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I also acted like you last 2 months ago. What’s the result ? You push her further away from you. Do not favor on your emotion. Just favor on your brain.
Emotion can force you to make bad things that you will surely regret later.
Pull yourself together now. I read Kevin’s advice again and again when I started feel like you ( totally like you and I even did worse than you ) .
I trust you can do it.Just follow the 5 step plan. Make positive change to you both physically and mentally. Just Head up. You don’t need to announce your ex that you’re doing NC. You don’t need to announce that you are ok by mouth. Just need to show that after appropriate time. Rain without thunder is the best rain. It’s not easy though.. but you can do it. Begging, desperation makes you unattractive. Just try to erase your needy image from her mind.
Hey Kevin, What’s up?? Sorry to hear what happened to you, but I guess we are all in the same boat. Like Khine, I also did the same thing and I ended up pushing her further away. And also when I met her during our training, I tried talking to her, but I guess I asked some of the wrong questions and I felt the coldness from her and guess I’ve got to start NC all over again and give her time and space in the mean time. I miss her dearly and she’s the first and last thing on my mind daily, but what to do?? We’ve got to let our brains control what we do for now as our emotions are messed up. So let your heart take a break and let the brain take over the helm.
BTW, on a side note, did anyone of you purchase relationship rewind?? Whats the difference between RR and the 5 steps? Or please provide any of your personal insight if you have purchased RR.
Thank you.
PS: I wish we could meet up for a coffee or something. Anyway, head out and have fun.
I’ve been working out more like I used to before I met her just to get my mind clear. The thing is though, I called her every name in the book out of spite because I wanted her to feel my pain which was pretty stupid now that I think about it. Every time we’ve fought in the past we’ve ALWAYS forgiven each other and reconnected. Val, I would ask questions like you mentioned that only made me feel worse too! Questions like “have you missed me” and other foolish things to say that my emotions made me do. She was the kind of girl who would stay up very late just to cuddle next to me at night. Everyone’s telling me that after I told her off, if I leave her alone for months she’ll start to realize maybe I am gone. I’ve just never been the kind of guy to leave things to chance. But after what I said, contacting her in any way will guaranteed have no positive impact. Honestly, I don’t know how many people may agree with this but the evenings are the hardest moments. Every night we’d be together and now every night that we’re separated just feels so miserable. Going to sleep is the worst because I see her in my dreams every night.. If she didn’t think that I cheated on her things wouldn’t be nearly as complicated but she has it down that I did but I could never do something so hurtful to someone I care about.. She’s the only women I long for..
Dear Val,
I haven’t purchased it yet. But I have plan to do it, so. I also want to know what kind of exercise in it. Especially I want to know about reconnecting to ex and Facebook. Kevin told me in his email series that how to do in facebook is described in RR as step by step.
Dear kevinsmusicrox,
I can feel you fri. But , it’s time to concentrate what to do more now. I know you will miss her all the time. Because I still do miss him alot. I understand that. But just separate the sessions. When you wanna miss her, just miss as much as you can. When you have to try to improve you life, just try and improve as much as you can. Just manage your time.
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