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Ex just put up a tweet last night that said “looks like I’m going to be single for the summer” She knows that i dont have a twitter. What does this mean? Does she want me to fight for her even tho she told me she would reach out first?
Sounds to me she is looking for attention. She might want you to take action.
Keep NC though and don’t let her have the upperhand
Yea on the 21st it will be 30 days no contact. I was gonna txt her on the 22nd with this…
“Hey. I wanted to reach out to you to touch base on everything. I know you’ve asked for time, and it’s only been a month since the breakup but I wanted to see if we could meet up to discuss everything. I think it would be a good idea for us both to meet up and talk. Let me know what you think. Just know that i completely understand if your not ready to talk yet but i wanted u to know that i haven’t abandoned you or givin up on you yet”
Srry i just saw it myself. It says “first time i will be single for the summer in 5 years. Keep me in ur prayers.” I really am getting sick to my stomach with this. Please help guys.
I really think you should stick to NC. she is looking for attention.
Regarding the text you want to send her, I don’t know if it’s a good idea to put in there that you want to meet up to talk about everything. She might panic and feel pressured with that.
So i should just leave it out but keep everything else? @KD1988
@Jared it is completely up to you what you say of course. My advice would be to try and lighten it up a little bit so it doesn’t sound so serious. If this is the first bit of contact you are having with her, then you want her to know that you have used your time apart to create a difference in yourself, and this should be obvious from how you are speaking. Do you feel emotionally ready to send it? What if she replies and says she doesn’t want to talk, doesn’t want to meet etc. Im not saying that she will, but IF she does, will you be emotionally prepared for that?
Hmm see its weird, she said she would reach out to me 3 weeks ago. Hasnt yet. I never got closure from her so ive been kinda waiting around. This talk im trying to have is basically a “where are we with this”. I wanna just put that into words, u know what i mean? And if she says no or not yet, I would say something like give me a timeline then or at least lets make some type of plans.
This whole thing is really killing me inside. What is she not rdy to talk about yet? its been 3 weeks since she said that. If its the same thing she told me before, than why are u not rdy to talk? i need help with this. Saturday will be 30 days. Idk what to do.
Please anyone. When u guys give me advice, it makes me feel better. I really only have you guys as theaphy for me right now. This is so hard.
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