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It’s been a longtime since, folks. I miss you all! :'(
I hope everyone’s doing great <3
Love you Oldies.
Hi guys!
I think I’m missing on a lot! My phone’s storage got so low that I wasn’t able to receive mail notification. But I bought a new memory card now.
How are you all? Robot already has a car? Nice man! I missed you all! I’ve been so busy at workkkk.
Rihanna
I’m 22 so I still live with my parents. I was able to move on because 1.) I want to 2.) I need to. Just like how success happens when opportunity meets preparation. You must both need and want it. Because no matter how much you have the ability but you lack the enthusiasm to do so, then nothing will happen. Same with moving on. You have to want it and need it so bad.
Robot 3
Is that so?! As easy as that?! Well to tell you I started liking the woman I love because I’ve been noticing how often we exchange glances and eye gazing. And sometime even if I’m too busy at work, whenever she passes I always have eye contact with her, what a very funny coincidence. I am not just sure if she is so pursuant with eye contact just because she’s a boss. But I am hoping the case is same with you – that she likes me too.Steve
What country are you from?Robot 3
Since last week Rihanna had been telling you to do NC with her! Ha ha ha! So cute. It’s as if she’s just asking you to go to the gym with her 😛
And about the mutual eye contacts, does that mean a mutual crush? Because the one I like right now, we often have eye contacts.
Rihanna
I can do NC with you, I just don’t know with whom. LolRihanna
I second again to what Steve and Robot 3 has said. Being single doesn’t mean you don’t go out and date and have sex. He might be single because he is trying out all kinds of women.
And yeah, sorry for being rough too. But as a guy, if we badly so much wanted a girl no famine, apocalypse or invasion could have stopped us. Just as what Steve has said your ex was just trying to become a lesser dickhead by giving you bullshit reasons. We eould have to tell this to you no matter how rough it may sound because we wanted you to somehow finally open your eyes and see for yourself. It has been more than a year, honey.
When it’s gone, leave. Don’t continue waterung a dead flower 🙁
Rihanna
You are making yourself single but are you acting like one? Remember why you broke up in the first place. May be he is just trying to be nice that’s why he is offering you, but dont take it as something more than that. If you really want to move on, you have to quit him. And I may be wrong, may be he likes you around or may be he can be so fed up that you are still around. That I’m not sure. But think of this, if he still wants you why is he nt getting back with you? Remember why you broke up in the first place. As I’ve said for the nth time, never run back to what broke you.
Robot 3
Hi bro! The MayPac fight was televised this early afternoon here in PH. I was rooting for Pacquiao too but the decision cannot be changed. Just holding on ti the fact of who is the real winner in the eyes of the audience. Ha ha!Or judging from his actions, he might be fed up with your presence as well. Like WHY THE HELL ARE YOU STILL HANGING AROUND. You’are making it hard for the both of you. YOu are no longer together and yet both of you are still toxic. We’ll just sit here and wait for the day when you yourself wil be so fed up you decided to let the two of you go.
But you said you weren’t ready to walk away completely. So no matter what we tell you, only you can help yourself. We can no longer do anything about your situation anymore.
You can never be just friends with an ex. Stop trying to trick as and yourself into thinking that you just want him as a friend, because it will never be just like that. You can’t switch it off as easy as that! When it’s done, it’s done. The longer you hang around him as ‘just a friend’ it will just be a cycle of dramas, NC, moving on, confrontation, etc.
Pack your bags and leave. If you won’t have the initiative to cut the strings, then I am telling you it will just be a cycle. The worst part about anything that’s self destructive is that it’s so intimate. You become so close with your addictions and illnesses that leaving them behind is like killing the part of yourself that taught you how to survive.
But when you love yourself enough, you will begin leaving whatever isn’t healthy.
How I wish you are strong enough to lift not just one but both of you. But you aren’t, honey. Stop trying to be a hero a d him a damsel in distress. He doesn’t need saving neither are you. Be your own hero and leave.
And leaving isn’t enough, you must stay gone.
Rihanna
Believe me and Steve when we tell you it is best to cut him off completely. It is no longer a question as to why he is doing that to you, the question you must address right now is why are you allowing him to?
If you need a friend, then find someone else. Never with an ex, I guess. You just have to open yourself to other people, and everytime he tells you he had never felt such deep connection he had with you with anyone else, of course he wouldn’t because you were once a ‘thing’. I will be betting that if you would just allow someone else’s (whether romantic or platonic) in your life then you’ll feel that deep connection too.
It has been more than a year, are you not yet fed up with such dramas?
You can tell alot about someone by the way he/she leaves you.
Rihanna
Okay, I am getting your point. But is he really just a friend for you? I mean, if he is just a friend you won’t go here almost shaken of not knowing how to tell him you are sorry? May be you are friends only for now, but sometimes, it is hard to draw a line since you were once together.
Just my sentiment. Cause in my case, no matter how I’ve said I’ve moved on and no longer in love with the ex, there is still a part of me that is never gonna behave as ‘just friends’ as in totally platonic. I hope you are getting what I meant. Hehehehe
Rihanna
Robot 3 is right I think 2 weeks is enough already. And if you think that a year has already passed and you’re still unstable maybe you should start evaluating whether you really need to fully cut him off from your life. Because I can see that up until know, he is still holding you back. I wish you the best!And about the woman I like, she’s not a head turner but her confidence in her own skin is so sexy I can’t resist. Confidence is really sexy, such a huge mind turn on.
Hi guys,
Sorry I’ve been busy at work again. I’m glad to see that the ambience is light although clearly not everyone has totally moved on from the memories of the ex yet, but still we are more collected than before.
Robot 3
I think Rihanna is right to ask you to do some NC with girls as well. Ha ha! As for me, I havr no plans of having myself tied in a relationship at this moment. Honestly, finding spark in the opposite/same sex is distracting in the moving on process as well since we tend to overlook what really needs to be addressed. But it is still up to you bro. But you see, whataver your decision is, it should not be based on someone else’s, think of what makes you happy in the long term even if you have to sacrifice for now.And P. S. My 1st relationship was with a girl with 2 young kids. Ha ha! I was 17 back then and she was 25. 8 years age gap, notice how I am into older girls. But I prefer women, not girls. Lol
Rihanna
I second to what Steve tells you about your ex. I think it is now time to COMPLETELY walk away. Because honey, it has been already a year and he still has a hold on you. By leaving the door open, you are allowing him to have the ball in his court. It is either you stay together or walk away, there is no in between. Sometimes you have to burn bridges, because as I can see too he is just keeping you in the back burner if in case he isn’t able to find someone better. Leave before it is too late. Respect yourself enough to walk away from something that no longer serves you.
Robot 3
Bro, I agree with you! I have to experience a very rough nreakup for me to value, care and love more my soon-to-be girlfriend. And too bad she will also remember me as a clingy, boring, possessive, obssessive ex boyfriend! Hahaha.
Steve
Wow! You had a kiss just as fast as that! But does she even remember? If suddenly you’ll fall for her because of the kiss then damn if that is jsut a drunk kiss from her! Haha. And thank you for putting my hopes up about the elder woman I am in love with. It is through that whether we will be together or not, it will be really against all odds. So come what may.Lorelei
Hi, Lady! I am glad you are in love again with your bestfriend! But I think it is unfair with the ex that you compared that your bestfriend is a looot better. Remember you are still in the honeymoon stage, so everything will really run smoothly. I am not telling you this because I want you to lose faith, I just want to say this because I don’t want you to be too overwhelmed that he is being good. Look at a person during the times when you have nothin and at your lowest. I hope he is the one. Keep us updated!Rihanna
OMG baby! You are still emotionally unstable until now?! You just have to say sorry for being mean and after that don’t reach out too much as if you have to put him in your arms and console him. Just tell him you are really sorry then wait for him to reach back to you too.On friday is the 1st anniversary of our rough breakup. We were together last time with common friends and ta-dah I am already talking to her and joking to her. I feel comfortable than before and I am no longer angry. We are in good terms right now. She asked me to go to gym with her since our workplace are just near each other, but I don’t want to overthink and just put in my mind that it is just a friendly invitation. And you all know I like someone older but I am trying to move on and tell myself to stop this insanity I am feeling again because I am in love.
Keep us all updated! ☺
