No respond from ex bf during no contact rule

Hi Arryan!

What a lovely name! I am no expert with NC or any relationship since I am also in great pain.

Let me share my story with you. My ex and I have dated for more than 3 years and she dumped me because of unexplained reason. I tried to move on by dating other girls. And let me tell youbthat despite the adventure and bonding, I still feel empty. I see her face in every dates and I always look for her features/attitude with other women. The more I date women tp get away, to deeper the emptiness I feel inside.

You will test the depth of his love for you by doing NC rule. If you guys have a deep relationship, chances are this is just a rebound relationship. If you two share a lot of things, it is difficult to fill that gap and having a new relationship is just a pseudo-fix and will not last.

Give NC a chance and fight the urge to communicate. Allow me to read your progress until such time you won your ex back.

while nothing is a guarantee, I have done a lot of reading in the past 8 days since my girl broke up with me and if they jump into a relationship very quickly it’s actually considered a good sign as they are simply trying to fill a hole in their life and it’s more then likely not going to last, and they will feel the need to have you back in their life.

however in saying that if she is his best friend that may make the relationship stronger then if it was a new person they just met.

Stay strong because the bottom line is if you want them back what other option do you have but to stay strong and give them space to work it out for themselves?

I’m also currently in the fresh off the breakup boat, and I can tell you right now you’re not acting rationally with these developments.

It’s gonna be super hard, but you really have to do whatever you can to give yourself that space of not thinking about him. You must also give yourself the ability to do so… And sometimes that means cutting off facebook/twitter/instagram/whatever.

It’s super hard not knowing what he’ll do, but I find that if you don’t even have a constant visual nagging presence of being online, maybe it will help you enforce the no-contact rule.

I guess my advice to you is, stay strong and resist the urge of even looking at his facebook profile. The others may talk about him and you may hear about it, but you need to remind yourself that you’re #1 and you’re moving to become a better you.

If he finds that better you is more attractive than the other girl, he’ll probably come back to you once you’re ready to take him back.

I’m feeling it too, bud! My ex doesn’t text me back unless he really needs to talk to me about something, and that’s when he really needs someone to talk to… I’ve lent him an ear from time to time, but now I must be vigilant and not fall into that.

I think it’s really good that you’re beginning to try to improve yourself. You should give yourself distractions. Hang out with your friends more. Go out and treat yourself. That’s how I’m gonna cope once I’m done exams; I’ll be going out with friends and actually finish projects that’s been on my backburner for months. Or play video games (but that makes me sound like I’m a couch potato or something.) I really do advocate in improving yourself!

If you feel you’re ready to try to talk to him again after your NC period, then definitely go for it! Just make sure you need to say it in a way that really doesn’t sound like you’re begging him back or something.

But I really have to say AFTER the NC period. You can be active on those social medium anytime, but you gotta remember to completely ignore him otherwise.

It does feel like he’s being serious based on your comments… I suggest reading this:

https://exbackpermanently.com/how-to-get-your-ex-back-when-he-has-moved-on-to-a-new-girlfriend/

I know it’s hurting right now. It is really hurting right now. I can tell you that so much. But really you need to cut him out for a while and even stop thinking about it.

Write down all of his social media information and tack it to the side of your mirror. This will give you the means of remember who he is and how to contact him aside from his number and emails and what not. Proceed to remove him from said media. You can’t deal with what you can’t see, right?

Sometimes going cold turkey from him in all of these facets will give you the space to explore freely while still be able to function in your own little world.

I still think you do have hope but you really need to take the time for yourself to improve and to reflect upon what happened. Too much has happened and it’s still fresh in your mind.

It’s already the first day and I’ve already realized I made too many mistakes; I was being too needy when he probably couldn’t commit. There’s probably still more to come if I give myself the time, and I think you should really have to consider what it is like in your situation as well.

I hope this helps!

You should definitely think about it, and also try not to be super hasty about it. I think it would be best to actually spend more time discovering yourself. Go out with someone else, go with friends.

After all, you know yourself best!

But you also have to realize that coming back together may not be a reality if this is the case. You need to be ready for this kind of situation. Be wary and tread carefully!