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  • in reply to: this one is difficult! #22040
    aryyan
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    @Sparky

    I dont know. He seems ignored me. Totally. He didnt reply my text but he keep online and update the social media about her. Nothing i can do. Right now i just wait if he wanted to text me. I dont why he make me so upset and he used to say im bery nice girl he ever met but still hurting me so much by showing lovely moment with his gf? I dont know. But my status is all about positive things. And funny. Nothing else. He didnt trll me anything anout my new me tho. So i give up really.

    At least she said nice thingd to u and she didnt online yet.

    in reply to: this one is difficult! #22019
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    @samuel

    Sorry i just awake. My day is getting harder and harder. But i do my best. Well, i think my bf is an honest person in terms of update. I dont know. When we were together, he didnt update that much. But when with her, even she wrapped her arms around him, he will update about it! Sigh. I wish he could realize that he makes me hurt so much even he didnt mention about his gf at ne (of course, he didnt text me at all) im tired of trying and hoping that he will be unhappy and always fight with her. And then get back to me. But i dont know. Less than one day will be new year here.

    How u guys been doing?

    in reply to: this one is difficult! #21861
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    @samuel

    Hye sorry been very bad day to me. Im so glad that u be so positive. I wish i can be like that. I feel like… I dont know. Im really tired of crying. I dont have any chance to give a shot and he didnt even text me and she right now keep update about him and he update about her and they seems happy an happy and happy.

    in reply to: Need help! #21859
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    @ginnie

    Hye ginnie. Sorry its been very hard day for me. Did u do that to ur ex? Hows his reaction?

    in reply to: this one is difficult! #21838
    aryyan
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    @samuel

    How to let go someone that we reAlly love? And didnt have any chance to prove that we actually not that suck

    in reply to: this one is difficult! #21836
    aryyan
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    @samuel

    I hate seeing him this happy so soon :((

    in reply to: this one is difficult! #21833
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    @Samuel

    Thank you dear friend for your supportive and positive thought. I will hopefully. I wish your situation and life will get better and better during 2015 later. Only few hours and we will be in 2015. The pain of end of 2014 hopefully will leave me

    in reply to: this one is difficult! #21827
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    @samuel

    Its sad they throw us like so eAsy and be happy without us so soon

    in reply to: this one is difficult! #21810
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    @samuel @Sparky @Confused_girl

    Im giving up. Really. Seeing someone hugging a person that i love and he update it like he proud of it, it hurts my heart like a knife cutting my heart really deep and slow. I feel like i cant even give a shot because he didnt allow me to give me space. I really dont have a hope or chance. Im very sad. There is nothing i can do. Believe me i dont think the letter will make him reply. We did clear it out once but it seems like he is moved on even tho too fast! Its been two months now and they seems bety happy, good in progress and nothing arguement in their relationship so far. Im doomed. I give up this time. Really. I dont know anyghing of any of this step will make him come back to me. None. I think i should guve up and move on. I dont deserve to be love by him. Who am i…? If im lovely girl…why i cant havr him…he seems not give any damn about me at all! Im like a stonr. Not a diamond. Its all about her! He didnt reply me at all! Im not kmportant to him anymore. Im done

    in reply to: this one is difficult! #21730
    aryyan
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    Im sorry u guys. I dont feel lucky at all. Im very unlucky person. He ditch me. He dumped me. He didnt give me any second chance. But…He got someone right away and he is happy…in love…she hugs him…he proud of it…While im like…here…alone and waiting for him and nothing. I lost him. Completely lost him. I really cant give a shot. He didnt reply me at all. He didnt even interested in me. He didnt attracted to me. Im completely nothing and just “a friend”…. Well…im done…im done with my hope

    in reply to: this one is difficult! #21727
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    He update again and this is the worst. He said “that feeling when she wrapped her arms around you”

    Oh my. I completely lost him. I completely lost him!! I cant stop crying. Not this time. Oh god. Why he got his happiness and not me!! I deserve him for second chance! Oh my

    in reply to: this one is difficult! #21725
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    @Sparky @Confused_Girl

    WhAtever your exes text u and give u respond, remember just go with the flow. If they are hot and cold but still be able to text you guys to update about them, accept it. Dont question it. Believe it. You know your exes better. For me u guys are very lucky. My ex bf very hot and cold and he didnt even update his life to me, he did not even say why he didnt reply. He ignored me totally. Plus he still ok with his gf. So i think, u guys still betyer. They still keep calling you guys with sweet name like hun, unlike mine, he didnt even say anything or even mention how lovely am i. He didnt. So, whatever ur ex reply u, just keep going the conversation. This opportunity is not easy to get. 🙂

    in reply to: this one is difficult! #21724
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    @Sparky

    I think you just need to keep support her and keep maintain friendship with her. Try to be close with her. I know she is being hot and cold but from the way she text u. Its still fine for me. U have no idea how hot and cold my ex bf when we were text. For me, u still lucky. Does not matter whether she seems busy until she didnt text u or being hor and cold at least, she let u know that she is busy. I know u are worried that much. Just be your self be person who she fell in love with. Since u are the best in her life. Maintain it and be the best whether in terms of friend or not. For my oppinion, no matter how long u did try, just maintain it as false friendship or anything that can make u guys communicate. We never know in the future. It may takes time until u feel give up. But u know ur ex better. She is one of tough person, so u have to be tough in order to make her soft back. Remember. Only u can make her soft. If she allows u to do that, u are very lucky

    in reply to: this one is difficult! #21721
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    @Sparky

    See. No matter how tough she is. She still let you know how she feels and update about her. Did u see that? @Sparky, only you know her well. Only you know whats the thing that can make her heart soft. Women can be soft as tissue even she is stubnorn like a rock


    @Confused_Girl

    Since he didnt snapchat to everyone, it means he is a bit busy and some works need to be done as you said. Just wait. Dont force him. Support him.

    in reply to: this one is difficult! #21716
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    @Confused_Girl

    Did u text him? It might seems he is being hot and cold because he thought u are not interested in him? Did u just go with the flow and not think too much whenever he text or snapchat u?

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