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Lol. You will made her blush if its truth that she stalked you. Maybe you cAn give her picture? Funny picture?
Like me. I stalked my ex but he seems not even text me. I even chAnge my default picture in chat app but still he did not respond anything. Why is that? Sighhhhhgg. I dont think i did wrong. Perhaps he still with her
I’ve heard nothing again today. I feel totally lost @aryyan
Did u text her today?
@aryyan No I didn’t but I text her when I came in this morning (about 2am as I realised that she had been online just before that on her sisters phone).
This is what I sent “I thought that we had been making some progress? Why aren’t you talking to me? xxx”
Oh no dear. Dont text her like that. It looks like u been waiting and a bit needy for her. If i were your ex and i have problems, i will be a bit annoyed. You should text her like this
“Hey its been awhile since we last text. Are u okay? Everything alright there? Just checking if i can help anything”
Did u see so many points in positive way in this text instead of previous text like kinda push?
@aryyan I’m just really f**ked off as it seems like I am being played again. I am not sure what is happening but this appears to be the impression that she is trying to give to me.
Perhaps she is looking to pick another fight and I have.finally risen to the bait provided?
First of all, why she wants to create a fight? Why u think like that? Is she a person who likes to fight?
Anyway I saw his update last night in social media. And he said “waxing is fun until you leave it for too long and it clings…like your clingy ex lol”
I even checked my last text and all. It didnt sound clingy at all. It didnt sound needy at all. Did he talked about me? Or maybe he is waxing and his gf said that to hin and he found that funny?? I did clingy thing and beedy thing but its been more than a month i stop doing that because i didnt contact him like a month. Its not about me right?
Who knows @aryyan ? I have no idea about anything anymore. I feel like giving up on everyone and everything that I know.
Me too. But perhaps, you can wait her text and at the same time u focus on urself i think? Or maybe u can write apology letter?
@sparky feeling like giving up on everything and anyone you know – I know that feeling man! Don’t worry it’s fleeting. I think what we really have to do is to be right here right now and only focus on what’s visible to you right now. We have to stop our minds from being with our exes. Like with me it feels like I’m not really here in the present moment – my mind is with him, contemplating what he’s doing and thinking ALL THE TIME. we’ve got to be present where we are and have our attention on that. Its like our minds are renting space in what we think are our exes minds in stead of living ‘at home’ where we should.
Yeah it’s one of those late nights where I can’t sleep lolMe too @ Aphrodite It’s now 3:30am here 🙁
@aryyan I have no idea why she would want to pick a fight with me. I think that she knows that she is already in control. Perhaps she still hasn’t worked through all of her anger towards me yet? Let’s not forget that I was tge dumper!I am.not sure whether she is putting on a show to test me or whether she is chatting with another guy who she may be going to see next weekend. I have been trying to rationalise things and there is a lot there to suggest that she could just be testing how I react. Remember her saying what upset her most about me was that I jumped to conclusions that weren’t correct since I dumped her and thought the worst of her? It’s possible she is just testing me and I am failing again but it sure as hell don’t feel like it right now.
If she is about to start dating someone else then why has she been saying some of the things that she has been saying to me again recently and adding the standard 3 kisses “xxx” to the end of her messages that she has been sending me for the the first time in over 4 months?
I just don’t get it and it’s driving me crazy. I sometimes wish that she had never reached out to me during NC and told me that she had dumped the rebound that she was seeing in October when I finally contacted her. I thought towards the end of my NC that I was passed feeling like this. The last week has stirred all of them raw emotions back up again.
I’m scared of doing any more NC because after what she said I do not believe it will benefit our relationship in any way. I need to draw a line and take care of number one somewhere though as I honestly can’t see her changing until she has left it far too late.
I see what you wrote to @aryyan elsewhere @Aphrodite
Fricking back up plans! This is what I said I was to my Ex when I initially split up with her. Of course she denied it.
On the one hand it seems like she is deeply in live with me and I let her down. On the other it seems that she is now intent on showing me that I’m exactly what I thought I was (when I got it wrong months ago)… lol
I dont get it. If u dumped her, why u still want her? Then go get her! We are here as dumpee wAnt our exes sooo much (who are dumper). We did the Nc thing or Lc thing so that we want to clear out our negative side in our exes mind. My ex didnt even reach me at all. Perhaps she wants a control maybe but not a fight. Perhaps she has so many things going on. Believe me. She is dumpee and she wants u! Because this breakup is not her choice at first place.
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