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  • in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28353
    Caz15
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    Honestly I know me and I could never sleep with him again after being with another woman wouldn’t feel right.

    Exactly she’s cut you out to give herself time but will realise ๐Ÿ™‚

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28350
    Caz15
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    Never say never, she will text to see if your ok & why she has not heard from you.

    The thing is I don’t think I will ever want to hear him sleeping with someone else, I don’t see how anyone can deal with a false friendship, I can’t find the success stories on here.

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28345
    Caz15
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    No to me it’s all or nothing, I can’t be false & be hurt everytime I hear he’s slept with someone.

    Stay optimistic! She can’t let her parents live her life for her she will resent them for that! Your not even fully sure if she’s with this guy

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28342
    Caz15
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    Yes respects me enough to let me move on! your ex done it because of the texts but she will let all of that go in time and remember the good times!

    I don’t expect anything anymore

    in reply to: Desperatly need some advice and help! #28340
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    No because he would have text ages ago and said an I have my t shirt or pass it on to a mutual friend.

    He’s very confused so give him the space & time

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28336
    Caz15
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    Yes she will! Because all of a sudden you were there and your gone, you have to give her time to remember the good times you both shared.

    I’ll change plus I’ve lost weight and look healthy! But again don’t think he does

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28333
    Caz15
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    You were not mental, but you know what you done was out of character for you but your changing that!

    I’m out next week so I’ll change it again to me smiling with friends, I like to think he does but I doubt it…

    in reply to: Desperatly need some advice and help! #28331
    Caz15
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    It is all very strange but I think given time he will but in the meantime you have to start working on you!

    If your still this way when he does come back around he will see he still has all the power, keep up the NC it’s hard but will get easier

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28328
    Caz15
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    You were right to have her block you from facebook and I’m glad my ex done it because you would go crazy checking it every 10 minutes, I like to think my ex unblocks me every now and then to have a look but mine is completely blocked, so he can only see my profile pic which he always said was his favourite pic of me!

    She will get curious I would be curious if someone I know was texting and then all of a sudden stopped.

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28324
    Caz15
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    Oh really September! I don’t think she spoke to you because you went in needy desperate mode! But know you haven’t done any of that in 19 days she will get curious..

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28321
    Caz15
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    Ye I’m the same really, I will go out though, but my smile on and go out with my single friends! Look how quick the last 19 days have gone ๐Ÿ™‚

    I know what you mean, work keeps the mind working and not focusing totally on them.

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28318
    Caz15
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    It does so I’ve deleted all of our mutual friends and went on complete lockdown! It’s better not knowing…don’t see it that way about the 10 days we can do it!

    Ye I’m not looking forward to Valentine’s day…but let’s try and get a date for it ๐Ÿ™‚

    It’s been ok went out for a walk seen a friend for coffee, how’s yours been?

    in reply to: Desperatly need some advice and help! #28314
    Caz15
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    He will show up again, what’s so important about a t shirt! it’s understandable when you feel hopeless but he will not move on.

    Just been out for a long walk, fresh air helps clear the mind

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28313
    Caz15
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    It can its just a long road! It will be when she’s back in the country again who says they are still together! I know nothing of my ex for all I know he could be someone….

    My ex is the same still no facebook which is good! Helps not to know what he’s doing!

    It will get better when the full 30 days are up

    in reply to: Can i get her back? #28307
    Caz15
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    Sitting around drives you crazy so hopefully I don’t have time to think!

    She is definitely curious! Glad your feeling better.

    Enjoy talk soon

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