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Oh no its ok! I love hearing everything it helps me i just have been super busy with work to write too much…lets see if i can catch up ..ok amy111 i know you you feel my ex is moving completely and i worry i wont ever see himagain..but in a way him leaving might be good for you only because it might give you a actual chance to heal..and possibly pick up something you have an interest in
Amy111 i agree with catherine8 i think you should change your status because it honestly might have him thinking dang why she change it and he might start creeping on your page ..and for her to send it i think she did it on purpose.he might have told her to do it..i think you should delete her because if not it might be a constant reminder of him
Is it possible for you to make more friends in school that might occupy your mind away from him ..
Do other things entertain you besides parties?.?if you dont mind me asking are you in school or something?
But anyways i understand your pain because i literally talk to maybe one person and she is my co worker i just graduated college so all of my old friends live somewhere else we dont even talk..but anyways we have to find a way to get your mind off of worrying about him..i hate to say it like this but only you can make your self feel better or worse. Make your own fun..literally since i dont have friends. I go to the gym whenever i start feeling bad ..show him that you can live without him
Honestly honey its normal i felt the same way..i felt like someone stabbed me when i seen mines on fb…but it will get better..if you ever feel alone write me as much as you want and I will answer..its going to be hare but then you know your still not ready..i want you to go out and have fun..i know you was honest with the guy rrom the double date but maybe you shoild habg out with others just to get your mind off of it sometimes..he shouldn’t have so much control over YOUR heart its up to you to get better
@Catherine8 how did it go for you?.. i didnt realize you wrote me but im ok he ended up texting me..surprisingly after I ran into his parents at the store. I bet that had alot to do with it..but none the less he did text me and its been interesting we havent talked about what happened but im taking baby steps, i know he isnt ready for a relationship and honestly im not anymore with everything going on in my life..but anyways how is your situation going?
@Patricia12 i needed that but yes i met with her and it went better than i expected she told me that if we are meant to be it will happen.. typical mom stuff she also told me that we were too clingy to each other that we shouldve let each other breathe butbreathe but i know she can only tell me so much. Its strange ill have days when he doesnt cross my mind then its days when im like omg i need to talk to him but your so right im going to keeo it going i dont want to text him until my emotions are ok to withstand him possibly not texting back
Ok so i met my exs mom for lunch today because we are really close and she told me something that made me think about you today that i thought could help us both..right now they are both stubborn men who have dumped us and blah blah..but stick out your 30 days go even longer if you feel like if you text him you will get emotional but DONT listen to your friend i feel like that goes against everything you just did…my exs mom said after nc text him. Dont be overly eager but something simple..we need to buid up a friendship again because if we throw ourselves at them it might scare them..but i dont think asking to see him right now to talk about the past is best
Im still going through it but im trying to be strong i think he moved on and it makes my stomach cringe
Im so proud of you i know this is hard. I honestly feel the exact same way and i hate when people tell me to forget him. its frustrating especially when someone ignores you but keep strong. Mines is stubborn to and most of the time he sticks to what he says so idk if he will ever talk to me..but for you i think you have a chance because it didnt seem like yall had a bad fall out. Id say after your 30 days text him and see what happens..that whole moving on thing i think its a way to make you feel bad..
Hey Catherine, i know your a little further along then me and you are doing good just keep on going i know its hard trust me i am struggling and i promise im not asking this to make you feel bad but have you been doing things for you? I noticed you said he blocked you so are you constantly checking?.i just want to make sure that your focusing on yourself too.
Thank you for your advice is it getting better for you? And if you dont mind me asking are you going to text him or are you going to continue? @Catherine8
