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  • in reply to: Desperatly need some advice and help! #28644
    Caz15
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    NC means NC you contacting makes him think she will be there when Im ready…he has full control of you, we have all said not to do it but you chose too! Asking the question did you screw you up, honest answer yes, we have all done it though but this has to be the last time you contact him.

    It’s not making you feel any better your obsessing over him and not thinking about you.

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28632
    Caz15
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    DAY 20 and where doing brill…stick with it

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28631
    Caz15
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    First of all you do not know that they are in love,I cluldnt love someone I was forced to be with! all you have to do in the magic letter is explain how sorry you are to her and her parents about how crazy you were, this will be a big ice breaker.

    Please don’t quit 🙁

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28544
    Caz15
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    Hey @Libertine1 I have just read you new topic, I am sorry I’m not on much today but with this new job I can’t get to my phone.

    You had a love relationship with Her, she will not have this with her new guy, please keep strong

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28523
    Caz15
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    I will be defintely keeping it up but afraid I’m getting my hopes up!

    My page is very private all he can see is my profile pic which I will change at the weekend.

    I’m all over the place

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28513
    Caz15
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    He’s now unblocked me on facebook! I don’t know what is going on or what to think….

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28499
    Caz15
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    I think he was just wondering about me but their is nothing in that text asking me how I am just hoping I’m ok, he won’t text again.

    Don’t think like that, it’s a rebound it just needs more time she will be back I have faith, please stay strong & positive

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28492
    Caz15
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    Morning @Libertine1, thank you, I promise I will not text back 🙂

    I was lying in bed and I heard my phone go and I didn’t look, it went again and I thought that’s a text message as a lot of my friends contact me through what’s app or facebook and then suddenly I got this feeling it was him so I looked and couldn’t believe it.

    Shock and don’t know what to think

    How are you this morning?

    in reply to: Desperatly need some advice and help! #28439
    Caz15
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    Read what I have just put up with @patrick d, I’m 19 days now NC and I thought he was gone plus I asked him not to repky to me if I text 3 weeks ago to let me move on.

    Never give up hope!

    in reply to: Desperatly need some advice and help! #28417
    Caz15
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    I listen to vibrations, @patrick d recommended it and I sleep listening to it and it does make you feel at ease.

    Also I read or write before I go so it makes me tired.

    The nights are the hardest but they do get easier, it’s nearly midnight here and have to be up at 6am but I will respond as soon as im up in the morning!

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28399
    Caz15
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    Omg OMG! He’s text me! What do I do! he said this:
    Hey sorry I didn’t reply few weeks ago was just a bit peed off I guess. Was just thinking about u and wanted to say hope your ok and doing well look after yourself

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28385
    Caz15
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    It’s ok to rant, we are here to listen and support you best we can!

    She was very mixed up when she ended it, again she listened to her parents, her insecurities got the better of her!

    in reply to: Can i get her back? #28384
    Caz15
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    I’m sorry your feeling down and everyone gets these days but you have to stay strong, you still don’t know if they are still together, she didn’t wait because she thought you would never change but you have & you just need to prove it when you write your Magic letter.

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28357
    Caz15
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    That is true but he will be keeping himself busy not to miss me.

    Let’s see how long before I ever hear from him again because the longer I stay away the more he will move on.

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28355
    Caz15
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    Don’t say that! give it more time…send it and she will reply.

    I would never want to know, he knows I’m not like that I wouldn’t just go out and pick up a stranger!

    It’s all so bloody complicated, I want him back not need him but he doesn’t & will not ever feel the same

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