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  • in reply to: Can i get her back? #28304
    Caz15
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    Thank you πŸ™‚

    That wasn’t a good idea but watching something that will get your mind working and take it off her.

    Exactly let her wonder why the hell you have not text, this will drive her mad.

    Not much just chilling getting ready for my new job tomorrow, that will really take my mind of things.

    in reply to: Desperatly need some advice and help! #28299
    Caz15
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    He won’t move on that quick, he’s not mentally ready…

    It got worse but I feel a bit more upbeat today…

    in reply to: Can i get her back? #28298
    Caz15
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    He won’t! I know too much has happened and he said it’s all water under the bridge!

    Exactly if she was really moving on she would have left you alone…go and see a happy movie no romance…she will text!

    As kevin says it’s the missing you badly time but the space and time comes before that.

    Your doing brilliantly! so proud of you πŸ™‚

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28292
    Caz15
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    Time is an amazing healer and not getting no response from them makes me feel less rejected.

    The sunmer is always easier as people want to do things and get out more πŸ™‚

    in reply to: Desperatly need some advice and help! #28289
    Caz15
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    He is wondering why you have not been home he last 2 times and if he shows up again do not text him and ask him why!

    He hasn’t moved nobody can move on that quick unless it was a rebound!

    You have to stop torturing yourself!

    β€œIf you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. If they don’t, they never were.”.

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28288
    Caz15
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    So it was her insecurities that made her do it!

    I feel like I’m getting it back but he still had my heart so need to get back

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28282
    Caz15
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    If she was interested in him she wouldn’t have stayed, she was confused and then her parents made her split up with you!

    We are stronger we have our moments but that’s natural…

    DAY 20 tomorrow! That’s a massive achievement.

    in reply to: Desperatly need some advice and help! #28280
    Caz15
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    He will show up again because he already has twice and you not being there made him question you, he is wondering what your doing and makes him panic abit but you have to stay calm and collective, your mind needs to slow down.

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28279
    Caz15
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    It would but we would feel better! haha, we are doing all the right things, she won’t be, its forced you can’t force yourself to love someone

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28276
    Caz15
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    Will just have to wait and see…thanks @Libertine it’s a pity we can’t meet in person to really have a good chat πŸ™‚

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28273
    Caz15
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    They do but I know him so well he means it, he said back in September he couldnt stand another man with me but he said 3 weeks ago he’s not bothered and he has come to terms with that.

    You wanted her attention that is all, you would have done anything and that’s understandable!

    Honestly I don’t think there is but I’ve accepted that.

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28270
    Caz15
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    He has respected me but he told me their is no way back for us, we can be friends with benefits! he wants me to move on.

    Honestly we all done mad stuff when our ex’s left us, don’t beat yourself up! she is being forced & it won’t last

    in reply to: Can i get her back? #28268
    Caz15
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    No! Don’t see the point he won’t respond and then he has the power again, he will think she’s sending me this to see if she can get back together with me and that’s not what he wants.

    Exactly he has my number & he can chase me from now on. It’s a lost cause now because we did try for 4 months and it didn’t work.

    in reply to: Struggling – day 7 NC #28267
    Caz15
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    And I believe in you too, keep going and send the letter it will open her eyes that you have changed for the better. Nothing is impossible.

    He’s gone I see that now, I’m not holding my breath, 19 days and I haven’t heard a word, he would usually have text by now, I know I asked him not too that’s why I feel he won’t respond to the letter.

    in reply to: Can i get her back? #28265
    Caz15
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    Not really positive but I’m moving on now! I’m not sending my letter, he knows where I am.

    It’s hard when all you want to do is talk about it because you need to get it all out to make sense of it, I said the same thing I feel like I’m boring my friends!

    Just concentrate on you πŸ™‚

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