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  • March 27, 2015 at 10:28 am #38341
    Jared
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    Sent a txt to her for the first time in 5 weeks over hour ago. No answer yet. Getting scared =/ Help

    March 27, 2015 at 10:31 am #38344
    JeanValins
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    If u r scared thats mean u did not back to the same guy u were then i dont recommande it at all

    Be strong and dont be a chicken u the man

    March 27, 2015 at 10:38 am #38346
    Jared
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    I know. I was so hard to txt her. NC ws tough as nails and im just looking to get everything off my chest because i never did when she broke up with me. Blindsided badly. Once that is done, ill be able to settle my brain and know that i said what i needed to say and she heard it. I dont know the outcome, but I just need to be heard out finally so i can go on living.

    March 27, 2015 at 10:39 am #38347
    KD1988
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    @Jared what did you say?

    March 27, 2015 at 10:40 am #38349
    JeanValins
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    I can talk to u one in one if u wanna know what else u need to do

    March 27, 2015 at 10:46 am #38350
    Jared
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    @KD1988 Just reached out basically. said i know u asked for time and i respect that, that it might be a good idea for us to meet up and talk. To let me know what she thinks.


    @JeanValins     Thanks man. Im pretty much in the clear. Still hurts terribly but i think the NC worked wonders. What is eating at me is that I just have so many questions and stuff that i just want her to hear, and thats it.

    March 27, 2015 at 11:55 am #38376
    Jared
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    Could it also be she might of blocked my number since we last txted a month ago? There is no way of telling unless you call but i dont want to take that risk.

    March 27, 2015 at 11:57 am #38378
    KD1988
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    @Jared you are starting to overthink. Maybe you weren’t ready to reach out yet. When you are ready you won’t be as bothered if you don’t get a reply or wondering why you don’t get a reply. Just be calm, and clear and collected

    March 27, 2015 at 11:58 am #38379
    Jared
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    Should i send the same msg on FB to her? Ill state “not sure if you got my txt. U might have me blocked, idk.” then ill repeat the msg. Good idea?

    March 27, 2015 at 12:00 pm #38381
    KD1988
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    @Jared, no I don’t think you should. Because if she hasn’t blocked you and she HAS got it, then you look desperate and needy. Just give her some time.

    March 27, 2015 at 12:08 pm #38386
    pineappleblue
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    @jared I agree with KD! Give her time.. If she hasn’t replied in say a week, send a different message but via a different means? So send it on Facebook instead of text, just not both! And don’t mention the original message..

    March 27, 2015 at 12:10 pm #38387
    Jared
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    Okay that sounds like a solid plan. It sucks to wait another whole week tho. Really have to get this off my chest, see where it goes, so i can start to just move on with life

    March 27, 2015 at 12:36 pm #38396
    Jared
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    After a whole month, you would think she would at least txt back “not yet” or something. You think you know somebody..

    March 27, 2015 at 12:40 pm #38398
    KD1988
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    You don’t know what she is thinking. If she has got it she could be thinking of the right thing to say back. You must give her time. You can’t pressure her or she will run a mile and you don’t want that. Just be patient. I agree, if in a week you haven’t heard from her then send her something else by a different way

    March 27, 2015 at 1:50 pm #38422
    Jared
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    I will. I just hope that she DID get it and at least saw what it said. I dont think im blocked but there is always a chance. I really hope she got it and is doin what you are saying. As long as i get any kind of answer. That would be fine.

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