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Well first if she wanted to unfriend and unfollow me, she would have in the beginning. It was like the 18th day broken up when she did it. I was on instagram and i saw that she liked a funny pic from the simpsons on a random following. I liked it as well cause i thought it was funny. I then started following that thread. About 5 mins later, i noticed that she unfollowed me and then i went on fb and the same thing too. It was like she saw me like it and thought….”omg hes stalking me” when i wasnt at all. She could be doing it to so we both dont see each others stuff but i dont have a good feeling thats it.
What do i do @RustyRed if she unfriended me on fb and instagram? It was because of something that happen on instagram that we liked the same thing and she prob thought i was stalking her but i wasnt.
Im on 19 days broken up. 10 days since she contacted me about reaching out when she is rdy and 2 days from when i liked something on instagram that she liked too and it went south and she unfollowed me. Plus unfriended me too on Facebook. So i have no idea where im at. Hopefully my friend comes through for me and can fish some info from her(my bestfriend, he was close to her too cause of me, he hasnt talked to her since the breakup)
Tell me what you guys think about the plan and the letter. All will help me out. Thank you guys and girls alot for all of your support. It really has helped me through this hard time
Dear Margo,
Since that snowy day in your car, I have had a lot of time to think about our relationship; time that I wouldn’t have if we haven’t split up. With this time I have been able to work on myself as a person and also work on myself towards you. I know you told me that it was nothing I did, and I believe you; that doesn’t mean that there isn’t room to improve. I know sometimes I was overbearing with always telling you what you didn’t do right or how to do things, and I was wrong for that; that maybe I should of mentioned all the things you did right all the time instead. That is something I will always regret doing. I feel that I became more of a father than your boyfriend to you. I never meant for that to happen, I just always wanted to make sure you had the best, and I fell ass backwards into it. We both know that we had our little hiccups in our relationship, but never enough to outweigh the great times we shared together.I remember when I surprised you with a trip to the Baltimore Aquarium when we first started dating and you were so excited that you made yourself sick; twice lol. Or when we went on our cruise together and as a family we must have had 100 ice cream cones by the pool; I even bought those stupid ass sunglasses from that guy in the Bahamas. The “John Rizzo incident” at Matt’s house still brings tears to my eyes. You were so embarrassed by it but we all could not stop laughing. The Zoo with Kerry and Derek….you screamed every time you saw an animal and in the petting zoo, you had to take a picture with every single animal they had; we all still loves those pics. We even had the small things like when they switched King of Queens with Mike and Molly. We were so mad until we started liking it.
One of my favorite moments in our relationship, in my life actually, is when the most unorganized girlfriend gave her OCD boyfriend the best birthday he has ever had. You planned everything out without me even having a clue. You told me get in the car and ask no questions. You made reservations for dinner, booked a hotel, the movies. Everything was perfect; you even packed me an overnight bag with everything you knew I would need. God you looked so beautiful that night. You were a prittyoungthang like always. I will never forget that day.
Like I said before, I have had time to think and to improve myself. You probably can’t believe it but I’ve lost around 20lbs since the last time you have seen me. I’ve been slowing down on soda and junk food; I have been going out more with my friends too. You made me realize that life isn’t on a couch, to keep the people I care about closer and not neglect them when they ask you to come out; especially you. I know that now, and I thank you for it. I’m sorry that I had to realize it too late Margo, something I will have to live with forever. Thank you for giving me two and a half great years together and five years of your amazing laugh that I have loved ever since the day I met you.
I hope we can share memories together again someday….
With all my love
Jared
Heres my letter @RustyRed. Tell me what u think 🙂 i fixed it a bit. Thats the rough rough draft lol
Okay cool, thanks again @tighem. I was feeling so much better after 2 weeks last night and then this happens. I hope this doesnt hurt anything. I was basically looking at everyones feed on instagram and i saw that post under her feed on Instagram and so i liked it. She prob saw that it was around when she liked it too. (what are the odds she prob said) then i started following that thread of pics on Instagram. Right after that i noticed she unfriended me on Facebook and unfollowed me on Instagram. I just hope she didnt think i was stalking her or anything. It wasnt that. By the way, she didnt un friend any of my friends and didnt block me on fb. Could be that she justs wants that space. So no posts from either side come in for me or her to see from Facebook or instagram.
Could be. She prob just caught on that i was checking her stuff. I never liked anything or commented on her stuff. Just looked. I liked the same post as her and the started following that guy. It is one of those funny thread followings. She prob saw that i liked the same thing as her. So she caught on. If anything, this is good cause it will add to the mystery of what we are doing since neither of us can check anymore. She didnt block me on fb tho, just unfriended me.
Well i was on instagram and i liked something she liked on some random following. I thought it was funny. Then all of a sudden i was unfollowed and unfriended
