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    idontknow
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    Does the magic second chance letter actually work?

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    Vanessa9
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    Did u finish the NC 30days?

    #10701
    idontknow
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    No I have only done a week

    #10704
    Vanessa9
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    Finish the NC, that’s the only way to attract him back.
    Or the more u chase him , he will be further away.

    #10705
    idontknow
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    Have you done the NC and if you did, did it work?

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    Vanessa9
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    I have done 2 weeks, but I will try to make him out first.
    And I won’t do The magic letter, cuz he is not that kind of person who is easily moved by a letter. If he is interested in getting back he will express it ..but if he is not, then he will express it either:)
    Different people different way

    #10709
    idontknow
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    Okay Thank you

    #10711
    idontknow
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    Has he tried contacting you at all?

    #10713
    Vanessa9
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    No, because I did everythin stupid on the list after we broke up:(, so it needs a longer time…

    #10714
    idontknow
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    Also basically he broke up with me because he didn’t want to have the obligation to have to hang out with me all the time. I would have been fine if we could have just talked about it but instead he broke up with me. I feel like there is a chance he will start missing me and come back. Is there?

    #10716
    idontknow
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    And I haven’t talked to him since we broke up.

    #10718
    Vanessa9
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    Yes u do have a chance.
    Start acting cool and show him you are not needy and clingy any more.

    #10719
    idontknow
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    some background:
    We went out for over 5 months and we had one little fight that we both got over but other than that we had a strong 5 months with no fights. Nothing drastic happened.

    #10721
    Vanessa9
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    Well obviously he just needs space.
    Especially young guys:) they won’t need same much space when they are getting old…
    He is young and he needs time to realize he misses u

    #10722
    idontknow
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    Ya thats excatly what his friends said. I’m giving him space and time for him to realize what he’s missing. On a scale of 1-10 how much chance do I have with getting back with him?

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