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@tighem hmm that is a good point. She could be doing the same thing as me(us). Using NC to fix what was bothering her about our realtionship and maybe herself even tho i still really have no idea what went wrong with us. Thanks for that advice. It made me feel great in a way.
Thanks man for the advice. I believe the same thing. I think she just needs time to breathe even tho our realtionship was great. I strongly believe its the case of “grass being greener on the other side”
Here’s my story if you need better insight on what happen. Thanks @tg7188 and anyone else willing to share advice
Day 17 broken up, 8 days since contact from her telling me she will reach out to me when she is ready. Each day goes by, trying to make the best of everything. Keeping my head in my job, trying to find something to do when i get home lol. I know i can be confident when we finally talk and try to work stuff out if she wants too. People i talk to actaully tell me they are proud of me because i really havent broken NC or made any deadly mistakes. That is terribly hard to not txt or call your ex after the break up. Yea its eating away at me, but i will manage. Each passing day makes everything come in perspective. I truly believe down deep me and her are not done. That this is kinda a “hiccup” in our realtionship and all that we need to do is get through it and make myself a better person from it and so does she. That with this time away from each other, makes our relationship even stronger. How is everyone today with their NC? Love to hear
Im tying my best man. One day at a time. The pain will slowly go away i hope. I wish us both luck
Andd the txting was literally one txt and then of course what she txted me out of the blue that i mentioned earlier in this thread.
I try so hard to do other things with friends and stuff as much as possible. I try to keep my mind off of her, but the pain always comes back. She broke it off feb 21st so i just hit my 3rd week. I thought it was suppose to get easier. It feels like its just getting harder and harder like my body is rejecting life itself as time passes. The only time we txted was for her phone that i got her. We never actaully “talked” yet so i feel that we havent broken NC.
I feel as if my soul stayed in the car that day with her. I literally will not be thinking about her at all. Completely doing something else and all of a sudden i get this overwhemling pain in my chest. That i have to stop what i am doing. I dont know what it is but its like my heart is giving out on me sometimes. Its like losing my soulmate. I really dont know why she did this to me. It bearing a hole in my life. I feel that if this doesnt surface soon, i will have to seek help. I am so scared. Im haunted by the fact that i will never lay my eyes on her again. That i wont be able to feel her kiss or the warmth of her body next to me ever again.
Ughh i know it is. Its so difficult working on yourself when the happiest ive been ever in my life is when she was in it. Did you read my story @tami420?
She contacted my mom today about the phone i bought her and my mom said she sounded really depressed and sad on the phone. I know she said she would contact me, but what if she is really waiting for me to contact her? To fight for her. Im not sure. She could just be feeling as crappy as me right now and still thinking things over. I just want this to be over with already!!
I feel ya man. This is something i thought would never happen. I am still so in awe after 2 weeks now. I really cant believe it. Just keep the NC and see what happens. We gotta let them miss us. I never did much wrong in the realtionship, what could she possibly holding onto?
You too man, hopefully we can get through this. I know we both want them back, just hopefully she feels the same way when she deciedes to finally contact me. Ill give any updates as they come up.
