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  • #19119
    krista27
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    Hey guys,

    so i know this maybe a bit off topic but you see, 2 weekends ago when I was with my boyfriend, he was noticing that I was wearing a ring on my right ring finger on my right hand and he asked “oh your wearing a ring’? and I said my mom gave it me years ago, its my birthstone so no any kind of ring there lol and another thing I noticed when we went to church, he touched my ring and held my hand and looked at the ring. I wonder if this is a sign of a proposal soon? I don’t want to get my hopes up but it has made me wonder for the last couple of weeks.

    #19178
    Confused_Girl
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    @kritsa27 do you think you could help me with my next moves? I don’t want to screw up any of the work I’ve put into this. It really felt like he was flirting with me yesterday. I brought up something that we thought was funny and left the conversation early. I do plan on apologizing for what I put us through these past couple months because I truly am sorry for doing all of it. What’s my next move?

    #19186
    krista27
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    @Confused_Girl just stick with your gut instincts and plan on apologizing to him for what you have put you both through but make sure that the conversation stays subtle so you won’t push him away further.

    #19228
    Confused_Girl
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    I’m going to sound stupid, But how can I keep the conversation subtle so I don’t push him away?

    #19249
    krista27
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    @Confused_Girl well what you need to do is just be yourself but don’t bring up anything that will upset him.

    #19389
    Confused_Girl
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    Anything else you think I should do?

    #19519
    krista27
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    @Confused_Girl yes also if he was flirting with you, ask him why he’s doing that. If he wants you back then okay I can see why he would be flirting with you, if not why mess with your emotions? You know what I’m saying?

    #19523
    Confused_Girl
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    I felt that it was actually flirting unlike that time before this, he was drunk. I know somewhere he still wants me and I still feel that we will get back together. I’m just having trouble putting it all together, And I need help with that

    #19550
    Tee-roy
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    @krista27:

    How would you make of this?

    She knows im online and i know she is expecting it. On whatsapp. Everytime she sees it she makes a move by making me jealous by starting a conversation with a guy she knows im jealous over. I know she does nit have any feelings for him i just pretend that i dont see that.

    But the past few days i deleted my whatsapp and used another account so she does not know that im online.

    And during that time that she thought i was not checking on her anymore she stopped that conversation with that dude.

    But before that she would be online nonstop and i know shenwould make yp any conversation with that guy just so i could see that theyre both online. And she anticipates that. She even said when she saw me online as well she said “i knew it” and then laughed.

    If youre a girl whos completely over your ex and you know hes checking up on you, you would have the decency to tell him to stop and start moving on right? But for her no. She just entertains what im doig and. Would just laugh about it.

    Need help about this one. Does she still love me if shes doing these things?

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    Confused_Girl
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    @krista27 so I just wanted to update, he snapchatted me and said “some nights I miss you” I told my friend about it he said that my ex realizes what he wants and wants me back. I almost said maybe we should hang out. What do you think of him saying I miss you and what should I do next?

    #21590
    krista27
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    @Tee-roy sorry for the late response, I think she was testing you to see if you still care about her I mean if she’s over you I would assume that she wouldn’t be contacting you in some way, perhaps she does still love you but doesn’t want to admit it.


    @Confused_Girl
    if he says he’s missing you then its quite obvious that he pretty much wants you back in some way. That happened to me when my boyfriend broke up with me a while back. If he misses you, then I’m sure that he wants another chance with you. Keep up the good work.

    #21592
    Confused_Girl
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    @krista27 a lot has happened lately. His rebound is over and he sent me an angry text about it on Christmas:

    “The girl led me on, I’m fucking done, I’m not going to try shit with you at all, I’m over everything and done with everything. Merry Christmas.”

    Before that, we were going to see each other and he cancelled. He just wanted to have sex and he rubbed the rebound in my face again. He then the text above and I asked what’s wrong an he said I didn’t have wifi to play Xbox with lol. But I don’t know what to do next

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