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Robot 3
I have been waiting for days for a reply. It didn’t notify on my mail.
About the woman I am currently admiring, she never had a boyfriend. I’m 22, she’s 33. She’s so young-at-heart, fun to be with, she moves lightly and gracefully. I am trying to distance myself because it is up to no good since she’s my colleague. And she is my boss.
I am moving on, but you know everytine I see her and we have interactions, I fall all over again. I am that much into her. And wow, about what you said that if I smile often then she will come and have a share. Wow bro! Wow!
I’ll try to do that one of these days if I get a chance. Honestly, when she’s around I don’t talk. I am always like that whenever someone I seriously like is within just meters for me. So I can’t shos her I’m a happy person. Haha!
Thanks bro! Now I kniw the secret to being robot3-like type of guy – to always be positive. Fist bump! ☺
My message was cut :/
It’s so shocking to know how easy it is for you to find girls who are interested in dating you as well. You might be sooo attractive. As for me, I prefer to keep my choices few. If i have so many girls to choose from, it might hype up my confidence but at the tlend of the day I might feel sad because I really mess up when I have lots of choices. Lol. I am a stick to one person even when it comes to dating. But as for you, dating lots of girls wouldn’t hurt until you find the one you would want to settle with
Robot 3
Hey bro, missed you! Unfortunately, I have fallen deeper for her already which makes it hard for me to confess to her since I haven’t done it before when it’s just infatuation. I let time pass because I said I have to make sure that I really am into her. Then bam, I have already fallen so deep. So what can you advise since you said to not fall in love with a colleague, what now?
And about the woman I love who is 13+ years older than me. It’s a bit complicated. Always complicated. Lol. She’s in my team in the workplace. And she is my manager. See?
It is risky if I will tell her how I feel. So right now, I’m just testing the waters. Trying to distance myself from her and having a one-on-one talk with myself if I should pursue her or not. I’m not sure if it is just infatuation or madness or what. Everyday, I see many girls I like a bit but at the end of the day, when I go to bed and ponder what has happened on my day, it has always been her.
At first it was just a simple crush. She’s so intelligent, humble, approachable, fun-loving and young-at-heart. We have many eye gazing times with each other. Not sure if she feels the same way or she’s just used to staring into people’s eyes because she’s a manager. But I fell in love with our eye gazes. Just like your ex, I am in love with her soul. During the eye gazing moment, it’s like I speak to her from my mind and say, TELL ME EVERY TERRIBLE THINGS YOU EVER DID AND LET ME LOVE YOU ANYWAY.
I am sapiosexual. For me, confidence and intelligence are the sexiest thing my soul has ever touch. I am turned on with the way she carries herself, the way she talks, the way she takes care of her people. I love her man-like voice, it comes up so sensual to my ears that makes my soul tingle in a very positive way. I am so inlove with her mind.
But right now, everything is so complicated. It is very risky. If I tell her and she doesn’t feel the same, it would be so awkward since she’s my manager. If we get to be together then people might think I am just using her for career advancement. But fuck what people think. But you know, I can leave the team no matter how promising the career in there is, all for the love of her, and start courting her from then on. But I am not sure if she’s into someone younger, it might feel a bit off for her. But my real problem right now is having enough courage to tell her that I appreciate her so much. Ha ha! But I love her not for the way she danced with my angels, but for the way the sound of her name could silence my demons.
Yeah, I love her. Ha ha!
Rihanna
I’ve been trying to log in since last month, and I can’t. But it’s good I was able to log in just in time that you needed me. Ha ha!
Well, given the circumstances you just presented then I think it won’t hurt if you’ll buy her the $2000 dollar worth ticket. Since you have $1500 dollars and can replenish your source on July 30, then I don’t think it would hurt. IF you sell another jewelry worth $400 then you are closer to that $2000 then maybe you can just find your way to having another $100 then voila, problem solved! The last piece you should consider not selling is the diamond, make sure you get a fair price for it. But if desperate times call for desperate measures, then do it after all you are not into jewelries. And if you came short and has to sell the diamond, just remember you have a priceless diamond in your life already – your mom. So if it wouldn’t hurt your pocket that much then you do it. After all you have been so busy growing up that you tend to forget that your parents are growing old as well. So when it comes to our parents, why wait for the right timebto have enough money to provide for them, right? Honestly, I don’t have any savings right now bec whenever my parents want something (even just foods or hang out) I eagerly say yes. Even if it’s the money I should keep for my own expenses. My reason? I’m already in my 20’s, my parents are nearing 50’s. If I don’t do it for them now, what gives me the assurance that I can do it for them some other time? They are not getting any younger. And when it comes to their wishes to eat or buy something, I always find a way to have money to provide for them. Because deny it or not, they won’t be here forever. And whatever I am doing now, it is all for them. So when it comes to giving your parents a bit of luxury to pamper themselves, I won’t accept no for an answer. JUST DO IT NOW, baby. After all, you can have more time repkenishing your source than having then wait when you can get rich and pamper them. And don’t forget to give her a hug and a kiss along with the ticket! ☺
Hi Oldies!
I’m sorry for the word but I FUCKING MISS YOU ALL!
I have read some of your posts before, it just so happened that I forgot my password so I cannot login. Thank God I’m back!
Rihanna,
Hi baby. I’m happy that you are doing good now. And that’s so on point to make your mum happy instead of trying to win your ex back. Your mum deserves all the love you can give.My advice: if the jewelries are ‘hand-me-down’ from your parents/ancestors, then don’t sell it. Sometimes, even a rock can have a sentimental value depending on who gave it to you. But if it’s your own jewelry that you bought, then maybe you can sell it especially if you aren’t that much into jewelries why not put it into good use, right. I kniw how much you want to give your mum a grand vacation she so much deserves, but if you’d go broke then don’t. I mean, your mum has love you all your life and she will understand if you can’t provide that for her. Even if you leave, you can just send her money when you have enough even if you are far away. I think your mum will feel more special if you’ll go on vacation with her no matter how simple. It will make her feel loved. Wish you the best!
As for me, on May 1 will be the anniversary of the break up. I have moved on. I even called her name when I saw her somewhere, which means it no longer matters to me. I am no longer mad at her because if you want to forget something, you shall nit hate it. For everything you hate gets engrave upon your heart. I’m totally fine meeting her with friends. The no contact I initiated helped so much. It hurt so much before but look at me now. It’s surprising as well that it has already been a year.
Now I am seeing the benefit of that bad break up. I now know what I want, what ai won’t settle for and up to what extent I’ll be adjusting for someone. I may seem guarded but I am just ten-folds wiser than before. Honestly, I am not wanting any rel at the moment. Being single is so fucking fun! I no longer like clingy rel.
As for future partner, I am looking for someone where we can maintain our individuality. You don’t get to be with someone who completes you. You have to be complete on your own and be with a complete person too.
Right now, I’m admiring/loving a new girl. She’s 13 yrs older than me. Never had a boyfriend. She’s in higher position at the office which makes me unsure to do some moves to get to know her. I am in love with her mind. Her intelligence is so sexy. Her thoughts, the way she carries herself confidently, her approchable nature all turns me on. And it’s not on a physical basis. It feels so good to be in love with someone’s mind.
Sorry for the long post, here’s a potato for you.
POTATO ☺☺
Wow! I admire you so much for being positive. I have a success story of NC and moving on although not totally. It has been 9 months since the break up and no contact at all. And the last time I saw her made me feel that the neurons fored up again. It has been a long time since we broke up I thought the longer time of NC the less possibility there is to get back together. May be may be not but in my case I feel more renewed and refreshed into rekindling the romance. Although I wouldn’t dare take a risk with her again. Ha ha!
Continue being positive! I am so inspired by you.
Hi JayEm
Congratulations! We have the same success story minus the ‘ex wanting me back’ part. But I think being able to just know what I am worth is a success already.
I’m gonna let her see the best of me too bad she could only look and not have it. I struggled a lot regaining my self identity and worth sp I wouldn’t risk it again with her this time. The only consolation I have is that at least I don’t have to deal with the guilt since she was the one who broke up with me.
I know you are a wise man to come up to a point that you set aside what you want and remembered what you deserve, but just an advice: You’ve picked yourself up and might moved on although nit fully but the best part is you can live without her. You can manage to be alright. If she wants you back even if you also want her back a bit, think gazillions times. Could you forgive her? With sleeping with the new guy? Do you trust her enough to know that she will not do it again the second time? If the answer is no then I don’t think it is worth trying to put your walls down again only for her to smash it down.
But anyways, good luck!
Hi Oldies!
So I see most of us are no longer frequent here. A good sign for everyone had moved on already though I miss you sometimes.
So today was a day off from work. Just imagine I’ve been sleeping for more than half a day. Bum life. I woke up from my sleep that I started last night just to have brunch then found a good book and slept since this early afternoon. I decided to put my blinds up so as to allow minimal light to enter for me to be able to close the lights and read at the same time.
I had a dream. I was texting a friend then I was on a place w the ex. She doesn’t notice me but she knows I am there. It’s like she is mad. Then the scenario changed. For almost 3 hours I’ve been asleep all I dreamt about was us having sex. Wow.
It’s like a flashback Saturday cos I have been dreaming of us having sex on different occasions before. It felt so good. It felt so familiar. It felt like home. Then I woke up and I was like, what the fuckng fck was it?! My manhood is throbbing and I am missing her. Or maybe just the sex. Or maybe not just the sex but the feeling of being intimate with someone.
I was like, why are you doing this to me?! I could just dream of having sex with some acquaintance or someone anonymous but instead it is still with the ex. Wtf. And I wonder if there ever comes a time when she dreams about us doing it too.
Maybe because it is where my body is most familiar with. So maybe I have to get used to recurring sex dreams with the ex until someone new comes along and overwrites every imprint of her on my mind and body. Looking forward
Hi guys!
I’ve been missing a lot! How’s everyone?
So, it has been 9months since the break up. Time flew so fast! We could have been on our 3rd year this February. We met again last weekend with our group of friends as a reunion. And this meeting was different from the others before.
We were meeting before with a group of friends but I am still madly in hate with her so I really try to avoid her as if she was some kind of virus. But last time, I was in the mood and so happy. She was the one who initiated to talk to me, asking me how I was. I returned the question and we had some little chit chat initiated by her ALL THE TIME.
I just felt happy and I miss the person she was. The sad part is I am starting to think of her again. Starting to want her again. Which I know is a no no. I don’t know if she feels the same or just want to reconnect as friends.
I have been running to my friends again asking for advice for I am confused if I am still inlove or just missing someone to cuddle with. I pray I wouldn’t mess it up this time and use my head more than my heart.
I keep saying my mantras:
NEVER RUN BACK TO WHAT BROKE YOU, and
STOP LOOKING FOR HAPPINESS IN THE SAME PLACE YOU LOST IT.Happy day to you all! ☺
HAPPY NEW YEAR, GUYS!
I am wishing for an awesome 2015 for all of us! 2014 had been my worst year so far. My life was a mess and my emotions had been all over the place. And I hope that would be the last time that I would be so emotionally unstable and in so much grief. Thank God he has given me my family, friends, and all of you as well which made this burden a little lighter. Thank you for you have always been there with me to share my pains and perspectives all throughout 2014.
I am hoping that next year we wouldn’t be talking much about our exes rather our happy experiences and what happened to us all throughout the days just to keep each other updated. I lost someone I used to love but I gained so much more and you are all a part of it! Let’s leave the exes to 2014 and start anew. Forgive and forget, if you can’t do both then just chose one. Forgive not for the exes but for ourselves. We don’t want to carry previous burden to this awesome yr to come!
Looking at the brighter side, the pain that we had felt (and maybe still feeling for a certain few) doesn’t make us less of a person. The pain is good in a sense that we are well aware that we would never want to feel the same kind of pain again thus making us more mature and responsible in our relationships to come.
NEVER RUN BACK TO WHAT BROKE YOU
I love you all!
Robot 3
I am proud of you! I hope you continue being in that kind of state of mind.
I am most of the time guilty of being with someone new as revenge to the ex. What an immature me. Not knowing that the ex might not care and it only makes me feel less of a person. And revenge is like a boomerang, whatever kind of pain you want to cause the other person is the same kind of pain that we feel when we fail to do our revenge plan.
And I agree with you drinking less. You should start drinking responsibly this 2015 because it stirs up the emotion so much. You wouldn’t want your ex and friends to think that you are so brokenheartedly wasted. Or let’s just say you wouldn’t want some opportunities to pass with you being drunk all the time.
Good luck bro! All the best
Val
It’s been 7 months also since she broke up with me. Ha ha! I guess most batch of Oldies here broke up last May. So yeah. Happy 2015 ahead, guys! I’ll have to go to work tomorrow though. Wish we could hang out or live in the same flat. Ha ha!
Daniel is so on point. You have to get hold of yourself. You are still actng desperate Rihanna. Do you want to go through this all over again? 🙁
Okay. Let’s say he texted you. Was it Christmas eve? It is already 26th here in PH. So if he texted you on the eve or on 25th, then it has been a day since already.
Let me ask you, after you replied to him, did he still text you?
