Forum Replies Created
-
Posts
-
A. Z.
Hi. Nice, the NC worked. It might be an advantage on your part as they say but I think it is a disadvantage too. Because the guy already said he wants you back and your fate depends on your decision whether to give him another chance or not. So for me it’s kinda disadvantage too because it all depends on you now. If you say yes, you might risk another heartbreak especially knowing that you are better off without him. If you say no and he tries to move on, he can tell his friends that he did his best to win you back but you refuse to give him a chance. And if you say no and he really wants to move on it might be hurting you too if you still have a bit of feelings for him. Because by the time he will move on, you’ll be the one to run after him again if you still like him a bit.
So you see, it is like a cyclic process. Now, it depends on you whether to cut it or keep it rolling.
Ask him to give you a week or whatever time you feel like to decide. Because it will be a serious matter. Tell him you need to decide for yourself without distractions so you can think clearly and will not regret sometime later.
But don’t make him wait for too long. He needs that closure too. If ever you say no, tell him that it is for the best and the feeling is no longer mutual. You care but is not inlove anymore. And ask him to respect your decision. When you will say goodbye tell him to cut off any kind of contact or else you’ll be in the cyclic process again of too much drama.
When you let go of the things that no longer serves you, you give way to the things that are more beneficial to you.
Goodluck dear!
Dara and A.Z.
I wish it is that easy to jump onto another one. Since this egyptian girl came into my life we’ve just been together for a week but I was really attached. Because of her I realized I have a big problem with attachments! I get attached so easily! Once someone has shown me that I am wanted, loved, appreciated, I immediately get attached even more than how attached that person is to me.And now, I think I am gonna have another heartbreak. Good part is I’m not thinking anymore of the former ex. Bad part is that I might get brokenhearted again with this girl that I like sooooooooo much!
Dara
Eeeeew what a real bitch! Ditch that bitch! I hate your ex reallyOldies!!!!!
Damn, guys. I miss you so much! I am so sorry I have been really busy lately. So busy that I have no proper eating and sleeping time!
I met a girl. She’s egyptian. I liked her and at first we were both nice to each other. She’s sweet, affectionate, playful and fun to be with. But now she goes back to her country so everything seems to be cold and distant 🙁
So don’t tell me I am gonna have another heartbreak with this new girl I haven’t even had a relationship with?! Lol.
Anyway, I would try to move on and focus on something I should be busy about.
I missed you all especially Rihanna. Got lots of catching up to do :-*
A. Z. and Dara
Omg. I am sorry haha! I’m doing fine or okay not better or best. Been always sick lately and I don’t know why. Allergic rhinitis sucks. But the only constant fact in this world is that food is loooveRihanna
Hey thabks for the compliment. I am blushing. LolDara
Omg. You made me laugh! If I were you I would be more concerned on my food on the fridge than the ex. Were you the one “but I am not hungry by 5” or is it Edward? Lol. But anw, if it is your thngs you can take it back but not the deo, condom, ticket blah blah. I would just get the food. Because food is love ♡Steve
Hey, the ex broke up with me too on early May ha ha! And she broke up with me because there are lots of people who admires her in her workplace. She told me she sees a lot of opportunity for me. So reading between the lines, it is her subtle way of telling me that she discivered a lot of fishes in that stinky workplace so she wouldn’t just settle for me. What a bitch. Sorry, but yea?So you may have an idea how badly hurt I was and how bitter I am ha ha!
A. Z.
Welcome home, sweetheart! (In a friendly terms) 🙂Dara
Hey. I know what you are saying. When you miss her you find ways to miss her and after sometime you find ways to forget her lolSunshinegirl
I am your ex. The American boy. Lol. I am from PHSteve
Yes, we are just in love with our memories of them.Dara
Why unfriending the ex is a bad idea? I believe, along with Daniel, that it is doing me a favor. I mean, before I just unfollowed her but then it still bothers me so now I would unfriend her because that is what makes me feel comfortable and settled. By still keeping her around and having any connection it’s as if I’m doing her favor and trying to please her. I would unfriend her because I believe it will be for the best 🙂Daniel
I don’t drink, buddy. I am just into milk teas. Ha ha! I don’t even patronize Starbucks or Frappes. Healthy living 😛By the way, I have a post last night here but the internet connection was cut off so I wasn’t able to post. I copied what I should have posted but my phone died and so 🙁 I can no longer remember what I would be telling you 🙁
But anw, Rihanna
I already replied to your post on the wallEdward
I am happpy for you buddy. Yes, we deserve soooo much better! :’)Guys, I think it is just normal when we think of the ex. Although it is fucking annoying at times, really. I believe it is just our mind’s way of processing residual feelings and attachments it has so we can finally move on. Just imagine our minds are scanning all over again the memories we have with the ex as if telling us, “okay take one last good look of this memory because I will put this into trash”
And it might still hurt a bit but after that we will be OKAY. Then little by little, day by day, we will be better until one day we will wake up and we feel best <3
Believe everything happens for a reason. And once we learn how to let go of the things that no longer serves us, we give an opportunity to things we deserve to fall into our hands.
Daniel
Yes, you cannot be just friends with an ex. If you want a friend then find someone new. I mean, why would you still want to be friends with someone who has hurt you? That is what I have been telling myself. There are billions of people to be friends with. Why should I settle to be friends with an ex?It is hard to reconnect too because when she rejects you, you might have to start the hurt all over again which is undesirable. So the only safest thing you have to do is to really move on and put the past in the past. You have to be real selfish this time on what would be good for you.
The past is a good place to look at at times kust to see how far you’ve come, but definitely not a good place to stay.
Yes, I will unfriend her, bro 🙂
Hi, oldies.
I know it is unusual of me but I have been feeling real bad lately. Been having haunting dreams of cockroaches and vomit and yuck. Makes me feel sick the moment I wake up. And I am no longer in the mood for the whole day. Too sensitive, eh? Ha ha!
Anyway, I have been feeling unstable for days now. I cannot focus on what I must be doing and I am imagining myself in new relationships with so lovely girls to boost my ego. It makes me feel good for a while but this is not what I like. I mean, I think I am still immature because I am dreaming of being in a relationship with famous girls just to make me feel good. I hate myself for that because it is I that should make me feel good. I feel bad knowing I still seek for someone to make me feel good about myself. Wtf. How can I stop this feeling? I don’t want to think of relationships right now and not anytime too soon. I feel like I am losing track.
And I have been thinking of the ex most of the time. I no longer love nor miss her. But wtf is she doing clinging into my head and thoughts. Oh, god I want her out of my system.
Shall I unfriend her on fb? 🙂
Dara
You make me laugh when you are asking for your honey’s permission to go on a date with someone lolA. Z.
I guess we are all connected, I am feeling down lately too and thinking of the ex. WtfRihanna
I sill check on your post at the homepage. And Hi, it’s okay if you no longer look like her. I just like girls with gorgeous eyes and I bet you have that. I can stare at you forever.Steve
Hey. Just like what Rihanna said I will just focus on improving myself and being independent before I enter a relationship so Rihanna is yours, buddy. Ha ha!Daniel
I am preparing for an upcoming licensure exam, bro. Thank you! 🙂Sunshinegirl
My ex is chinese *roll eyes* lolHiiii!
So sorry. I have been so busy studying haha!
I no longer frequent here because I got heartbroken by Rihanna. Ha ha! I am now searching for other sites to help me heal this broken heart lol
Dara,
Hey man, i guess A. Z. is so dedicated to this site up until the point that it has been in her dreams ha ha!A. Z.,
Hey get well, buddy! I strongly suggest to do NC for 30days on alcohol and cigars lol.And I haven’t met Daniel yet ha ha!
Steve,
Promise me to take care of Rihanna. You know Catherine Zeta-Jones is my first ever crush because of the mask of zorro up until now. Ha ha!Hey guys, bid me good luck on my exam! I might not be always around for a while.
Oldies, hey hey hey!
So Daniel and I are a couple now in your eyes lol. Ha ha!
Daniel
I am from the Central Business District! 🙂Dara
Are you some kind of psychic or whar? Lol. How do you do that? So you are that smart? Ha ha!A. Z.
Hey, you are not an idiot. I wanna see you all too! But I don’t have the financial resources too! But I think it wil be so cool to have us united! People from different places and races become the best of friends awww! It’s like we are movie stars. I know it will be so cooool! I am so excited <3 i wish we could hangout in some really nice place and take a picture of how happy we all are <3Steve
You are my friend so I will just let you have Rihanna. After all I have no match with that blue eyes of yours lol!Rihanna
Oh. My. Gall bladder. I was about to let Steve hve you but you said you once look like Catherone zeta Jones?!?!? She is my childhood crush and even until now. It will be hard for me to give way to Steve now. Please don’t make it hard for me lolDaniel
Omg, bud. I don’t know you are just near! Ha ha! I have a relative in California, Canada and Egypt. So anyone here from Cali?Rihanna
Hey, what makes you say I like religious girls? Lol. Are you religious? If yes, then yes I like religious girls lol. But anw, you are Steve’s so I am gonna just back-off T_T lol. I like tame girls then wild when alone with me. Ha ha!A. Z. and Dara
Instead of a month of NC just do a month of party because for the months to come you will tie knots lol!Omg I love you guys! I wish I can just pick you and cuddle with you all. Lol so gay 🙂
