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I have no idea what’s so important about that t-shirt. It’s a simple t-shirt. Since we broke up rigt before his birthday I still have his birthday present. He knows I bought him a gift. But I don’t think that’s why he’s showing up either. Looks like he initially didn’t want me to know he had been at my place Friday night, but my noisy neighbor saw him, and she said he saw that she saw him. So he could have just told me before I asked. If I could take it back I wouldn’t have asked him. Can’t do anything about that now. I just hope he will come back to me, I hope you’re right Caz. It’s great to hear you are having a better day. I am trying to find a movie to watch. Maybe it will keep my mind off things.
It is all very strange but I think given time he will but in the meantime you have to start working on you!
If your still this way when he does come back around he will see he still has all the power, keep up the NC it’s hard but will get easier
You don´t think him showing up is he´s way of ending things for good? That he wants to get his stuff so he´s not connected to me anymore?
No because he would have text ages ago and said an I have my t shirt or pass it on to a mutual friend.
He’s very confused so give him the space & time
That´s true. I will give him time and space. I am just so worried he wont come back.
How do you guys deal with the pain at night? Almost every night I get this anxiety. I feel so lost, and that I have lost him forever and he´s with someone else. During the day I don´t feel like that, it´s just at night.
I listen to vibrations, @patrick d recommended it and I sleep listening to it and it does make you feel at ease.
Also I read or write before I go so it makes me tired.
The nights are the hardest but they do get easier, it’s nearly midnight here and have to be up at 6am but I will respond as soon as im up in the morning!
Yeah I should go to bed to. I just get this feelings that I might have ruined everything by texting my ex this friday night asking if he was hear and then continued texting with him. I just feel so stupid. That he is not interested in me anymore. And maybe have meet someone else. I feel that he has the power and that there is no way to change that around. Do you think I will hear from him again?
We are still not friends on facebook either since he deleted me that time he got so mad two weeks ago.Maren. Check out some meditation. It will clear your mind.
There is also one where you feel each part of your body with your mind and get any pain out etc.
Or imagine the back of your head sinking into your pillow.Or do as I used to do. Put on a movie that you really want to see and you will be asleep before it starts. Lol.
Of course he’s thinking about you. You’re thinking about him aren’t you?
You have to get him thinking in a certain way though. That’s were this site gives you the advantage. You can make a plan. And stick to it. He will be lost and looking for you.He has been showing up at my house a couple of times unannounced, I haven´t been home when he has. The first time he called and asked where I was. We then talked a bit on the phone, this was last sunday. Last tuesday when I was driving home late he had meet me on the road and texted me, he was curious to where I had been that late and why I had time off my daughter on a tuesday. This friday night he had been at my house again, my neighbour had seen him and told me. I was in doubt if I should ask him about it or not. And I ended up texting him asking if he had been here, he said he had after being at a friends house watching football. I asked him why he didn´t call or text, he said he was out of power. And then we texted some back and forth and I probably gave a bit to much away in of the text. I tried to end the conversation several times with: sounds fun, enjoy and so on, but he kept sending back, with smileys and so. So at one point I just sent him a smiley back and I haven´t heard anything since then. I know now that texting him on friday was a bad move, I should not have done that. I am freaking a bit out tonight thinking about it. Afraid that I had ruined everything and that we wont get back together again. I haven´t contacted him at all since we broke up two weeks ago, just one time to figure out the money he owes me and that he has a t-shirt here.
Just don´t know if I should give up and just accept that he doesn´t want me and is moving on from me.
Read what I have just put up with @patrick d, I’m 19 days now NC and I thought he was gone plus I asked him not to repky to me if I text 3 weeks ago to let me move on.
Never give up hope!
Doesn’t want you? ? He showed up at your house! !
Of course he wants you. Just play it cool. Behave now as if you don’t care. Act like you are gone. That will make him think. It sounds stupid and wrong but it will work. He will be running back in no time.
If he thinks you are gone then you have him.
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