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That was awesome advice soupy.. i agree that will probably make him to thinkto think about you so much more. Who knows he might know shes meeting you and ask her to ask you questions..but good luck tomorrow i cant wait to hear about it.
Palmtrees you are doing so good it takes a strong person to realize what they need to do within themselves even though they are hurting
Soupy it was hard doing that honestly im just getting so frustrated with Trying and yes all he said was “my bad i got busy”.. no emotion to that msg at all. So i just text him back saying ok.. and he hasn’t said anything so i guess thats it for a while
Lin, exactly! It’s very rude texting takes all but 2 seconds especially in this day in age… but nope absolutely nothing at all..thats what gets me the most not the not showing up part,but the not answering after YOU set up a time and place and not have the decency to say hey i cant make it..instead having me up there looking crazy..but oh yes i deleted his number and his moms number so if she texts me i hope she dont get mad when i say..who is this?
Palmtrees, it felt great and I literally have no remorse. He may never talk to me again now and im probably going to be the crazy ex but idc anymore yea thats 8 yrs of my life wasted but its taught me so much also and what I deserve..if honestly rather hurt now and get over it then to keep on with this and getting hurt more..so who knows what will happen..also thats great! Baby steps you know. I will say if you post anything make sure it’s awesome to where he’s like oh wow she’s doing great. Are you doing ok with the nc?
I figured out why I wasn’t seeing anything the box that said email me about replies wasnt checked, i swore it was lol so i should be ok now.
Also i did a bad thing.. i went OFF on my ex through text, literally im over it with him. I was trying i really was. I also was trying to be positive and understanding but there is only so much someone can take plus why am i trying to change so much for someone who doesn’t even have the respect to text back..we were supposed to meet yesterday and so when he texted me the time i waited and waited plus I called and NOTHING.. the polite thing couldve been to let me know!.not ignore me.. so yes yal i was pissed and i probably ruined everything hes a jerk and im not about to sit around and play this game with him….
Amy is this the sister who sent the picture on snap chat? Or do I have the stories mixed up
And tell us how it goes:) you got this. Do you think you both will talk about your ex at all?
Amy and lin just curious my brother asked me this last night and i surprisingly wasnt sure..but ok his question was you say you want to know the real reason he left you right, but are you ready for the real answer? And will that change the fact that he still left?..i was like mhmm i never thought about it i just wanted closure but maybe I should find my own…excuse me WE should find our own.
Also Amy! I’m not sure when your leaving but look up this thing called jj smiths green smoothie cleanse! It was great and tasty and i lost like 10 lbs
Welcome to the group soupy and thanks for that advice it kind of makes me have hope..i stopped texting him after i asked the girls for help and surprisingly he asked to see me tomorrow..he said can he stop by my house after work, not for long though. I told hom yes but im not sure if that’s the best thing..
Also if you dont mind me asking what is your story?Amy i think thats a great idea we should all definitely set a goal and tell each othet about it..its almost august so new month new start..for me i want to lose weight i got this dress i want to wear for my bday but i got it a little smaller so that i can lose weight to fit in it…wbu? And definitely write us! I wish i could respond quicker but i dont get every notification so im usually always behind..
Amy during this last go round if you dont mind me asking what makes you think its the same reason?..like has trust been a issue for you both?
And as for my ex i just wish he would get it together i hate to text him so much (btw i havent since yall said to back up) its just you would think that he would take that time out..its strange though his mom always wants to talk (strange) but hot him, i just dont get it
Catherine what you said was perfect! Literally i couldn’t have said it better…amy if you want to text him ..write us! If you feel that urge. Also i dont think you should only because it shows him that you are paying attention to what he is doing so i say no to asking him and keep the NC ..i think i have to startstart nc again because im hurting to much and you all gave great advice im being to emotional and clingy i just love him tons 8+ yrs is a long time and i just dont understand how he can be ao happy without me .it makes no sense and its killing me not to cry ugh!
Im so sorry palmtrees22 welcome to the group:).i know im super late but for some reason i wasnt getting any of the notifications so im soo behind With everything..
And amy no hun!..its like the advice you all gave me dont send that only because i dont want your first convo to be about the past or about how the relationship ended make it so that the next time he speaks to you its happy and positive
If you all are there i need your help!.ever since I found out the move iv been texting him ALOT .. like sometimes twice before he even responds..i have even asked him when he wants to meet still and he keeps telling me he doesnt know because hes busy..and im getting sooo frustrated and hurt at the same time! I need to stop before i ruin anything but he leaves in literally 30 days and im freaking out because im worried that once he leaves thats it…i mean he wont even see me while hes here so i know once he leaves it will be over…
Lin91. I didnt think of it that way i was just thinking he could find time but your right i told him another day and he said we can try but he doesn’t want to promise so im like geez man!.. oh and hes moving to TEXAS!! Im freaking out its so far
Amy i think you should but if your friend does, make sure they don’t sound super rehearsed and look amazing so he can tell your ex you looked amazing. Also im not sure if you like this place but I really like nandos! I had one across from my UNI and it was great. Also dating might get your mind off of him
You both are so right but ok so my issue is my ex is moving in September and im worried that will be the end of ever getting back together..we slowly started texting again nothing to big just a couple of heys so i asked him to meet up so we can see each other before he moves..he agreed to meet me at Starbucks on Sunday but then later on he said he might have to reschedule since something came up..and idk how to take it.a part of me feels he doesnt want to and i dont want to sound to needy…i think i already did because i text him saying “aww ok well when can we” and he said honestly idk…:(
