love, my real world friends say that I don’t fall in love and I fall for sex. My point was that if I am looking for sex then why am I so loyal? I guess, I had this debate with many people including my last ex.

    Edaward,

    I’m glad that you are doing good! a.z. has been commenting several times more than me. I have no clue if she dreams about these posts and threads. Anyway, I also admire you (and of course, a.z.) on doing it.

    Daniel,

    Are you dating someone new or that girl who got mad at you when you cancelled the date was the last one?

    Sunshinegirl,

    Best of luck for the second exam.

    RAED,

    How do you do? By the way, I did not put Daniel and you in the same place! πŸ˜€

    Rihanna,

    I am sure Steve is a lucky guy to date you. I have heard a lot about Sydney Opera House. Is it really that amazing? If you have not been there, maybe you and Steve can try it now together.

    a.z., good morning honey! :*

    #3690
    a.z
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    Hey,
    I’m in hospital and i came here last night and i should stay here for at least 1 more night.I thought it was something like flu but its respiratory infection.They say i don’t have to smoke/drink for a month.and then i have to be checked again.
    I’m so dead LOL.

    Dara,
    Good morning baby :*

    #3695
    AndyK
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    • Total Posts: 23

    omg a.z! please take care!!! hope you get well soon!!

    #3702
    a.z
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    Thanks Andy,thats very nice of you.I will:)

    #3706
    Joe
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    A.Z.

    I wish you the best and a speedy recovery. YES!! Stay away from the smokes and drinks. Get better soon!!

    Dara,

    I’m sorry bro!! I hate that my situation reminds you of your ex. I know I hate to be reminded of her, I can only imagine how you feel. Look at the bright side; (even though, I want her back like hell) youre most likely helping me get over someone who will always remain a b*tch her whole life. I feel bad calling her that, but if you heard the words out of her mouth, you’d agree. It stems from the lack of respect that created when I became a doormat.

    Rihanna,

    What’s Yum Cha? I love trying new foods; that sounds like something I would like!!

    #3708
    sunshinegirl
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    A.Z,

    I’m so sorry! I hope you’ll recover in a minute! πŸ˜€
    All the luck πŸ™‚

    Joe,
    How you doing lately? Did you stop driving by her house? (Sorry if I didn’t ask in a right way.. Not native speaker πŸ˜› )
    And it’s amazing that you commented a lot in this forum! Your comments have been really helpful!

    #3709
    Robot 3
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    a.z. is doing NC with alcohol and cigarettes for 30 days!! πŸ˜€

    #3712
    a.z
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    Joe,
    Thank you buddy,i’m having a good time here:)))
    I like the nurses and one of them makes me laugh.He said he’ll let me smoke if i switch my phone off :O :O :O :)))

    #3713
    a.z
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    Dara,
    Hell no.I’d rather die :))))

    #3714
    Joe
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    Sunshine,

    I did good yesterday… I DID NOT DRIVE BY HER PLACE…

    Two things, I should have been doing and wasn’t.. (going to the gym and reading relationship rewind) I finally did yesterday after work.

    I know going to the gym is part of Kevins plan; but the problem for me was that I was already an active gym member.. In fact, the ex and I went together like everyday. After the breakup, I stop going cold turkey. The gym only reminded me of her more and more. However, I’ve noticed that some of my depression was linked to my lack of physical activity.

    So yesterday, I went to the gym and while I was doing my cardio, I began reading relationship rewind on my phone. I actually felt good…

    This morning was another dull and depressing time (as all mornings are for me); But I’m hanging in there.

    Here’s the part that hurts the most.. As I start getting better without her and getting use to not having her.. I can’t help but feel that she is also getting use to not having me around. WOW!! Even now, that thought makes me want to contact her at this very moment…………AAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!

    Joe

    #3721
    sunshinegirl
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    Joe
    personally I think you worry too much :)! I feel like the two people are in different stages. Like we are the ones who had to accept the breakup, so we were devastated from the beginning and then we became stronger and better. On the other hand, they made the decision and after a certain time, they will think again.

    And you can check my reply in this post, it’s my personal experience how one of my ex managed to get back with me πŸ™‚

    And I am so happy for you feeling better and not driving by her house!

    #3722
    a.z
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    Joe,
    I’m glad that you are handling it really well.But don’t worry about anything.You are more important than her.Follow the plan.Doesn’t matter if she is getting use to it. You can change the situation later.Your ex still thinks about you.

    I broke up with a guy a couple of years ago.After almost a year of NC,he contacted me and i really felt something for him the only thing that stopped me from getting back with him was that unfortunately i was in another relationship and i couldn’t start a Long Distance relationship with him.
    So don’t worry about anything.Follow the plan and it absolutely increases your chances.

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