Coolcat

Well I broke up with my ex last year or well he broke up with me and he tried to stay away as long as he could but would find ways to come back into my life however he’d disappear again quickly. Just do what you have to do and let her be. I even went on a date last year my ex then attacked me through text for what I was doing and was like goodbye I can’t be anything with you. I ignored these messages for a while he eventually came back less than a week later asking to meet me kind of teary and saying he missed me and wanted to try again. Clearly didn’t work out but I dong think he made any changes to himself.

Sorry I don’t know what I was saying above he didn’t message me again. He didn’t respond to my last message I have no idea what he’s thinking at all. I don’t think this time is like last time kind of like I mentioned above

I’m not worried that he didn’t respond I just wonder why lol. Cause he messaged me again after I went out with a friend and posted a photo on fb. I’m not quite ready to delete him off fb that will be hard for me as I like seeing his little face on there plus it helps me stalk :/. Lol oh I know he’s an asshole so don’ worry about that 😛 look at him messaging that girl after he started things up with me again, makes me feel completely used and like shit. I’m sort of hoping at this point he’s starting to question his position though and that I’m not reaching out to him at all and that I don’t really care if he cancels the movies and stuff.

Now in regards to you I don’t think you should reach out to her family and thank them just yet. I still think its very early days in your breakup. I would do it when things are either getting better between you two or things seem final and over. Lol don’t worry about the NC and stuff look at my ex being the one to reach out to me regarding everything. Its not working in my favour really lol but you don’t need to reach out to her to rekindle interest. Post photos on fb of fun activities or something like that. And don’t like her photo. No matter how good things are between my ex and I he doesn’t go near anything on my fb lol. He knows I love fb and getting likes and stuff.

Well I was being supportive when it seemed like he sort of wanted me back which was around the interview and I was there for him completely so the above conversatin for him probably would have been like what the fuck. Cause he didn’t even respond to my last message however to sure why. He said even if we’re not friends and shit he’ll still let me know how that shit goes with his career which is odd. I dunno what do you think. It just seems like some times he just can’t stay away. Which is when i worry that when and if i ignore him it will piss him off.

And even if you guys were together she should be able to do whatever se wants right ? Just cause you liked her hair long doesn’t mean she should keep it like that should she ? Don’t take it as an attack on you (it might help in getting your attention which she wants) but women always do things with their hair. Just don’t give her the reaction she could be looking for.

Hey final shine how are we doing ?

Just thought I’d give you an update. My ex was online this morning on fb even though he had been at work for two hours already and was still working (we work in retail so its pretty hard to be on our phones) like he was stalking me as he knows my work schedule. Anyway that morning after I start he sent me a message regarding his career change. About a month ago he had an interview for a brand new career (which was daunting to him given he is 31) but I was always supporting him. Anyway I met up with him right after his interview and he was like I really needed you here today and then that was the day he started things up again kissing me and stuff. However it burned out not much after. Anyway he messages me on fb and this is how it went:
Him: Didn’t pass the interviews so its another year to wait. Gayyy.
Me: Sorry to hear that. You’ll do better next time.
Him: All good I was expecting it.
Me: Where do you think you failed at (even though I already knew).
Him: It was the interview process, haven’t had a proper look yet.
Me: Well you’re right there’s always next year.

He then didn’t respond to that. I tried to keep it unemotional and a little supportive but I can’t just be there completely for him i’m trying to show him I’m not just there compleltely. I’m kind of worried though it might upset him but I also want to make him think a bit. He didn’t respond so i wonder what he was thinking.

I’m feeling ok actually. I feel as though i might be starting to get over my ex however I know that when he messages me or if i ever see him i’ll be right back to square one again even though its three months on. Its redic its dragging on this long. No word from him today and he normally has contacted me on saturday sometime as its his last day off before heading back to work for the week and he’s done it consistently for the last month. I did however go ice skating with a friend tonight and i uploaded a public snapchat which he was the first to view and then a photo of me on the ice. Today hasn’t been my day at all though lol, no word from ex and then see cute guy at gym but with a girl who’s his girlfriend :(. Lol just my luck hey.

Do not reach out to your ex ok 🙂

That ending to your convo wasn’t so bad just don’t let anything important come up now lol.

Lol well the difference between you and my ex is that he sit at home drinking alone ir with his roomie and plays his video game all the time. I saw he played it last night and a lot of todsy too lol. I don’t know if I can wrap my ex back around my finger. He’s not putting in any work on himself and we haven’t talked in days now so I’m struggling to see how haha.

Also I have seen this cute guy at the gym. I could see him looking at me through the mirror as I was doing legs but that’s about it sadly haha

I feel the same as you in regards to no contact and that it will help them move on and we are doing them a favour. But either way Nc will help us cause we either move on ourselves or they realise they miss us like we hope so hopefully it’s a win win either way. Now that being said I don’t think you need to say I need space or stop contacting her like perhaps take it on a case to case basis depending on what she is saying and how important it is. But congrats on being in the clear ?.

Yeah im definitely not going to meet up with him cause he couldn’t even follow thrlugh on a meet up he organised. I do think I could do better than him and everyone else thinks so too but you can’t help who you love right. You’re right I am needy but I haven’t put any of it onto him we wouldn’t only meet up when he wanted or if he wanted to if I asked but there was definitely no pressure from me. Still no word from him three days on. Odd. I see he’s heen playing PlayStation all afternoon after he finished work. Fun. I’m not scared I was giving this cute guy eyes and he was looking at me as I was squatting but he was with a friend as well.