AndyK

hi Athens,

i know how you feel. but i’m not so far along in NC compared to you. the worse is having a sweet dream about her and then waking up to reality 🙁

everyone
also, how do i count the days of my NC? do i start counting from the day i don’t contact/stalk her or the day i start working on myself? like some days i just don’t get closer to what i want to achieve in NC.. also, what if i contacted a mutual friend to talk about her, but my ex doesn’t know?

thanks so much! you all are the only ones that i can talk to as i try to win her back..

hi solo dolo,

firstly, i’m sorry to hear that this happened to you. it’s awful.

secondly, i totally agree with liehmac. the most important factor is if you want to give her another chance. people do learn from their past mistakes and genuinely change. but to prevent it from happening in future, you both have to get to the root of the problem. you would definitely have to heal from this and, if you still want her, work on gradually trusting her more again.

and no, it won’t be humiliating for you. you would only look (and be!) desperate if you did not carefully consider your decision. what is more important is that both of you grow and learn from this episode, with or without the relationship going forward.

you’re probably in quite a tough position to be in given your lease situation, but i definitely think that you need some time and space to think about this carefully. hopefully, other people can help you with structuring your NC period.

just my humble opinion..

hey everyone, is Relationship Rewind basically just 3 separate pdf files of each step?

hi Eric and Steve,

i sadly share the same experience as you guys. it’s like almost the same script but different characters. my gf of 3 years dumped me and the only difference with my story is that i begged and pleaded for her to not give up the relationship like there was no tomorrow and as if i would die. i really loved her and planned to marry her. i guess that just made my heart shatter even more.

Eric, even though i’m as lost as you at the moment, the only thing i can probably say after reading stuff here (and agree with Steve) is for us to follow the plan and hope that we can win her back.

it’s much easier said than done – i struggle each and every day, i promise you. but i guess if the love of our life is already gone, what more can we lose?

hope things get better for all of us!