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I ended up telling him i need space because im not ok with jist being friends and thst if i continue things will get worse…..i knowni shouldn’t jave said all of that but i wasnt sure exactly what to write after..so i guess tomorrow will be day 1 of nc again..because he never text back from the other msg
So plamtrees im alittle behind in everyone stories if im correct you siad yoh triee hanging out with your ex right? Are you still talking or am i mixing up stories
…and lin i think that was one of the points in nc to see if you really wanted the relationship back…i hate that it has come to that but would you say you have been feeling better or has the thoughts about the bad memories affected youLin how is your situation going?
I am glad i went it wasit gave me a chance to clear my mind a bit ..even though alot of times when i was alone i thought about him..i did meet this really attractive guy there if you ever seen the movie how Stella got her grove back..thats how i felt lol..
If he texts me should i not reply again?..not saying he will but just in case i think i pushed him away really bad this time with my emotions..and no i knew he was but he offically has a leave date now and its like i know girls love military men..i think about the most random things smh..so its like hes moving to tx in less than 2 weeks and hes leaving for boot camp in a little over a month so i hate that i cant see or talk to him at all ..this is awful..but here goes nc again
Hey:) i feel like I’ve missed out on so much my goodness..
Palmtrees when you hung out with him how did you feel?.. were you excited was it overwhelming?..but i agree with lin i swear if i didnt know any better i would think you were a counselor you give great advice !but yea i went out of the country so i just accepted not having service instead of searching for WiFi..it was great i went to Jamaica it was beautiful but …. i thought about my ex alot since we are supposed to go together apart of me was hoping he would show up anyway but he had cancelled his ticket.. we aren’t talking again probably worse than before but i cant be his friend because as much as I try to be patient i cant handle other girls writing him, etc so he was like we shouldnt talk anymore and i was super hurt but i realized I was hurting myself staying especially when he keeps telling me to leave…any advice?..should I restart nc?..like it hurts still
P.s he joined the military and idk how to handle it..like im trying not to send a long text its literally driving me crazy.. hom moving isn’t making it easier..i dont understand how a guy is making me feel like this..
I agree with lin maybe all that time you had to think might have changed your outlook on it
..also i would love to hear everyone’s updates.. i went on vaca and i didnt have any service..so everyone whats new?? Im all earsId say mines is in the morning. Not getting a good morning from him sucks alot..it gets to the point where i wonder if hes sending them to someone else..it makes me sad :(..
Also girls…and soupy im very proud of all of you thus far i know its been so tough (trust me i know)..but since we started writing each other i can definitely see great improvement than day 1..:-) stay strong ladies..and soupy lol
Yea i agree with amy i think you should at least say happy birthday. It definitely shows that your a bigger person and that you still care for the daughter i know its not about this but her mom might even text you saying thank you
Lin Are you still in nc?..if yes then no i have been told a drunk man soeaks his heart so maybe if thats how hes feeling and if your concerned then i dont see why not..but i wouldnt do it while hes been drinking and yea your right..well cafe it is! Hes probably going to be like why did you bring me here..do you think i should just ask him?
Also im soo worried to how im going to be if i get to see him
I was thinking that at first but he hates coffee and teas ..but he loves my sandwiches lol thats why i was thinking picnic any other suggestions?
I agree Boys are so confusing and they talk about us!! It makes no sense.. im glad you met up with her first because I wouldn’t want you breaking down in front of him
Yea we picked tuesday since we both have off work so lets see how this goes i was thinking about a picnic in the city?..or is that too couplely?…
and none the less although you cried im very proud that you even went now you know where you are ! And honestly i think he will..i also think his sis knows something you dont because although you are friends if he didnt want her around you i think he would tell herSoupy,
Yea im starting to feel it but he called this morning and said he was sorry and that the truth was he honestly forgot and didnt know how to tell me..he asked if we can try again next week…but i dont want to get my hopes up and he cancels,..im also worries that im when i see him again im going to break down in tears..not saying i will but I haven’t seen him since the break up and its like idk how its going to be
Amy,
As much as its easy to worry about things like that you cant..ill say work on being that confident person yourself so that if you meet up again you can be that confident person he is looking..im worrired that his sister will tell him about you crying though:(..are you feeling any better?..i think you a have a good chance but i also dont want you to miss out on any opportunity with anyone else just because you have this idea of him coming back
You got this girl!!.shes a friend of yours so treat it as that!.good luck don’t be nervous 🙂
Amy he had me on social media before i deactivated my account but i havent been on in so long i doubt it..do you have youryour outfit and everything picked out?
Catherine..honestly the fact that you arent really keeping track shows how much your progressing! Which is good..i hope you have a great birthday
And its ok i just feel like im back at square one after i have gotten so far i have to resist the urge to not text him again…its so so hard
