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Robot 3
I have problems with attachments too especially if I had been happy even for a short while in the company of someone.
If what you’ve read is true then I can tell you that I am so close to my mom. So maybe that’s why. Ha ha!
Rihanna
Okay. Kidding aside. I cna tell you that I can text someone without having anything to do with her. Since you’ve been acquainted w each other and it is Christmas season I can text you just bec it is like an obligatory greeting. You only put meaning to it bec you were expecting something out of it.
So stop making us think that it is his fault that you became emotionally unstable again, no one has the power to make you feel inferior or shaken without your consent.
Robot 3 can be right, it might also be a hint that he wants to talk to you again. But come to think of it, if he really does want you then he will find a way. Some girls complain that all men are the same. If you are that kind of girl then I suggest you stop dating the same kind of men. And you don’t half-love someone. There is no gray area, no maybe, no in between. It’s either he loves you or he doesn’t.
Since it is holidays then maybe he is just looking for some fling. If a guy wants you, he will find a way. Trust me.
Stop crossing oceans for someone who wouldn’t even jump puddles for you.
RIHANNA
I’ve told the guys that to be emotionally satiable I have to cut off some people in my life that no longer serves me. Since you adviserzoned me, I would have to cut you off so as to avoid future pain.
ROBOT 3
I had even looked up to the dictionary for the meaning of psychoanalyzing! Ha ha. I am familiar with the word but no one here use it often. Who am I psychoanalyzing, is it A. Z.? ☺
To be honest, I also don’t know what went wrong in our relationship. My ex knows but I wasn’t informed. But since she’s selfish then I just let her keep it to herself. Ha ha!
Same as you, I am so fond of making love to her. That at one point she asked me if that’s all I want from her. It’s like a cold water had been poured on my head that I didn’t do anything sexually inviting for a month to prove her it’s not all I want.
You are right, it might have shaken the foundation when the ex’s started questioning us about it. But I believe it is not all but just a part. So moral lesson next time is to just do sex when you are both at the mood to do it. Otherwise, we will be faced w the same question. Ha ha!
As they say there are some things in life that you better yet leave broken. All we have to do is to accept the fact that we were left hanging by the ex’s. Bec sometimes there are questions that are better left unanswered or we wished we didn’t ask. I never had the closure I wanted and it’s really hard bec it is like an open book, an unfinished ending, that no matter how much I try to end, it just keep coming back at times. But as I’ve told Rihanna, sometimes no closure is still a closure. So yeah
A. Z.
Hi. I feel bad for Julian for he lost the baby and wanted to be with someone serious but you know you are not the one because you aren’t ready to settle yet.
As with the new guy, what makes you think you are ready for him? What if the same thing happened with that new guy? You said you are not in for something serious, may I call it a hook up then?
If you want to head on with the new guy, I think you have to consider the ff.:
* Is he in for something serious? (bec if yes, it won’t last long since you are not ready for it)
* Do you really like him? (bec if not you might be wasting time and emotion to someone you really are not into but of course you can work it out and might like him later on)
* Are you both looking at the same perspective? (it has to be clear to him what you would want and what you wouldn’t go for so as to avoid future pain in either of you)I agree with Daniel to give yourself a break. Having someone new to admire you is very overwhelming. But try to pause for a while and assess what you really wanted. Good luck, honey!
Daniel
I think we can manage to become emotionally satiable by cutting off some people in our lives. No matter how selfish it may seem, you would have to. Because it will drag you down in the long run. Let go of what no longer serves you. Not because you have to but because you want to ☺
Loreley
There is no problem if you feel like having drama for Christmas. I am not sad nor missing her. My ex was the most selfish person I know so know regrets. The only thing I am thankful to her is that she broke up with me first, at least I don’t have to deal with the guilt. And I’m glad she broke up with me bec I would never have the courage to do so. She’s like a cloud that when she disappeared from my life, it’s a much brighter day. Ha ha!
I understand what blues the holidays give. But maybe the other person feels the same way too but it is never a good reason to get back together. What I do is I go out this holidays.
Tomorrow, I’ll be going out with family. The day after, with my high school friends. And college friends the day after that. You can just ask your friends to go out with you and do partying, in that way you don’t have to snuggle with yourself in the corner and feel sad. If you live someplace far from friends and family then you can just go out and meet random people (w/o attachments of course). Some people will be more open to having a small talk since the christmas ambience is very widespread. You’ll never know
Robot 3
Wow man. I haven’t clean my room in like… Ah, let’s forget I opened about it. Ha ha! Happy Holidays man! Make drinking responsibly your new year’s resolution
A. Z.
I just thought about you a while ago and there you are now! I miss you so much honey! You’re no longer a frequent here. How are you and your baby now? ☺☺
Robot 3
Wow. You seem so tame today. That’s something new! Ha ha.
Well, we all have the good personalities we had liked in an ex. Like my ex was sweet. But let us not forget what they became now. Your ex might have those good personalities but is it still existing? She might have changed now into a monster that makes you cringe. So there is no point into clinging unto somthing that is no longer existing that will only make you feel blue. Before i am having a hard time moving on bec I keep thinking she is the way she is now. I told myself that she is an angel not a monster. But as days go by and with the treatment she’s giving me, i convinced myself that the old is gone and the new has come. So i was able to mve on by stopping defending her attitude to myself.
You’ll feel better anytime soon bro. She might be missing you too. But i think holiday blues is not enough reason to get back together and regret it the next year ☺
Dara
Oh no. Ypu just miss someone to snuggle with since it is holidays. Would you rather sacrifice for a short term happiness instead of ling term? You can just have random flngs this holiday, man.
HI GUYS
2015 is fast approaching. I’ve been so bisy to even notice that Christmas is just 3days ahead. I wish us all a good and content life for 2015. Before 2014 ends let us try to leave what must be left in 2014. As much as possible forget the pain, hurt and resentment towards our exes. We don’t want to bring the bad vibes to the New Year.
I love you all. Wish we live close to each other!
