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Thank you @Sunshine11
but it felt very bad ..
I’m not used to be treated like that 🙁 .. I has been 2 weeks .. how can he do this .. haven’t he missed me at all?
He’s still in town for another day .. should I contact him?
Or send him a message? 🙁Ok .. here is my favourite plan .. i used to do this before i met my bf after a big fight ..
go to your room .. and cry your eyes out .. think about every wrong thing he did .. every time he heart you .. and every beautiful moment you shared together .. and cry till you don’t have tears in your eyes.. i mean this literally ..
this will make you feel a little bit better i hope ..
then the next morning .. wear some make up so you eyes don’t look like you cried .. and meet him with the biggest smile you can have 😀
Can you do this?I agree with @divjun ..
I think you should go out with him .. and till him that you’re sorry .. and talk things through in a mature way .. no yelling .. no anger .. no crying .. you don’t want to seem so needy ..
plz stay strong 🙁
we are all here with you ^_^Quoted from Kevin’s email:
here is what you need to write in the letter
– Agree with the breakup
– Let them know that you think that you both need space
– If you had been doing something new (something positive), let them know about it. This is to pique their curiosity and plant a happy image of you in their mind. Don’t lie about it, find something that you feel fortunate about. But don’t mention it in the letter. That is if they call back ( and there is a good chance they will) you must have something to say about that positive thing.
– Apologize briefly, if you acted desperate, crazy or insecure during the breakup. KEEP IT BRIEF. NO MORE THAN 2-3 SENTENCESFor example,
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John,
Just wanted to drop off a short note to let you know that I am totally okay with your decision to split up.
Saw it coming for awhile.I wanted to also let you know how sorry I am for acting like I did after the breakup. It was totally disrespectful to you. I apologize that I hurt you.
Oh! Some good news! I had a fantastic change in fortune and luck the other day. Funny timing…huh?
Love to fill you in…but in the future. You and I both need some space right now.
-Jane
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Dont be sad .. i know it hurts .. but we are all here to help each other .. and alot of people here have had a relationship rewind .. and got thier exs back.. so keep your hopes up ^_^
And ..
could you give me any advice on my story plz?
I’d like to hear your opinion ..
^_^I know it hurts .. i keep having a thought that my ex is with other girls ..
And it kills me!!
But i hope this may be a rebound relationship .. and once he realise that you’re gone .. he’ll start missing you ..
You have nothing to lose .. right?Like sunshine said .. you should try the Nc .. he used to have you in his life for 7 years .. and i thing if you stopped calling him he’ll notice that immediately .. and he hopefully realise how much he loves you .. and wants you back ^_^
I’m reading the relationship rewind when I have spare time .. which make me think more about him -_- .. but not so sure that I can text him using something related to his “GSI” as the book says ..
IDK .. i keep having this feeling that i lost him and nothing I’ll do will give our relationship another chance ..
and I may have not said .. that I’m from Syria .. and due to the war .. we can rarly travel to meet each other ..so .. him coming to my city is a big opportunity to meet him .. cuz IDK when the next time is gonna be 🙁
But still .. it has been only 9 days since I’ve started the NC .. and I don’t want to seems desperate to him 🙁@aamls .. as i said .. he blocked me on social media .. but am still posting positive famous sayings .. but I’m not going out with my friends alot .. I’m preparing to take my master’s acceptance exam .. that’s why I’m home most of time .. which gives me more time to be alone ang think about him 🙁
And he’s always out with his friends having fun ..
and it’s our 6th break up .. Im starting to think he’s not pretending to be happy .. I think he’s really happy without me@aamls and @deedee
thank you both 🙁 ..
But it just keep getting harder and harder ..
a mutual friend of us .. told me today that he’s coming to town next week .. ” he moved back to his town after we graduated this summer.. and he came to my city 4 times in 4 monthes” ..
IDK what yo do ..
i just want to go there.. hug him .. and tell him how much i miss him 🙁 ..
She also told me that on social media .. he looks like hes having fun .. and always posting photos of him and his friends 🙁 .. i think this tome he’s over me .. and I’m loosing hope 🙁Thanx @aamls .. the problem is I’m missing him more and more each day .. and it hurts ALOT 🙁
I’m thinking of stupid romantic things to do to tell him how i love him .. and the only thing that is holding me back is this forum 🙁Thank you @deedee
but I’m afraid that it will not work any more with us:(
U know .. cuz all the bbreak ups we had 🙁
Do you think it will work?Well I hope that those who get their esx back could help us ..
I’m loosing hope here 🙁
