June 14, 2015 at 9:31 pm #48264
I remember you said you are a runner as well.
What shocked me was that when I grabbed her, she was still dancing with me. Usually if you try to dance with a wrong person, they push you back or let you know. I felt like she liked dancing with me and it was this guy who pushed me away.
Grabbing her was a spontaneous drunk decision but her calmness makes me think she spotted me before.
Maybe I never understood her but he was not her type except that he was big body builder only meant for one night stands. I have heard her a lot of times saying she is not for other people to use.
Anyway, I am thinking about what she might have meant by saying, “if you want to talk to me talk to K. first”. My guts want me to accept the challenge. And I am thinking why didn’t she push me back when I grabbed her the first time.
Honestly, I don’t find her attractive anymore except that I know she is great in sex.June 15, 2015 at 1:42 pm #48341
What annoys me is that I was great in sex too–if it is what she was looking for! I was much hotter than her and she would ask me for a rest day. lolJune 28, 2015 at 8:24 pm #49320
Hi Robot and Rihanna and any other oldies reading here
How are you both doing? Been a couple of weeks since anyone has posted here so I thought I would see if anyone is out there.
Things have been good for me the last couple of weeks. I have been on a couple of dates with different girls and one looks very promising. We are still in contact after our date on Friday and I feel very good about it. It will be a couple of weeks before we can go on another date as she is going snow skiing this coming weekend. But she is very keen to met up again. She has texted me every day since Friday, including this morning wishing me a good Monday. I am encouraged with that.
I went to a fantastic party/ball on Saturday night. I had to wear a full suit and tie and it was held in a 12million dollar mansion on the City waterfront. There was a live band in one of the living room areas. Open bar and gorgeous girls everywhere. The party was in so many rooms and on an open balcony. It was good the weather was actually nice for a change. I talked to so many girls and ended up dancing with one girl for ages. I am certain I could of taken her home that night as she was in my arms at one stage. I also kept getting eye contact from another girl. She keep glancing at me during the night and every time our eyes met she would smile at me. This girl was stunning too.
However I was sober driver for some friends and I had promised to look after them and make sure they got home safely. At 11pm when the party was in full swing they were ready to go home. So I kept to my word and drove them home. It was probably the best party I have been too. It reminded me off the parties from the Great Gatsby movie.
Going to parties like this would of never happen if I had still been with my Ex.
It’s one of few times that I am very happy that the breakup happen as I really enjoyed myself Saturday
Be good to hear what you are up tooJuly 23, 2015 at 7:30 pm #50439
Hi Robot and Rihanna and any other oldies.
No one has posted here for a month, I thought I would say hello and see if anyone is around. I guess everyone has moved on with their lives and the Ex is no longer a issue.
Rihanna, have you moved to Sydney yet? I think you mention it was this month you were doing your big move. I hope it goes to plan. How about you Robot, it will be good to get some updates from you and your girl situation. I would love to hear some crazy stories.
The last month has been pretty good for me. While we are still in the middle of winter and it is flippin cold. Yesterday I arrived home from work and got the last minute of sunset. Slowly the days are getting longer again. But the cold. There was a good dumping of snow in the hills on Wednesday
My weekends have been uneventful over the last month except for one weekend where I went on a kids camp with the organisation I help out with. It was the most rewarding thing I have done in a few years. We had 40 kids and did a lot of crazy activities. The dorm rooms where we were staying were centrally heated too, so it never got cold.
At the end I was so tired, but yet I felt for the first time in over a year I am in the right place and I felt really good about myself. I would of never volunteered with youth work if it hadn’t off been for the breakup. Kevin’s plan of getting your life back together motivated me to do this and it has been so satisfying and the highlight of my week. I wish I had done this earlier.
Because of this I feel I am completely over my Ex. The weekend after the camp I caught up with a group of friends. While I have made it clear in the past I don’t really like hearing about my Ex, as it does affect me emotionally. There is one friend who seems to take delight in goading me with the latest information of my Ex. I guess it is like a drug to me. This time was no different. We were all at the bar, when this friend brought up my Ex and mention how she has just done a week holiday with her new man to the Gold Coast of Queensland. That she is so happy and had been posting pictures on Facebook. This friend pulled out his phone and was going to show me some pictures. When I said “I didn’t really care to see any photos or hear what see was doing” I then got up and went to the bar to buy another drink. The truth is that is how I felt. I felt nothing when this guy was mentioning my Ex. My Ex has become just another person I use to know and I’m not interested in what she does now days.
Sure I still haven’t found love and that is getting frustrating as I keep having dud dates. But I know if I keep at it, keep working on myself it will happen.
We are over halfway through winter now and when Spring hits there will be more activities and social events happening
Anyway guys and girls. It will be good to hear from you allJuly 25, 2015 at 6:03 pm #50523
Thank you for your update! I truly appreciate everyone’s support when my days were cold and nights were scary. Honestly, we took too long to move on but we did it!
I am also glad that you are doing alright, buddy! I am also aiming for more serious goals in my life! By the way, I think it’s time to say “goodbye” to this site? Honestly, this site reminds me of the b!tch I used to date!July 26, 2015 at 4:20 pm #50559
Thanks for the quick reply. I really only check this thread out now from the website. I haven’t been on any other thread for a long time. The main reason I still come here is not for advise or help regarding my Ex (Thou it is nice to have the occasional vent :)) But I appreciate the help that I received from you, Rihanna, AZ, Raed and the many others who have contributed to this thread. I consider you all good online friends 🙂 It nice just to keep in touch and let you all know how I am going. Just as I am interested in what is happening in your life.
If anything maybe we could swap Facebook/email details. So you don’t have to come back here at allJuly 26, 2015 at 9:29 pm #50568
Yeah! We (Oldies) were good friends and supportive. I also thanks everyone who has been here. You know, I am in such a good condition that I don’t believe that I was here once upon a time talking venting everyday.
We have been exchanging supportive comments for more than a year. I have asked Kevin to forward my email to you.
Thanks everyone again! Will miss you all!
Robot3!August 3, 2015 at 5:00 am #50911SkollParticipant
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Well…been thinking on coming back on here a bit lately. I was here 8 months ago, so does that make me an oldie? :p Also, anyone here heard anything on LABound? I hope things went well for him, he was so helpful to everyone.August 3, 2015 at 7:30 pm #50971
Yeah 8 months makes you an oldie 😉 I haven’t heard anything from LABound for a long time. Like most people on this forum, either they get back with their Ex and they stop posting or they just move on and they stop posting.
How are things with you? I just had a read through your old posts about your situation with your Ex. I see you last post was back in Jan so it would be nice to get an update 🙂August 17, 2015 at 4:15 pm #51647RAEDParticipant
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It’s been a longtime since, folks. I miss you all! :'(
I hope everyone’s doing great <3
Love you Oldies.August 27, 2015 at 12:50 pm #52334a.zParticipant
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Hey oldies xx
Miss you all so much <3 hope everyone is doong great xoxoSeptember 30, 2016 at 6:26 am #68289saoirseParticipant
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Hi Everyone, hope you’re all doing well???
Hi Rihanna, How are u keeping? I couldn’t find you on facebook and I wanted to pm you and Dara if thats okay? Can you try to find me on it?October 8, 2016 at 9:17 pm #68636
Not sure if any of the oldies come here any more. As you can see the thread is very inactive. Its only random that I came on here today.
Haven’t heard from Dara and Rihanna in over a year.
But like you I hope all the oldies are doing wellDecember 20, 2016 at 4:09 pm #71472
Merry Xmas Oldies.
I thought I would pop in here to see if anyone was lurking. It doesn’t look like it, but just in case I thought I would say hello. Be nice to hear from you all. I really appreciated your guys and girls support during what was the roughest time of my life.
I found out today that my Ex got married last weekend to the guy she started dating after we broke up. It was a little tough to handle, but I know I’m going to be OK as life had moved on and I very rarely think about her now days.
But overall I am very positive and in a great place. Just today I thought about here and wanted just to post my thoughts and see if anyone else was aroundOctober 21, 2019 at 2:35 am #113334DanielParticipant
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Hey OLDIES! Just wandered here. Idk why but i felt like asking how is everyone? still very thankful for the times we were there for each other during our hardest moments.i chersih it. I hope we are all in a good place. If anyone remembers me that is. I remember steve and az. I actually got back with my ex after a couple of yrs of break up. Now we are dating again for more than 2yrs and i think we are stronger now as a couple. I hope everyone ended up happy in the end. I know thay not everyone got their ex back but hey im sure by now you know that it is super OK!! Cheers guys!
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