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I wish he cares about me how I though he did…in our relationship I thought he was so different from every other guy. That I only saw him. Turns out he was the same.
First he tell me he don’t want no relationship at all he wants to get himself together than a week later he’s in love with a chick…Which only make me feel like he was cheating on me but I didn’t see any signs of that not even on the new girl page because she was dating Someone than her boyfriend broke up with her.Only thing I wish is that he’ll show up in my front yard if he really did care,but it turns out he don’t.
Everyone keep strong with NC…im trying my best because it’s only going to benefit me in the long run just have to be patient.
hang in there buby! i know how you feel. i’m in the same boat as you. i officially broke up with about 5 weeks ago and she hasn’t contacted at all for 1 month. some days, i just wished she’d show some concern at least. i have absolutely no idea what’s on her mind, and sometimes my mind drifts into thinking she’s having such a great time with her new guy. it sucks the life out of me.
hang in there – we can step out of this dark valley!
I can’t even hang in there more after yesterday of me trying to contact him he didn’t respond to anything…which says he don’t care because he don’t want nothing to mess up his relationship with the new girl…..
I’m done with hurting and done trying. If he’s not willing to be with be through my darkest moments he don’t need me through my brightest
Yes I’m hurt…but pain is not forever
I just got to day 30 and I feel a lot better. I have no intention of contacting my ex. She was just as uncaring – if not more – than your ex has been. She has called and texted during the 30 days (to which I didn’t respond), but it wasn’t enough. She can plead for me if she wants anything, but I’ve realised I can do better.
Stick to it. It will be hard. I think the best I’ve felt has been the previous week. I thought I felt good during the week before, but I feel even stronger now, and will probably continue to get stronger.
I’m starting the NC over even though I contacted him I never got to speak with him but I’m pretty sure he got my message…..I feel how i felt the first day of NC….this type of pain is no joke..I hate going to sleep because I swear every dream I have his in…but I’m going to stick to NC…because right now I don’t even know if I want to fight for him ….because he doesn’t care which is bizarre. To me but I’m happy your in a better place.
How long had you gotten to before with NC?
For me it’s been a slow process with lots of ups and downs, but looking back, I’ve come a long way. I was still teary in the second week but I haven’t cried since then. I took a short holiday around that time which I think helped.
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