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β UPDATE !!!!!!
so .. I woke up today .. and I saw a message from him on whatsapp from yesterday .. γ nice pic γ .
( I changed my profile picture 3 days ago .. and now he saw it π )
so .. should I reply? ..
I’m thinking I can just say : “thanx” .. and not anything more ..
or should I ignore him?@cassie .. our relationship was a mess the last year .. we had many fights .. and break up many times .. so I don’t think it’ll be a rebound π
And we were together for 3 years .. he loved me very much .. I did too .. but sometimes I was childish and got too jealous .. so we fought alot π
I hope he really is in love with me .. I love him very much .. and I’m trying my best to change for him π ..@aamls .. I hope he’s .. I’m really afraid π .. I’ll do my best to improve myself ..
I hope you’ll do the same π
And I’m checking on your situation daily ^_^@whena .. she’s probably a rebound .. maybe he’s trying to make you feel jealous .. stay strong .. I wish you all the best π
Thanx @atedeschi93 for replying .. yes I realise that I should give him his time now .. I hope I can stick to the NC this time π
Aamls .. I couldn’t agree more with everyone else ..
You really need to focus on yourself .. try to get a job .. he should feel that youbare independent .. and you don’t need him anymore .. you have to do a small change everyday .. and this will lead you to a big change at the end ..@pusherlovegrl
I’m doing my best in working on myself .. but I feel weak around him π
You know .. I’m doing great in my life now .. but when it comes to him .. I can’t help it .. whenever I talk to him .. all the good memories .. the happy moments .. comes back to me π
Idk why π
I’m trying my best not to show him that .. but it’s hard ..
And .. I don’t wanna lose him ..
but I feel like I did already .. even that he said that he misses me sometime .. but the fact that he still want me out of his life is terrifying me π
Why does he want me out of his life this bad? π
He said that he can’t forgive me anymore ..
What do you think? πThanx @sunshine11 .. this time I’ll do my best to not break the NC .. but I’m afraid that he have someone new in his life .. and this thought is killing me π
And do you think that he have feelings for me?
I know he’s hurt .. but what he said about missing me and stuff ..but he still want me out of his life .. does this mean that he is in love with me but he’s still hurt?@whena .. thank you dear .. I’m not talking to him anymore .. I started NC again.. I wanna show him that I’ve changed and I want to be his friend for now .. but … what do you think about wjat he said to me?
Do you think that he still have feelings for me?
I know he’s hurt .. and I’m willing to give him time ..
but he’s sending me mixed signals .. and I’m not sure if he has someone in his life π ..
What do you think?
And about your ex .. just give him time .. he’s trying to make you jealous .. he’ll text you soon .. don’t worry πAamls .. look .. you don’t need anyone .. there is a reason why we have this forum .. so we can be beside each other .. we all feel your pain .. we are all here with you .. look .. I have so many friends .. but I know that they all hate my ex .. and that they think I can be with someone better than him .. that’s why I don’t talk to them .. whenever I’m feeling down .. I come here .. or I talk to my bff .. my point is.. you don’t need anyone out side this forum .. you need just one person you trust .. and this forum ..here you can express everything you feel .. just write it down .. and you will feel much better .. as I said before .. it’s normal to cry .. actually it’s healthy .. you will not be able to stop crying this week .. or to deal with anyone .. We’ve all been there .. but .. after one week .. you should do some changes .. ok?
We’ll be here for you .. this week is ok to feel like this .. but .. plz .. next week .. you have to do at least one change in your life ..
can you promise us of this?
We’ll take it day by day .. and every week we’ll make at least one small change .. and in the end .. you’ll find the new you ..
ok?Thanx @Maloto970 .. you really think that he loves me?
I want to believe this .. but I’m scared .. I mean .. he said many nice things .. he acted nice to me after being so mean .. hes finally texting me back .. after ignoring me .. but still .. he wants me out of his life?
Why would he act like this?
Sending me mixed signals ..
deep down .. I feel like he’s still in love with me .. he’s just so hurt .. and he thinks I’ll never change .. he’s trying to push me away so he can forget about me .. and because he knows that if we talked again .. he’ll fall in love with me ..
I mean .. when we talked .. at first he acted mean .. but then he was nice .. he was happy and I guess he felt nostalgic ..
that’s why he said that he didn’t want to talk to me anymore ..
but still .. I don’t think I’m thinking straight .. I feel like I have a blur on my eyes … and that I only see what my hearts want to see .. and I’m fooling myself π ..
What do you think?Thanx sunshine and aamls ..
I’m really afraid .. I want him back .. and I’m jealous type girl .. I’d go crazy if he’s talking to someone else .. I love him so much .. how can he forget about us and go talking to other girls? π
I love him and I want him to only mine πβ Update:
So now .. as he unblocked me .. I can see .. he’s online almost all the time ..
and he stayed up late till 5am yesterday π
He rarely did this with me .. he used to wake up early .. even if I stayed up late.. I stay up alone π ..
He used to stay late with me at the beginning of our relationship .. before admiting that wevlove each other π
I’m afraid he’s talking to another girl .. and that’s why he want me out of his life π
So I don’t effect his relationship with her ..
What do you think? π
it’s a month since our break up .. and if there is a girl she’s not a rebound πRelationship rewind is a great book .. it says that you don’t need NC in all cases ..you can read it while doing NC .. and then when you finish it and you are in the NC .. you can decide whether you are going to continue the NC or not .. π
It’s great news to hear .. hope that everything will be good for you now ..
but can you give me your opinion on my story?
Can i get him back again like you did?
