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Ok .. quick feed back :
– we broke up 2 weeks ago .. and I started NC immediately ..
– we were together for 3 years .. last one of them .. we were one and off .. and had many fights ..
– he was my boyfriend during university .. he’s from another city .. and after graduation he moved back to his town ..
– all of our friends are against our relationship because we fought alot .. and we are from different religions “we are Syrians .. so we don’t have civil marriage .. and due to the war and ISIS its hard to be together”
-And .. he blocked me again on social media and IMs ..Ok .. so .. his best friend “who talk to me daily on facebook and we have so much fun together as friends” told me that he’s coming to town on Sunday ..
I had plans with my friends at university to meet on Sunday .. so I told them and agreed to meet today to avoid seeing him ..
So .. I went to the university today .. and .. i was lucky enough to ran into him !
Ugh .. God hates me .. right?
So .. at first .. I saw a friend of us .. with a guy .. I wasn’t expecting to meet him .. and I didn’t say Hi to him .. then I saw him .. I said “hey” .. and I was really surprised.. he said “hey” .. and he stod aside .. like I was a stranger .. and I talked to my friends .. she suggested to go with them .. and I said no .. he didn’t say a word !
And then I went my way ..What does this means?
Is he over me?
Did he moved on? And forgot everything about us?
Why didn’t he contacted me to till me he’s coming?
Should I talk to our mutual friend .. and tell her I’m sorry i but her in this situation .. and try to find out if he said anything about me?
I’m losing hope here:(Oh, that is so hard, but I really think the acting like a stranger thing is just something they do to protect themselves. I had it happen to me many times with my ex before the ex I have now. He would treat me like a stranger, and then we would get back together.
I don’t know if you should talk to the friend or not. Maybe just to see if she knows anything?
Thank you @Sunshine11
but it felt very bad ..
I’m not used to be treated like that 🙁 .. I has been 2 weeks .. how can he do this .. haven’t he missed me at all?
He’s still in town for another day .. should I contact him?
Or send him a message? 🙁I don’t think I would contact him just yet. I know it is hard because you just saw him and the way he treated you, but I don’t think I would
I did send him a text message .. but he didn’t answer me .. 🙁
I feel like I’ve lost him already !dont feel this way. stay strong. you can do this. keep working on yourself and making yourself stronger. if he acts cold you act cold act the same way he acts towards you. I dont think you should have text him. dont worry about that he didnt reply. dont do this again well not for a while. hes probably still upset. hang in there your doing very well. 🙂 keep us posted. 🙂
@aamls .. hope you’re fine ..
And you are doing well ..
I’m feeling down .. he doesn’t want us to be friends !
IDK .. I’m talking to his friend .. he said he have no one in he’s life .. but he’s having sex with random girls!
This is bad .. and hurts so much .. i could nit leave my bed since i saw him yesterday .. 🙁hi thanks, stay strong and keep working on yourself. it only means hes very hurt and still cares about you. dont get depress get up and do something you like. 🙂
I know i heart him so much the last time .. but it has been 2 weeks now .. and I thought he will be over his anger ..
anyway .. i was sending him messages non-stop .. with no reply from him ..
so i contacted him from another number .. and he told me to “leave him alone”
So I told my cousin to tell him that I don’t want anything from him .. and that all I want is to be friends with him … because it hurt me so much when we ran into each other .. and acted like strangers ..
so she told him so .. but he didn’t reply to her as welldont contact him anymore. give hiim time and space your only pushing him farther away and you dont want to do that. stay no contact for 2 months. then test the waters.
But 2 monthes is a long time .. in my country .. im sure that by that time he will be in love with another girl .. and It’ll be too late to get him back .. actually .. Im afraid that he might be seeing another girl 🙁
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But he’s not answering any of my messages:(
I want him back really bad!I know but your a mess right now and are needy and clingy. work on yourself. you can do this stay strong. 🙂
I know .. but I just want to see him before he’s back to his town …
and I know i can win him back if he saw me 🙁but what happen when he saw you and hes not answering you. I think he still needs time and space. but ultimately its up to you what you do. hes apparently trying to avoid you. stay strong you can do this but do what you gotta do. since you know him you know how he’ll act so if you think it will work then go for it. good luck and keep us posted. 🙂
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