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  • in reply to: 1 week of NC. No news from him. Is there any hope? #18268
    aryyan
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    @Nyancat

    Right now im totally keep silence. I didnt update anything about my life in social media and of course i didnt text him or contact him either.my target will be like 3 weeks remain silence and at the same time i try to improve myself physically and mentally. It takes time of course. It hurts when seeing him happy and im not. I think its not fair especially he choose spmeone completely opposite me. I will contact him after nc and i hope he do realize and miss me when im missing.

    I dont know how guys think and whats in his mind. Sometimes i feel like my ex boyfriend is a bit different

    in reply to: 1 week of NC. No news from him. Is there any hope? #18260
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    @Nyancat

    Its sad when someone who used to text you everyday even after we broke up (he will text once a day) is not texting you at all or finding you in any ways. Im not sure whether he didnt text me because i didnt reply his last text or because he is happy without me now. I always hope that i can get second chance because i deserve it but seeing him happy with other girl makes me feel so hopeless and its killing me. I missed him and i hope he will miss me

    Yes i know its too early but it hurts me knowing he didnt find me. I try my best to improve till 21 days but im scared he will forget about me during nc

    in reply to: At last :) #18179
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    We were in relationship for 8 months and we were love each other, mutual, closed and we shared everything. Everyday we text and we ensure that we will send selfie each other. We were so closed but during my relationship, there are few girls obsessed with him including his bestfriend. I used to ask him anout them and he said i shouldnt be worried because they are his friends and he treat me different from others.

    We did have big fight twice. One during july and another one was end of october (before breakup). He said he cant stand anymore with these fighting and he said he felt numb and his feeling was empty so he said he wanted to remain friends. Of course i was begging him and all but he said dont force him. He really hurt.

    After that less than a month, he with his bestfriend till now as a couple

    in reply to: At last :) #18168
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    @tee-roy

    Im not sure its a rebound. She is his bestfriend for 3 years and same college with him. A week after we broke up, he changed his profile picture with her. Now its been a month they been together. Its very soon indeed but she is his besfriend and not new perspn. Hence, im not sure whether its a rebound or not.

    Right now i didnt update anything about me in public and i didnt text him either. So i guess he doesnt know any new update about me. But he seems like he is happy without me and rhats why he doesnt text me at all? I dont know what guys think

    in reply to: At last :) #18162
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    @tee-roy

    Right now im doing my NC for 6 days. Tomorrow will be a week i didnt contact him, update my fb or any social media. I suddenly remain silence. Before i did my NC, he text me and say hye you. I didnt reply till now. And he also didnt check me or text me or find me in any ways. I dont know why he doesnt want to text me or find me. He doesnt miss me at all or maybe he is now in honeymoon stage with his gf because they seem pretty happy tho.

    I tried to be strong. Since i remain silence from phone till social media, i dont know how to show him that im “happy” and “fine” without him (eventually, im not). I will post my things and i will text him after 21 days nc maybe?

    I want to get him tho. I really do. But if he doesnt care about me what should i do? I dont know how to make him think that im better

    in reply to: At last :) #18125
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    @tee-roy

    How to make him pursue? I dont know that much about guy and they have different mind

    in reply to: At last :) #18111
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    @krista27

    Thanks dear. You too and congrates again! 🙂

    I have been in nc for 6 days now and so far he didnt text me yet. Erm im not sure about that either. We will see how since he is in honeymoon stage with his girlfriend but i try my best to be strong and focus on myself a bit. I do hope he will miss me. See how in few days maybe.

    in reply to: At last :) #18109
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    @krista27

    Right now i didnt post anything in social media because i thought i want to remain silence during NC and at the same time, i want to improve myself like slimming, taking care of my skin and keep busy with study and university activities. To be honest im not that happy as he is now but what can i do? Im in NC while He is with someobe else and he doesnt text me at all or finding me in any ways. I assumed he doesnt even wonder me or miss me. But i want him back so… Right now i just do my Nc. I target for 21 days. Is it too soon? If i cant have him, at least i want to be close with him but im not sure he allow me to

    in reply to: At last :) #18093
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    @krista27

    Congrates dear! Im so proud of you! I hope i can get back my ex boyfriend too but im not sure since he seems very happy with his life and his girlfriend. Everyday his girlfriend will post and update about him. He also update and tag her frequently in social media. He also mentioned in status like everthing is just perfect.

    Im doing my NC for 6 days and he doesnt reach me in any ways. Your story like you always be there for him but i cant. I tried but he gave me cold respond. So i started to do NC after that. He seems like he doesnt care bout me. I know he doesnt love me anymore but…. I wish i could get the second chance. I want him back

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    @martin

    It seems like i look strong but inside? Oh my. Im heartbroken and pAinful. Seeing him smiling so happy and besides him is not me but other person, i feel like i want to shut myself.

    Yes i try to improve myself from head to toe. Mental and physical during nc. I just hope he will realized that i was a special person in his life till now and i just hope he will miss me when im no around. Sigh. Hope

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    @martin

    Ohhh my. I tried my best to improve myself in terms of physical And mental but seeing him so happy like just now, he posted his picture with his new gf. I was like… I dont know if i had a chance to be at least close to him since he has someone else. Im doing nc and he didnt text me at all. Sometimes i feel like i want to give up but deep inside, it hurts me and its not fair

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    @martin

    Of course but i tried and i tried and i cant. In fact, i dont want to just like you :'( … We did have such great great time. Even our one hour date was full of excitement. For the 8 months, it was the best. He helped me to let me out from my old depression life. Thats why i love him and i want him so much because i believe i can do better and i can make things right. Its not like i cheat or lie to him.

    I tried to meet other people but i still cant forget about him. I cant even do any rebound a bit. Im so sad that he is very happy now

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    @martin

    I know how it feels like. Hang in there. Im also in that stage. It really hurts when we see someone we love move on while we still cant. Yes i think no one like the uncertainty.

    Im always wondering about him during nc period. Sometimes im scared if i cant move on like he did

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    @martin

    Yes i do believe men can be touchy and flirty in their own ways. I just dont understand why some men moved on so fast? If our memories were the best why he seems so easy to move on? He left me without giving me any chance to make it right. Its not fair. Right now he is happy and his gf is very happy to have him of course

    🙁

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    @potatolover

    I already email you. Yes we can contact at hangout too. Did you get my email?

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