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@maloto970 .. thanx for your reply .. but what do you think about what he said to me yesterday? .. about missing me and changing the profile pic because I didn’t like it .. and etc ?
Does this mean any thing?
And why did he say that he wants me out if his life and that he wasn’t comfortable talking to me? (I re read our conversation after the Skype talk .. he said he was happy .. and that he felt better then ) 🙁
I’m so confused 🙁
I want him bad .. and I don’t know if there is any chance ..
What do you think?● Update:
So now .. as he unblocked me .. I can see .. he’s online almost all the time ..
and he stayed up late till 5am yesterday 🙁
He rarely did this with me .. he used to wake up early .. even if I stayed up late.. I stay up alone 🙁 ..
He used to stay late with me at the beginning of our relationship .. before admiting that wevlove each other 🙁
I’m afraid he’s talking to another girl .. and that’s why he want me out of his life 🙁
So I don’t effect his relationship with her ..
What do you think? 🙁
it’s a month since our break up .. and if there is a girl she’s not a rebound 🙁It could be, but you don’t know that for sure. Stay strong. Take care of yourself. It will all be okay in the end, if it isn’t okay, then it isn’t the end. I heard that once.
Don’t think about it too much because it will make you want to contact him.
mema stay strong you can do this, when you feel like that think that others have it worse. im in so much pain that I cant bare with it anymore, I keep hearing take it easy, calm down, move on, let it go, ect ect ect, but how? from “thinking” about it to “really” wanting to kick me out of his life for good. do I deserve this no but its happening to me. sorry I may not even be the best person to be giving advise as look where im at and feel atm. this is the worse I’ve gone through yet and idk how im still standing he left me 2 weeks after my dad passed away and was already talking to females that bitch cousin of mine being one of them. anyways I think you should continue to work on yourself and dont contact him until he contacts you so you dont look needy or clingy. stay strong you can do this.
Thanx sunshine and aamls ..
I’m really afraid .. I want him back .. and I’m jealous type girl .. I’d go crazy if he’s talking to someone else .. I love him so much .. how can he forget about us and go talking to other girls? 🙁
I love him and I want him to only mine 🙁He loves you too! If he talks to someone else it’s just for trying to move on! But you two has been together for a long time and do you really think he can just find someone like that and forget about you? Don’t be silly 😉 I’d say that you’ll get him back even faster if he starts dating, because he will really fast realize how stupid it was to start dating and he will be the one coming back to you. Just let some time go, you know best for how long. If you’ve never been apart for more than a week, a month will do wonders 🙂 And then take contact in the appropriate way, no begging or emotions, just a happy, caring and charming you! Continue being friends and meet up eventually, you’ll fall in love again and your bond will be so much stronger than it was last time. During this break, do something you enjoy! Do you have any hobbies? 🙂
Thanx @Maloto970 .. you really think that he loves me?
I want to believe this .. but I’m scared .. I mean .. he said many nice things .. he acted nice to me after being so mean .. hes finally texting me back .. after ignoring me .. but still .. he wants me out of his life?
Why would he act like this?
Sending me mixed signals ..
deep down .. I feel like he’s still in love with me .. he’s just so hurt .. and he thinks I’ll never change .. he’s trying to push me away so he can forget about me .. and because he knows that if we talked again .. he’ll fall in love with me ..
I mean .. when we talked .. at first he acted mean .. but then he was nice .. he was happy and I guess he felt nostalgic ..
that’s why he said that he didn’t want to talk to me anymore ..
but still .. I don’t think I’m thinking straight .. I feel like I have a blur on my eyes … and that I only see what my hearts want to see .. and I’m fooling myself 🙁 ..
What do you think?oh @Maloto970 thats a good advise i can relate to @mema my dear i feel you but as long u cn show to him being needy he cn use his ego and pride pushing u away..my ex remember dating someone else he didn’t send me any msg 4days for now.. but even i miss him i still keep quiet yea im hurt,crying but never try to send him message and in my mind i was wishing hope he realized that he still need me,he still want me..i want him to be back to me so wht ever are problem is we cn solve it in his own way 🙂
I know that you it is very easy to think that you can show him you have changed by talking to him, but it really does help to take a break from talking to him. My ex before this current ex that I want to get back had a very similar situation to this one. And he would always tell me that he wanted me the most when he wanted to talk, but I was able to say no or was busy or whatever and didn’t talk to him. It does help create more attraction.
I agree that you should not contact him. Time passes. He may move on but as long as you keep on loving him and keep working on yourself, you won’t lose him. One day, you’ll see him again and he’ll see you. Or you’ll text him to find out how he’s doing… And you can genuinely respond that you’re doing very well. It will change his opinion of you and open up the opportunity for a new beginning. You must both move on and be happy without each other so that you can be even happier when you meet up and have the opportunity to start again. Then, the double happiness will make him want to stay with you forever. But you must always work on yourself! And encourage the same in him! 🙂
Can’t add much since its been said but I do agree with no contact for a bit. It sounds like he is still holding onto negative feelings and needs more time and space. It’s tough but it’s true, but it sounds like you’ve realized that. Good luck and hope it all goes well
@whena .. thank you dear .. I’m not talking to him anymore .. I started NC again.. I wanna show him that I’ve changed and I want to be his friend for now .. but … what do you think about wjat he said to me?
Do you think that he still have feelings for me?
I know he’s hurt .. and I’m willing to give him time ..
but he’s sending me mixed signals .. and I’m not sure if he has someone in his life 🙁 ..
What do you think?
And about your ex .. just give him time .. he’s trying to make you jealous .. he’ll text you soon .. don’t worry 🙂Thanx @sunshine11 .. this time I’ll do my best to not break the NC .. but I’m afraid that he have someone new in his life .. and this thought is killing me 🙁
And do you think that he have feelings for me?
I know he’s hurt .. but what he said about missing me and stuff ..but he still want me out of his life .. does this mean that he is in love with me but he’s still hurt?@pusherlovegrl
I’m doing my best in working on myself .. but I feel weak around him 🙁
You know .. I’m doing great in my life now .. but when it comes to him .. I can’t help it .. whenever I talk to him .. all the good memories .. the happy moments .. comes back to me 🙁
Idk why 🙁
I’m trying my best not to show him that .. but it’s hard ..
And .. I don’t wanna lose him ..
but I feel like I did already .. even that he said that he misses me sometime .. but the fact that he still want me out of his life is terrifying me 🙁
Why does he want me out of his life this bad? 🙁
He said that he can’t forgive me anymore ..
What do you think? 🙁@Mema thats good chill dn’t stress as long that he is still single be with yourself again before u met..hw cheerful and sweet you are, be the girl he love before.
oh my ex i saw him in relationship i use to think its rebound cuz why so fast to have a new gf.. but i lose hope i dn’t wanna hurt again..i hate him but still its his choice i dn’t know why he do that very fast so unreasonable but all i want to do is enjoy my life without him..hoping that girl will love him the way i am..
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