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  • #5946
    sunshinegirl
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    Dara,
    Haha I know I know! My ex was amazed how I can have that smooth skin and he loved my hair πŸ™‚ When I went to a wedding with his family, his mom kept asking me that whether I wore stockings because my skin looked so smooth πŸ˜€ And my hair is super black and super straight, like most Asian girls. I cut and donated 15 inches this summer tho, but I still love my current hair style a lot! Aw after typing these, I feel more happier about myself! Thanks πŸ™‚

    I’ll watch that movie this weekend! Like the girl you talked to, I am only available during weekend too! Haha

    And yeah I believe you will have a sexy girlfriend soon too!

    #5949
    a.z
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    Dara,
    I’m so happy that you’re feeling good.I’m sure you will find that super sexy girlfriend soon.

    #5971
    Rihanna
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    Hi my lovelies,

    Festival David, you are such a stunner! What was your ex thinking letting you go? I felt the same when I saw Steve’s pics, what was she thinking too then I thought, maybe he has some other issues hahahahaha (jj)… But seriously, thanks so much for sharing those pics, some of them brought back memories for myself πŸ™‚ … Keep those pics coming pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeease πŸ™‚

    Sunshine, Yes we do have many things in common πŸ™‚ I hope you’re doing well …

    Dara, I love your posts. I love reading your romantic story with your previous ex and yes, it is sad how circumstances force us to make decisions. Perhaps, you could go to canada and surprise her with a visit? That would be soooo romantic and cool πŸ™‚ … And I know someone will get super jealous but who cares about her anyway!

    All my love to you all xxx

    #5977
    Robot 3
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    Rihanna,

    I saw my ex today at gym! She had lied to me about her moving to Oregon! She’s still here! She wanted to make me jealous! F**k this monster! She lied to me again! I did not get jealous but wished her good life in Oregon!

    Rihanna, if I see that ex, we’ll probably marry really fast! I don’t know why but I want it to happen slow with a new love! I should confess that I was crazily in love with that ex! That love was much more logical that this one! I should add something romantic here that she used to call me and sing for me some nights!

    Oh, I’m sorry for talking bad about my last ex. She was awesome too, even though she treated me like a sh!t!

    a.z. & Rihanna,

    Today was like a paradise! Some big boobs girls smiling and me grinning back… Oh! That’s too much!

    Boys,

    I’m sure that you are smarter than me! I’m sorry for acting so snobby! At this moment I’m drunk! I speak bullshit! I’m sure all of you can do great things around! I was just trying to boost some gone egos! Cheers!! πŸ˜€

    sunshinegirl,

    Don’t take it easy! Do you know what does “yellow fever” mean? When someone is in love with an Asian, he/she is called to have yellow fever! I see a lot of boys and girls around me suffering from “yellow fever”! I know a couple of friends who are mad about Asian girls! So, believe me there are a lot of fishes around that are already crazy about you! Cheers!!

    #5998
    Rihanna
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    OMG A.Z, a guy who is from Sydney and is an artist? hmmm, is that my ex? hahahaha… that would be so crazy LOL … Thank you for your encouraging words my ex keeps telling me he loves me but can’t be in a relationship with anyone! I do believe him when he says he hasn’t been in love before until he met me and I felt the same way with him especially cos he was my first real relationship… But I’m glad you enjoyed yourself in a camping trip and that this Sydney guy who is an artist (eww hot! lol) came along. Good on you for making your first outing in a group and for not coming across as someone hurt and wants a quick fix (if you know what I mean)… I’m staying single for a while because I want to give my heart whole when I’m ready… I’d love to be your FB friend, how can we do that?

    I’m very happy for you and would love to hear more about your adventures with the artist… But be careful, from experience artists are moody … They love you to death and can’t breathe without you one day but if you upset them by little they shut off for a while … If you can get him to fall in love with you, you’re in for the greatest adventure of your life. My ex and I would do paintings blindfolded for serious exhibitions lol, spend the day indulging in food and wine and art, then poetry and then… πŸ˜‰ … But it was so great between us two because we shared the same interests in life for art and history and some hobbies etc… WE improved each other as well… we felt like we’ve known each other from before we were born or even before creation, that’s how close we were though we only been together for less than a year… and if you share the same intensity with him but with some logic too, FANTASTIC! Look at me blab… All the best, keep us posted πŸ™‚

    Dara, So glad you’re enjoying girls with boobs haha… I admire your love for life and determination to move on good on you…

    Love you all xxx

    #6011
    Joe
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    Hey all!!

    I was doing so well most of last week and it all went down the drain this past weekend. Being a long weekend, I started thinking about what she could be doing and /or who she could be doing.. I miss her so so bad..

    I’m sure that if I don’t contact her.. then I’ll never hear from her again. Its weird how I felt so positive after my therapist appt and now I feel like breaking NC and running back to her.

    I feel like we were so comfortable and perfect for each other! We liked to same things and did everything together! I really wanted to marry her!! But the sad truth is, she wasn’t the marrying type. She never wanted to get married. She said, “being in a relationship/marriage is never truly being yourself! I was going thru our old texts messages from our last conversations and I read where she stated that. I never thought much about it till now..

    I actually am going to see the therapist again today.. hopefully she can help me snap out of this.. Or else…. I’m not sure if I can keep up this NC!

    Just in case you wanted to know.. today is day 43 of NC.

    WTF!!! Why can’t I shake this disease

    Joe

    #6013
    FestivalDavid
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    Hey All πŸ™‚

    Awww Thanks for the kind comments,

    The trip was great, i would love to post more pics, but just too many to pick and choose, upload to dropbox and then delete them on dropbox, as afterall I dont know who can see the photos haha

    Ive posted a quick update on my thread I started, Ive held off posting updates as nothing has really changed, but basically its an update for the past 3-4 weeks in 1 post ha

    xx

    #6015
    FestivalDavid
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    Joe

    Dont worry mate,its all normal

    I still think about my ex and still thought whilst I was in my Trip…its perfectly normal.

    The only thing I will say is, You just answered your own question.
    “If I dont contact her, I feel we will never speak again”…If thats true…Why bother contacting her?
    Someone has to reach out at some point so I wont say dont ever contact her, but curious how much NC are you trying to do?

    Ive contacted my ex numerous times and each time has replied to me etc…but its nothing more then that, she even said to me herself, It doesnt matter if I do stuff with other people…if she wants me she will come get me.

    Stay Strong πŸ™‚

    x

    #6016
    Joe
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    Thanks David!!

    My situation is a bit complicated.. As are others on this site..

    To answer your question..

    I don’t think I’ll ever contact her again! I want her to want me.. if not.. then like you said, “whats the point”

    I want her out of my mind.. But to touch on something Dara said (which i think plays a huge part in my mind… is Sex) I miss sex with her big time!! she was the best I’ve ever had and I think she felt the same about me.. Its sad that what I miss the most is only sex..

    #6020
    RAED
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    Oldies!!!!!

    Damn, guys. I miss you so much! I am so sorry I have been really busy lately. So busy that I have no proper eating and sleeping time!

    I met a girl. She’s egyptian. I liked her and at first we were both nice to each other. She’s sweet, affectionate, playful and fun to be with. But now she goes back to her country so everything seems to be cold and distant πŸ™

    So don’t tell me I am gonna have another heartbreak with this new girl I haven’t even had a relationship with?! Lol.

    Anyway, I would try to move on and focus on something I should be busy about.

    I missed you all especially Rihanna. Got lots of catching up to do :-*

    #6048
    FestivalDavid
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    Joe

    Haha, Everyone misses the Sex, but in all honestly I know you said “its sad that I miss the sex the most”

    You may THINK that, but I think we are all just associating the sex with the ex etc…Its like I agree totally with you, that I also think Sex with my ex was the best ive ever had!

    The things we did together, things I did with her and how comfortable we were together..I think “omg im never going to find that again, she was the best” etc “Omg now shes going to be doing all that stuff with other people and not me” and those thoughts drive me wild!

    But lets be realistic, its not the sex you miss, its the closeness you developed, because if it was just the sex that we all missed….no doubt everyone of us would be hitting the streets and getting laid and we wouldnt be here posting.

    Why are we all here? Because its the bond we all made with our ex’s and of course sex is part of that but its the bond that made the sex great!

    You will find someone else to have that closeness with because the closer and comfortable you are in a relationship the sex will get better imo

    All my ex’s Sex I thought was the best, but now I think my most current was the best ;)….but im hoping I can find someone else to beat that too πŸ˜‰

    x

    #6069
    Robot 3
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    Welcome back Joe!

    I’m eager to hear what your therapist said!

    Joe, (sorry if it sound rude or impolite) but I guess you’ll end up being like me! Yet, I believe you still need 3 months to start liking being single!

    I agree with David that it was closure but it mostly appeared in the form of sex. I still long for the sentences she said to me while doing sex. I miss the her first reaction to my naked body–the glow of her eyes and the smile on her face!

    Update: It’s been a couple of days that I’m hanging out with a girl. I was afraid that she’s under 18 but she is 21! Today we booked a ticked to watch football this weekend. I’m hoping for a sex ASAP!

    Last night I was too drunk to explain that girl who gave me a big really long smile was the one I had talked to about two months ago! Since then she made a lot of eye contacts with me but I did not give her another try. I guess, she likes me! πŸ˜€ So, I have an awesome big boob backup! I will talk to her sometime later!

    Today, me ex’s boss saw me with this new girl. Previously she had seen me (pathetically) lonely at many different places including sitting alone under drizzling rain. She also saw me come to her office 3 times looking for my ex last week. When I told her that I’ve come to see her she said she could guess that and I felt more pathetic last week!

    Joe, I was like you! Probably a.z. or Rihanna may remember me saying that I don’t have much hope! I was right!

    RAED,

    I’m glad that you were busy with this girl lately! Let her go! Find another one!

    a.z.,

    Where are you?!

    #6081
    a.z
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    Rihanna,
    Thank you so much my lovely friend.I will ask kevin for your contact info so we can become FB friends xoxo.

    Raed,
    I’m happy for you.You are doing really well.I’m sure you will find an amazing girl soon.

    Dara,
    I’m here πŸ˜€

    #6092
    a.z
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    Joe,
    I agree with David.sometimes we might be confusing the connection and intimacy that comes with a long term relationship with being perfect.So if we start a new relationship, it’ll always pale in comparison to the old one. Simply because we can not reach that level of connection and intimacy in a short amount of time. Ask yourself, do you want your ex simply because you associate her with a long term relationship where you have a very high level of connection and intimacy.

    Write down what you expect from your ideal life partner and what you expect from your relationship. Then compare it to your ex and your past relationship.
    Its really normal that you miss her.I still miss my ex.Every situation is unique and if we couldn’t get back together,it doesn’t mean that you can’t.Just love and respect yourself.Its ok that you miss her don’t worry about anything.As long as you are working on yourself you are moving forward and thats great.

    #6113
    Robot 3
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    Ladies and gentlemen!!!

    My b**chy ex decided to piss me off and I should confess that she was successful! I saw her in front of the gym this evening! She was talking on the phone! She hardly talks on the phone! I could say that she’s talking to a boy! I ignored her and went inside and started my workout! She usually goes upstairs to use treadmill. This time she came downstairs, right in front of me and started talking to the guy right in front of me! This guy was maybe 20cm (8″) shorter than me but 20cm (8″) taller than my ex. A good combination for them but a degradation for my ex! This guy’s face structure was kind of like mine and her previous boyfriend! I am yet not sure if he is her boyfriend but chances are really strong and it pissed me off to see this happening right in front of my eyes!

    Joe, I believe you understand how I feel! Talking to a new girl everyday! Asking for a number every couple of days! Dating someone every couple of weeks but this scene pissed me off! The ugly fact is that I’ve let her go but I got pissed off!

    Anyway, this made me think! It is correct that I will be dating this new girl for now! But I am looking for the best girl I can find! For sure she’ll be far beyond my ex!!

    Thank you all for reading this!

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