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  • aryyan
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    @potatolover

    She is his bestfriend tho. But if she was his bestfriend, she should advice him and make us be more closer right? But it seems like she doesnt give any care about it. As long as she want it and she got it. He is charming of course. Everybody proud of her because she has the handsome boyfriend. she tweet everything about him even that thing doesnt need to be update!

    What did he text me? Meaning? Before we broke up?

    Can i have your email? I can straight contact your email ๐Ÿ™‚

    aryyan
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    @potatolover

    We broke up at the end of october. He been with her started early november

    aryyan
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    @potatolover

    Oh dear. Same! My ex bf’s gf is very touchy and playful. Like every thing about him, she will update and tweet and tag him. I dont know what is her intention actually. But why she has to update every little thing? Sigh.

    No i didnt check him but his status and update always pop out on my timeline. He seems very happy. He drifted from me and of course he doesnt text me at all till now.

    Im not sure when im gone (6 days NC almost) will he missed me a bit?

    aryyan
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    Sometimes i read the other post and feel like i doubt the NC a bit. Since my ex bf found someone else and been together a month plus, i dont know whether this NC can make him miss me even a bit. I do things to make me feel better and improvise during nc but i do hope he miss me when im no longer around him. Or else, maybe he doesnt miss me because he has someone else who always Being around him which is his new gf i guess? Or maybe they still in honeymoon stage?

    Nc – almost 6 days

    aryyan
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    @potatolover

    Yes. He said he doesnt love me anymore and dont force him. He feel numb about me. But he wanted to remain friends. He used to say that nobody can replace me and it takes time to like me back. But guess what? In few weeks he with another girl which is his bestfriend and they like being a couple within a month.

    Right now im doing my NC for 5 days. He doesnt text me at all in fact he shows that he is even happy with his new relationship. This girl is really opposite of me.

    aryyan
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    @potatolover

    Perhaps 19 until 21 days is ok. And i want to try to reach him after even he is not texting me at all but by sending interesting msg and not just boring of “hye” maybe?

    aryyan
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    Your situation almost the same with me. My ex boyfriend doesnt love me anymore. He doesnt text me or reach me in any ways. All he do is keep tagging his new girlfriend and being sweet in public. It hurts me very much

    in reply to: No respond from ex bf during no contact rule #17931
    aryyan
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    Yes nyancat. I try my best to discover myself, recover myself and improve my self. Im doing spa for my skincare, im doing gym for maintaining my body and keep busy with university club so that i can distract myself from him. I want to be new me and i know he used to say that he wished he could see my old me where i was fit and slim and lovely. I try my best to be that but more improvise in every aspect too. But i do miss him. Miss his support, miss his companion, miss the way he makes me smile by teasing me and every stress will fade away.

    I know we will be great together again. He used to say that he wish he could know me once more but how could it be if he doesnt allow himself plus ge has someone else and its pretty happy and serious. I do want him and i do hope that i still have second chance. Seeing him this hppy after me its not fair.

    in reply to: No respond from ex bf during no contact rule #17924
    aryyan
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    It seems like he is. Every video or post he will tag her and comment and like her in social media. Im sure in private way they are more way being sweet. It hurts to see like they been together since early november as a couple and its getting better. I mean, we did have great time before! Its just a mistake rhat i blew up and everything went down so bad.

    Yes nyancat, i read this article. Right now im doing nc for 5 days. I try mybest to maintain fir, go to spa and keep bust. But when im alone, all i think about is him. Seeing him so happy like this i feel like i dont have hope at all. But when u said that i do have but need to improve myself, i try my best thank u ๐Ÿ™‚

    But how to get him back if he doesnt care bout me not text me or miss me? Hmmm

    aryyan
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    Im doing my NC for 5 days. Sometimes i feel ok and sometimes i feel miserable and sick because i missed him so much. He doesnt text me at all during NC or find me anyways. I believed he is very happy with his relationship now. Thats why he doesnt care or missed me i think? I think my hope is very slim and might be hopeless. Sometimes i just hope even though they closed from bestfriend to couple, i just hope its a rebound. He moved on so soon and i just cnt believe it they been together like a month plus ans they seems soooo in love in public and of course in private.

    This is my first time doing nc and i dont know about nc works or not. But i really want him back and hope he missed me a bit and realized it. I just not sure whether i do have hope or not hmmm

    in reply to: No respond from ex bf during no contact rule #17906
    aryyan
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    Nyancat,

    I feel like there is very slim hope or might be hopeless to get him back. He seems so in love with his bestfriend/girlfriend. He tweet “im not being the sweetest, but i can assure you that im being my self and you will love it”…his girlfriend tweet it back and said “thank you, love”

    First of all, i didnt stalk them. I just open my twitter to contact my old friend but it suddenly pop out and it hurts me really deep this time. I cried so much and i feel like what should i do now? I cant stop thinking about him and i miss him very much but right now he with somebody else and im not sure its a rebound because this is his bestfriend even tho he moved on right away after we broke up.

    Do u think i still have hope?

    in reply to: No respond from ex bf during no contact rule #17834
    aryyan
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    Yes. Right now im doing my NC for almost 5 days. It hurts of course for knowing that he doesnt text me or find me at all. Right now i just remain silence from him. I didnt post anything in Facebook or twitter. I didnt even disclose my picture, last seen and status in whatsapp. I just keep quiet even it hurts me a lot. I try to do nc for 21 days. At the same time, i want to improve myself. I want to maintain fit and go to gym, taking care of my skin by going to spa. After that, maybe i will be active and contact him. Is it ok?

    in reply to: No respond from ex bf during no contact rule #17816
    aryyan
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    I tried my best to stay strong and keep quiet (because i do NC). I just feel like its not fair. I did mistakes that created fight but its unintentionally. Right after a week we broke up, he changed his profile picture with his bestfriend and right now, its been a month. They seems very happy. Tagging each pther, texting, meeting and being sweet even in public. In fact, he met her parents last month. Its so fast! Like, how could he do that? Move on that very fast. He said he will never with his bestfriend because she is not romantic person, she harsh, she is not that pretty. Completely opposite. She even act like a boy. Now? He with her! It hurts me a lot. I want to have second chance. I want to have him back. But how?

    in reply to: No respond from ex bf during no contact rule #17810
    aryyan
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    Thank you. ๐Ÿ™‚
    Im doing nc for 4 days right now. He doesnt text me at all. It seems like he doesnt care about me. Of course, he seems very happy because his girlfriend is also his bestfriend. His girlfriend right now keep posting and tag him. Its very painful. I just hope this is rebound and i just hope he is wondering about me. But why he doesnt text me or find me in any ways? Im afraid he is moved on that fast. We had great and in fact he said i was the best present he could ever had and knowing me was the best thing he ever done. But he doesnt love me anymore and moved on so dast. How could he? Do u think nc is going to be work?

    aryyan
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    Right now im doing NC for 4 days but he still didnt text me at all. Its very painful. And his bestfriend/girlfriend is getting happier and post and tag anything with him. I try my best to not to stalk him or her. But i miss him. So much. I just hope this is rebound. And i just hope he is wondering about me even tho he didnt text me but i dont know about man. Right now, people praise them for being such a new and exciting and sweet couple. Sooo hurt. Do u think it will work? Rhe nc rule. He doesnt care or find me

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