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I know. It really is the fact that i didnt get to say anything to her that i wanted to. Its holding me back. I cant do it in a letter @KD1988. She might not even read my letter. It needs to be said in person. I need her to see it in my eyes. I can say what i wanted to say to her a month ago. Everything that i need to say, everything about everything basically. I have notes and all. Im actually ready to talk this time. Im not blindsided this time. That i want to remain friends. I do not like that we are strangers to each other now. I gave her what she needed to move on, i think its only fair to me if she shows the same curtoesy. Right? Its been over a month without talking. How much time does she need to just give me 15 mins? i dont think i can wait much longer. Im trying to go on living. I need this tho. I need it for myself to move on. Ive always been good to her, always gave her what she needed in life to make her happy. Couldnt she see it in the same way? That after everything, she cant give me the one thing im asking for?
Its sad, i thought we could reconcile. Seems like it was never in the cards from the beginning. She just wants to be alone. Figures i would find the one girl who WANTS to be alone instead of with someone =/ Yea i have the letter already. I will send it soon. Cant believe this still. It hurts so much. Closure will give me what i need. If i can do it in person, that would be key. She told my parents, best friend and myself that she would talk to me when she is rdy. I just hope its not much longer. I know when she is done work. Might give her the whole week to reach out. If not ill send a FB msg to her this time(since im not blocked)saying that “im trying to move on fully, i just wanna say my peace with you in person, get all this crap of my chest and then we can go our seperate ways” or something like that. If she doesnt respond, then i will have to take that STEP where i show up to her work when she is leaving and ask her in person to talk to me. “That i dont want a realtionship anymore, let me say what i need to say to you. It will only take alittle of your time. You want me to move on from you, and i need this to do that.” Hopefully she bites, i can say the stuff i need to say and then i KNOW i will be a better person all around.
@KD1988 see i dont know if ill ever be rdy cause i never got the closure i needed. It just eats away at me all day. So many unanswered questions….
I will. I just hope that she DID get it and at least saw what it said. I dont think im blocked but there is always a chance. I really hope she got it and is doin what you are saying. As long as i get any kind of answer. That would be fine.
After a whole month, you would think she would at least txt back “not yet” or something. You think you know somebody..
Okay that sounds like a solid plan. It sucks to wait another whole week tho. Really have to get this off my chest, see where it goes, so i can start to just move on with life
Should i send the same msg on FB to her? Ill state “not sure if you got my txt. U might have me blocked, idk.” then ill repeat the msg. Good idea?
Could it also be she might of blocked my number since we last txted a month ago? There is no way of telling unless you call but i dont want to take that risk.
@KD1988 Just reached out basically. said i know u asked for time and i respect that, that it might be a good idea for us to meet up and talk. To let me know what she thinks.
@JeanValins Thanks man. Im pretty much in the clear. Still hurts terribly but i think the NC worked wonders. What is eating at me is that I just have so many questions and stuff that i just want her to hear, and thats it.I know. I was so hard to txt her. NC ws tough as nails and im just looking to get everything off my chest because i never did when she broke up with me. Blindsided badly. Once that is done, ill be able to settle my brain and know that i said what i needed to say and she heard it. I dont know the outcome, but I just need to be heard out finally so i can go on living.
This is amazing. I hope that all of us one day find our ways back like @YBSM did. Hope that one day it will be me who posts something like this. Everyone wish each other luck, that one day we find our loves again. =)
Thanks @KD1988. Yea but normal talk could be good. Getting your foot in the door is pretty nice =) Still no contact from her at all. I hope my friend has some good news for me. Today is 3 weeks since she told me she would reach out.
Good Luck @KD1988. My friend talked to my ex for an hour last night about everything for the first time since the break. I asked him “would u say it went well?” He said “Yes and no”. Wont know until later today what happen. Wish me luck
Yea i told him to make sure to mention that He is giving advice because he loves us both alot. His words not mine. That he always saw us together, that whatever this is, we can work through it.
My best friend, her good friend is gonna call her in an hour. Talk to her about life, how is she doing, stuff like that and then end it with advice when it comes to me and her. He just wants to do some digging and give his adivce. She always went to him for advice so it is commonplace for this. What do you guys think?
