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And his friend told me .. that he told him that he regret that we got back the last time .. and it was a mistake .. but he wanted to give us a last chance ..
after that we get back together as friends .. and broke up like i said on the post ..And when we was together last time .. I was browsing his photos on whatsApp .. and there was photos of this new friend he has .. so.. i opened the folder .. and saw photos of me and him .. that was sent to her.. i told him that i want to see what they were talk about .. so i read the conversation .. he told her .. we broke up a year ago .. i asked him about this .. and he told me that he told her so .. because he didn’t want to explain how things went between us ..
i thought that he’s into her .. but in the convo .. she said “bro” to him ..
so what does that mean?I’m working on myself .. but when we get back .. I feel like he doesn’t appreciate it .. and keep doing the same annoying things .. so .. at our first fight .. he stops spending much time with me ..start being a jerk again .. then .. I’m back to were i was before because of anger .. 🙁
It’s bad I know ..
but .. I spent the most incredible 3 years with him .. and right before he blocked me .. I asked him .. if he still have feelings for me .. he said yes .. but there not enough .. and they are like 1% ..
and when we were together last time .. he told me .. he’s in love with me .. but doesn’t want to be in a relationship with me anymore .. 🙁
and I don’t even know what does that mean ..
And I’m losing faith in my case .. I think i don’t have any chance with him 🙁Actually .. IDK why .. he blocked me the 3rd time we broke up this year.. so i blocked him too.. then he did something wrong .. and i blocked him for a while ..
It always ends by me unblocking him .. so within the next 24 hours he talks to me .. or by me texting him ALOT .. till he unblocks me
i think it’s habit .. and because we are tired of all the yelling and this stuff 🙁@divjun
I’m focusing on myself ..
got a job interview next week ..
Preparing for my master’s exam next month .. “i hope i get accepted”
And going to gym ..
but still .. i can’t get him out of my head 🙁
And i keep thinking .. he is over me .. and he doesn’t love me anymore 🙁@aamls
thanx..
but he’s friends hates us together because we fight ALOT
especially on the last days before we break up .. and they says we’re more happy when we broke up .. and they say it’s a mistake .. 🙁@aamls
BTW ..
He always block me when we broke up .. and i do the same .. i blocked him too .. on phone social media and IM ..
not the first time :$Thanx Divjun ..
This guy is talking to me as a friend .. and he doesn’t want to get evolved in our problems .. but he always tills my ex that we should not get back together .. and he has a bad influence on my ex 🙁
And I’ll continue the NC role .. but I’m afraid that he’ll not call or even answers me anymore 🙁IDK .. but all of his 3 closest friends hate me as his girlfriend ..but still contact me as a friend!!.. and they even had a fight with him because he wanted to go away with me ..
But this guy is talking to me daily ..
i mentioned he’s gay to make it clear he doesn’t have a crush on me “like thier other friend” ..
but he’s being so mean to me when i talk about him 🙁
and I don’t think my ex is bi .. he’s straight ..Almost the Same thing is happening to me .. I think you should give him time .. he’ll contact you again.. he’s clearly in love with you ^_^
Sry it took me a while to reply ..
I had a rough week myself ..
so .. i was reading this “relationship rewind” book .. it says that you’re husband is in a “drift” stage .. in the most effective way to get him back is to establish a “False Friendship ” with him .. showing him that you chose friendship over relationship ..and contacting him as a friend ..
it’s a strange way .. but it might work ..
i thing you should read the book too .. you can download it for free on Google 😀He is maybe jealous because of the meat cutter guy and he’s trying to make u feel bad about it a little .. I read both of your topics ..
Honestly .. I think that what you had together can’t be forgotten in a month or two ..
And ..
because of the children .. I think you shouldn’t start the NC role .. you can stop calling .. but you should answer his calls sometimes ..
He clearly still has feelings for you .. and I think .. if you act smart .. you can get back with him by being his friend ..
Good luck .. and keep us updated ^_^
