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@Tee-roy well it seems that since a friend from high school is a girl and your ex saw the text, maybe she still has feelings for you. The reason why we girls tend to feel and ask this is because we don’t want to see our man talking to another girl especially if we love them deeply.Believe me if I saw my boyfriend talking to another girl, I would start to feel very jealous.The reason why she didn’t sound upset and angry about the text is because she doesn’t want to show her jealousy and true feelings about you. As for her asking you to buy her a purse, I think she’s testing you to see if your gonna get her something she wants, just to see that you still care about her.
@Confused_Girl I am so sorry for what you are going through believe me I was a huge mess when my boyfriend broke up with me. If you wanted to know more on that story check my page from my previous posts. For him that he doesn’t love you anymore, what you need to do is let him see you post happy things on Facebook, instagram, etc. just to let him see how happy you are without him. But you also have to do NC for awhile and if he starts to crawl back to you by texting and what not, then take it from there but do it slowly so it doesn’t look like your desperate to get him back. Most important thing of all, have faith and stay strong.
@aryyan thank you so much! Continue to do NC and what you need to do is post happy things on facebook and instagram to let him see that your having a happier life without him.If he crawls back to you, take it very slow and play hard to get so that way it will drive him crazy to the point where he cannot live without you.@krista27 I have been doing NC, and I know him saying he doesn’t love means nothing, because I was judging his actions instead of his words. And he’s been snapchatting me everyday (I’m not replying). I told him I’ve been hanging out with my friends again and that I have been busy and he sounded surprised. I have had faith since him and I started dating, and I’ve had more since we broke up. I’ve been praying and working very hard for where I am now. I feel like him snapchatting everyday feels like he does want to talk to me and is starting to miss me.
Right now i didnt post anything in social media because i thought i want to remain silence during NC and at the same time, i want to improve myself like slimming, taking care of my skin and keep busy with study and university activities. To be honest im not that happy as he is now but what can i do? Im in NC while He is with someobe else and he doesnt text me at all or finding me in any ways. I assumed he doesnt even wonder me or miss me. But i want him back so… Right now i just do my Nc. I target for 21 days. Is it too soon? If i cant have him, at least i want to be close with him but im not sure he allow me to
@aryyan yes focus on school thats the most important along with everything else and no 21 days is not that soon. If he texts you first, then you will know he is thinking about you and missing you. Best of luck.
Thanks dear. You too and congrates again! 🙂
I have been in nc for 6 days now and so far he didnt text me yet. Erm im not sure about that either. We will see how since he is in honeymoon stage with his girlfriend but i try my best to be strong and focus on myself a bit. I do hope he will miss me. See how in few days maybe.
@aryyan thank you again! and your welcome 🙂
Be the girl that made him pursue you. Sure guys want to treat their girls like princesses but acting like a baby or a miserable woman is another thing.
I’ve been on limited contact, eventhough this is looser than NC i can tell that my ex notices the lack of attention that I’ve been giving her since we broke up. I was clingy before until we got back together so now that we broke up again this would look strange to her because I’ve never done it before.
I’ve been having hints on whether she still wants me back or not but I don’t want to assume just yet.
Change for yourself, not for him. It’s hard but try as much as you could. Changing for one’s self is more sincere than changing for someone else, because the latter won’t last. 🙂
How to make him pursue? I dont know that much about guy and they have different mind
Thanks for the info! Yeah maybe she was just trying to see if I still care for her. I hope so, because I do, so much. It’s either that or she’s just using me to get what she wants, in which I know she’s not that type of person. I’ve known her for 7 years.
My question is, we’ve broken up for 10 days now. If it’s true that these hints mean that she still loves me, then why did she tell me about 9 days ago that she does not love me anymore and she would even accept if I find another girl? That’s what made me devastated. It was like she really does not love me anymore to the point that she would not even feel hurt if I go on and find someone else. And if it’s true that she still loves me, why won’t she show it to me? She knows how much I love her, and another thing is I’m the dumpee not the dumper.
Thank you thank you thank you so much. You don’t know how much this means to me. Your boyfriend is a lucky guy for having a thoughtful woman like you.
Men want women who are independent because we want them to depend on us too. And when an independent woman does that, it feels good because we were able to gain trust from someone who’s strong to make her feel secure.
Cheer up, be a strong woman! Go out to the world and show your man what he’s missing. Don’t ever show him that you’re miserable without your ex (eventhough deep inside we sometimes are)
Through that, he will see the good in you. It will somewhat make him remember why he fell for you in the first place. 🙂
And I don’t understand this hot and cold behavior. After a day or so of not texting she would text me first, asking some random question, she would even ring my phone. But when I text back, she would not answer anymore. I don’t get it. If she somewhat tries to pursue me through text, why won’t she respond after I text back? My response is in no way showing signs of neediness. I always keep it short and to the point.
And could it be possible that she’s checking if I still care for her or if I’m seeing someone else but does not want in any way to get back with me? You know, just checking.
Lol. I don’t know if that’s possible or not.
Right now im doing my NC for 6 days. Tomorrow will be a week i didnt contact him, update my fb or any social media. I suddenly remain silence. Before i did my NC, he text me and say hye you. I didnt reply till now. And he also didnt check me or text me or find me in any ways. I dont know why he doesnt want to text me or find me. He doesnt miss me at all or maybe he is now in honeymoon stage with his gf because they seem pretty happy tho.
I tried to be strong. Since i remain silence from phone till social media, i dont know how to show him that im “happy” and “fine” without him (eventually, im not). I will post my things and i will text him after 21 days nc maybe?
I want to get him tho. I really do. But if he doesnt care about me what should i do? I dont know how to make him think that im better
Showing him that you’re not happy and fine without him is a big no-no. That is a very obvious sign of neediness. Believe me I was like that before. I’ve been begging to much even to the point that I would pretend to have some serious health issues but that only pushed her further.
Do you feel that his gf right now is a rebound?
If she talks to me like she does with her friends. Does that mean that she only sees me just as a friend?
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