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Dear guys,
So active you guys .. I even cried on the bus this morning . I miss him so bad. 🙁
But luckily I don’t wanna contact him yet. 🙂Last night , I went to gym class for enquiry about gym course and took a look to trainer. I hope to get fat . I want to show him the NEW ME after NC.
I hope all of you guys to be OK. Thank you all. All posts can help me alot.
I also acted like you last 2 months ago. What’s the result ? You push her further away from you. Do not favor on your emotion. Just favor on your brain.
Emotion can force you to make bad things that you will surely regret later.
Pull yourself together now. I read Kevin’s advice again and again when I started feel like you ( totally like you and I even did worse than you ) .
I trust you can do it.Just follow the 5 step plan. Make positive change to you both physically and mentally. Just Head up. You don’t need to announce your ex that you’re doing NC. You don’t need to announce that you are ok by mouth. Just need to show that after appropriate time. Rain without thunder is the best rain. It’s not easy though.. but you can do it. Begging, desperation makes you unattractive. Just try to erase your needy image from her mind.
Hayyyyy yo !! Today is my 30 days of NC. I’m good. 🙂
(I won’t be good if i haven’t fris like you guys and Kevin)Thank you so much fris .
Dear a.z,
I hope you to get well, soon.
Hey fris,
By the way, what should I do if my ex used to stay away from me ?
What should I do if my ex is in real solid relationship with new when i contact him back after NC ?Ohhhhhhhhh no .. I think no hope. But need your opinion guys.
Have you already subscribed to kevin’s email series ?
it can help you a lot.
You should follow the 5step plan.It will increase your chances.
Do not check her on fb, chat ,concentrate on yourself and make positive changes in your life.Good luck
In this case, I’m also same as you. I need advice from other ppl like you. We just wait together for advices.
Any advice from anyone is welcome !
I think you shouldn’t talk to her during your NC. You should also take your NC longer. Or not , she may think that she can get you whenever she wants like other boys she is playing with. You should show her that you are not always available for her. I think She’s immature yet.
NC is only for you. Not for her. During NC, you should improve yourself so, you can get your respect from her. The only one who allow her to do that things is only you. Just let her know that you are not ok for that.
Just talk to her back whenever she talks to you only looks you like weak, looks you like you are waiting for her . You may think it’s just a text , just a tiny text. But NC means no contact at all, no text, no call, no talk, no hang out, nothing. Just disappear on her world for a little while. I’m so sorry If my opinion won’t help you.
Dear LA,
I think It’s a good response.
” One more thing, as we talked she did meantion that she’s learned to not expect anything from a relationship now..than she said awkward let’s talk next subject. ”According to that words she said, I think her relationship may not go well. She want to tell you that but she stop as she may think that she shouldn’t tell you about that. But it’s really good sign , dude. You even tried to end the conversation .. Proud of you ! I think she knows now that you’re not always available for her. Carry on and just update to us. 🙂
Any opinion for LA ? plz reply.
Dear julia,
Rebound is just like he is looking for you in his new gf. That’s mean you are better. For example, if we hear a good songs from radio, we just try to remember the lyrics, search in google and listen to it again and again like 50 times. After that, no more want to listen up. Like that, if he is in honeymoon state, he is so happy, he may even think this new gf is better than you( The grass is greener ) . But after honeymoon state. ( The grass is no more greener ) and i’m sure he will crawl back to you if you really did good on him before. Man usually go according to his emotion. There are things that you can check whether it is rebound or not.
(1) If he choose someone really opposite than you. ( he likes gals with goal in life, gals who don’t wear shorts but just after break up with you, he choose gals who don’t have goals in life, who wear shorts . Because he thinks that he will be happy if he choose really opposite of you. He just test it. )
(2) If he jump into this relationship just after broke up with you. ( he may hate to be single and he may try to get the points that he’ve got with you from Long relationship.)
(3) If he try to rub your face off. ( he pose something on his fb wall, like photos with his new or status like ” Will you love me forever ? ” , “Will you walk with me till end ? ” , “Will you follow with me if I move to other country” which concerned with his new gf ) . It is probably rebound.But the longer he is in this new relationship, the less it can be rebound. If he is in this relationship over a year, this RS may be really solid to him.
I hope so, my ex is in rebound , too. However, I need to improve myself. Both physically and mentally. I know we are good and we can do it.
” If there is a will, there is a way “
Dear LA,
Good luck fri, I know you’ll get positive response. However you’ll get it or not, I know you are good and you’ll be ok as you already prepare for both positive and negative responses. Are you exciting now ? I’m so exciting for you now. Don’t forget to share us as soon as you get something update.
Dear AndyK and fris ,
Thanks to cheer me up fri. I always need you guys.
The power of silent is really helpful.When a child is ignored, even child cries to get his or her parent’s notice. Have you ever felt ignored by someone ? I have felt that way. Ignoring is the best weapon. We will go through NC together. Just Hang in !!
If you get any nice information that can makes our heart strong, please do not hesitate to share it with us. Because , it helps us alot.
Dear julia,
Thank you so much for your quick reply friends .
I will read Relationship Rewind. I also promise you to erase my image from past.
But during NC, I ignore his calls.
I need to get more self-confident and independent from physically and emotionally, too.Thank you and Please kindly let me tell you if i have any update news about my ex during NC.
Dear AndyK,
All I can do is hope it’s rebound, too. What if is not rebound ?? Oh .. I can’t even think.
” You accept that you’re ok if you can’t even get your ex back as there are so much opportunities in out there to happy. ” is one of the RULES THAT HAVE TO BE DONE before contacting your ex. But I still can’t accept it , yet.He didn’t give me the exact reason for break up. I mean he never tell me about breaking up. He just like playing me. He want me to accept his manner of getting 2 gf. He want me to accept that. He put me to back-up , safety-net place by giving trick of marrying me in coming 2 years. How bad !
Firstly, It seems like I accept him . But later i asked myself and I run from that situation. I can’t share. It’s better living in NC than accepting as safety-net place.Dear AndyK,
How will you do if your mutual friends tell your ex that you are still asking about your ex OR you still wanna know whether your ex still miss you or not ?
Do you trust them ? One mouth is hurt to close , fri.
If your ex notice that you are still obsessing about his or her, you ex may not feel anything special about your NC .
