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If u love her, just keep false friendship no matter how hot and cold is she. Believe me. Women is more soft than men no matter how hard. If u keep maintain support, do random things and make her feel interesting back, u can gain her trust back. Believe me. She is not the one who want to leave it means she still love u. And u are ine of the best. Its berrryyy hard to find better person than u in very short time period. Trust me. I know. Im a woman too. Yes i might be hard a bit with my ex bf because i want him to chase me and i want to know whether he is willing to take my “hard” and make it soft. Did u get what i mean? Oh ya did she clingy and needy when u dumped her?
Ohhh u did send it to her?? Did she read it yet?
Ohhhh!!! No wonder!! Of course she will be very very very tough on this because u used to be a bit tough and sounds like aweful to her back in time. Sighhh but u did your job to be 100% honest with her but when it comes to hard time, u did agreed with her. U didnt put your efforts to fight for it that time and get your coat. Lol. Ahhhhh now i do understand! Yes for this case, she is deffiiinately dont trust u at all for fighting for her. She is completely doubt in you thats why she tried to put some a little game here to see whether u chased her harder than before. U hurt her. She needs assurance she needs more. But at the same time she reallky scared and try to be tough.
It seems like he is trying to play pull and push game with u? It started when u said why u want to know right?
Sigh. She is very tough person. I think you did a lot of things to make her surprise and all. But it seems like she is trying to be tough and want you to know that she is not easy to be throw away and get her back. She seems very bery hurt. Is your breakup really bad between you two?
Its not that games that she focus on. Its the expectation of your efforts and actions that she wants. Believe me. I expect high from my ex of his efforts and actions. You did support her a lot. Its not a wrong thing. To be honest. Its not. Its the thing that she wants. But perhaps she is doing her Lc or NC too to see whether you chased her or not. Sometimes people said “its better to be awhile to see who come for you or who doesnt care”
but for me, your ex gf is confused or something bothering her or maybe has her own other purpose. Why? Because u did all your things for her even tho u dumped her u still show her u want her. But it seems like she still ignores u, there must be got other purpose. Did u get what i mean? Is she a person who did a lot of wrong decision? Is she indecisive ? Because sometimes, she might be overthinking or something bothering her that makes her unsure and insecure about your actions. Perhaps she expect more from u but she did wrong action.
Its hard to put all emotion in one side my dear friend. Its not that easy but u have no choice, u have to follow with the flow. Slowly. Step by step. Believe me your situation, u still can have her. Why? Because u let her go and not her choice. Believe me she loves u. But she is unsure and insecure. The trust issue. The mind games. Interrupt u guys.
Yes. Sometimes i feel like my ex bf be with her because she made him feel better. But its unfair because i tried my best to make hum better and not feel alone but he keep driftIng away
So u finished ur NC? My ex bf also drifting away after i did my Nc. He didnt reply my text. Is it like him? He ignores u?
she thought she can find someone else to replace you and happy without u but with someone else that not like you as soon as possible. But unfortunately she cant find it right away. So she doesnt want u to think that her moved on is wrong. Did u get what i mean?
I think @sparky u need to be a bit further. How to say…i means since u dumped her and u want her back but she seems like ignore u, it shows that she expext u more in action rather than just words i think?
Dont worry. I try my best to understand you one by one.
Ok lets take a look:
For me, should your ex forget your mistakes and take you back, for me…if i were your ex, i would accept you back because of love. Yes i will not forget the pain memories. Nobody is perfect. And if she loves u still, she will take u back and believe that u guys will be alright. I think she still loves u but the trust issue is there and yes the unsure, the insecure control her decision.
Yes i do believe she is trying to test u to see whether u really want her or not? Are u fight for her for your love and for relationship enough? Words is not good enough! She trust actions more than words i think. Since you are the dumper, in sure the dumpee expect u to give more respond and more actions if u really want her back. Its logic as a dumpee
Yes since u r such a great guy, i do believe she might think whatever she did, it might sound wrong and she needs your support if anything wrong. But i think the testing one is more logic than back up thing since she is not responding u that much.
You can date but for me, its better to tame your time for yourself first and then put others. You beed to imporive and correct yourself. More wise than move on right away. We never know in the future. But if u wait, better things will happen.
Well, im sure that my ex is not a person who likes to be alone all the time. He moved too fast i dont know. But he seems very happy which it hurts so much!!
Just cry everyone :(( we want our ex and love our ex. Seeing them so hot and cold, ignore, has someone else and see them so much happy while us here feel the pain…i dont know but i believe…things will be better soon. Not now. Let them (our exes) feel “happy” or updating about their life… Pray hopefully…they will realizrd pur efforts…
Yes it hurts. I know. But for me…At least she tells you that. And the purpose of she is telling you about that thing it not serious means she still care about u and she didnt want u to think that she is wrong (unfortunately she is)
You are overthinking too mucn dear. He is right in front of u in fact he still wants to get your attention. Cant u see that?
Urghh if he hates her then its good! I wish he hates that girl. Im so mean but i love him so much
So u think… My ex just like u?
I dont get it. If u dumped her, why u still want her? Then go get her! We are here as dumpee wAnt our exes sooo much (who are dumper). We did the Nc thing or Lc thing so that we want to clear out our negative side in our exes mind. My ex didnt even reach me at all. Perhaps she wants a control maybe but not a fight. Perhaps she has so many things going on. Believe me. She is dumpee and she wants u! Because this breakup is not her choice at first place.
Exactly. I dont feel that i have hope to get him back if he keeps ignore my text like this…. If i could…break them up! Urgh! But i cant.
